Relationship Tips

Keep these tips in mind next time you're going on a first date!

Keep these tips in mind next time you’re going on a first date!

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, acing a first date isn’t something that you can pull off immediately.

There are key factors that you should take note of to really wow the woman you’re going out with and easily convince her to have another date with you soon.

So if you’re looking to take your chances of acing your next first date, here are some important tips that you should keep in mind…

Get her in on the planning.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you think that all of the planning and organizing of a first date should be your responsibility.

However, you’re already missing out on a number of opportunities to impress the woman you’re going on a date with if you have this mindset.

Besides having an idea of the stuff that she likes, you will also make her feel that you’re really interested in her, which easily scores you a lot of brownie points in her book while at it.

Keep a close eye on your grooming.

Sure this may sound simplistic, but not making it a point to keep a close eye on your grooming for a first date will already lead to disaster before you know it.

This is because women are very particular with how a man looks and smells. If you don’t make the cut, she’s just going to have a surge of stress hormones in her body that won’t raise her anxiety levels, but also make her feel impatient in the process.

Just imagine how your first date will turn out when this happens.

(Here are some key grooming tips that will surely get you on the right track.)

Switch your mobile phone off.

The woman you’re going on a first date with will simply feel that she’s boring you to death if you check out your phone every couple of minutes.

Keep in mind that your texts, voice mails, status updates and tweets can wait for later. This also applies to other gadgets that you may have like tablets and mp3 players.

Listen to her attentively.

Always remember to listen to her as closely as you can when you manage to engage her in a meaningful conversation.

Besides getting to know her better, you’ll also promote a boost in positive hormones in her body, which will make her feel comfortable, relaxed and excited.

And just imagine what will happen when she starts to associate these feelings with you…

So should you go out with her again?

So should you go out with her again?

Now here’s the situation…

You’re going out with a woman the first time and you aren’t quite sure if there should be a second date in the works.

And unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, making this decision is more than appearances as well.

So if you’re still having a tough time deciding if you should go on a date with her again, here are some key factors that need to be in your checklist to help you make the right choice…

Where is she focusing her attention?

Sure things might start a bit awkward between the two of you, but if you see that your date is spending most of her time checking out her phone and other gadgets or perhaps flirting with the waiters, it basically means that she’s not worth it to take on a second date.

Your date should have the notion that she should be focusing her attention to you because you’re on a first date.

(Here’s a nice way to break the ice, though.)

How does she treat the people around you?

You can already have a pretty good insight of how your date will treat you if you observe how she treats other people around you when the both of you go out the first time.

If the woman you’re on a first date with is generally nice to everyone, you’re in the clear for a second one.

If she acts terribly to other people – especially to the serving staff – well, it’s not worth it to take her out again.

What does she talk about during your time together?

Getting a meaningful conversation going on a first date is definitely a must if you’re looking to ace the whole thing.

But the thing is if she’s talking about her exes, chances are she is still in touch with them and may not be really ready to meet new people after all.

And that simply means you should pass up on a second date.

Does she listen to you when you’re talking?

One of the attributes of a good date is being a great listener.

If you notice that she can’t seem to hang on even a single word that you say, it simply means her mind is on something (or someone) else, which makes it really tricky to engage her in a meaningful conversation.

It could also mean that she’s tough to please. It’s a smart idea to bail out as soon as you can.

Get closer with your girlfriend with these simple pointers!

Get closer with your girlfriend with these simple pointers!

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, it doesn’t mean that you’re already in a romantic relationship with a woman that you should stop charming and attracting her.

Besides leading to a slump in your relationship sooner or later, this will also cause possibly serious problems that can even result to a breakup in the long run.

And you know how terrible that will be for you and your special someone when it happens.

So if you’re looking to become closer with your girlfriend, make sure you follow along to learn how to do just that using a few simply pointers…

Give her a sincere compliment every day.

Make it a point to give your girlfriend a sincere compliment daily. Apart from making her feel that you still love her a lot, it will also promote a surge of positive hormones in her body that will boost her confidence and happiness levels.

And interestingly, positive hormones also make her sexually aroused. How’s that for two for two?

Send her unexpected gifts.

Women love surprises. And you’re sure to make your girlfriend feel really loved and cared for if you keep in mind to surprise her often with gifts, notes and flowers. You don’t have to go for expensive stuff, too. The simpler and more meaningful your choices are, the better.

A hand-written card and a bar of chocolate will already do. There are also a lot of variations for this strategy so you won’t have a tough time mixing it up.

Thank her daily.

Saying a simple “thank you” because you have your girlfriend in your life is a smart move to get closer with her. Follow up with a straightforward reason why. I know this sounds really simplistic, but this is really sweet for your girlfriend and more brownie points for you, my good man.

You can also put thank you notes in her bag, post it on the fridge or perhaps somewhere that she won’t expect to find them there.

Let her call the shots during lovemaking.

I know that you already have an idea of the things that your girlfriend likes between the sheets, but there are a lot more that you can learn from her if you just let her run the show the next time you two are at it in the bedroom.

Simply asking her to do so is also going to make her more adventurous in bed as well.

Stop believing in these premature ejaculation myths!

Stop believing in these premature ejaculation myths!

How long you last between the sheets plays a very important role when it comes to giving your lover a sex session that will definitely knock her socks off.

But what’s really interesting is a lot of guys make a very simple mistake that inadvertently boosts their vulnerability of experiencing premature ejaculation when things are getting hot in the bedroom.

And this mistake is believing in a few premature ejaculation myths that only make the whole thing worse. Make sure you follow along to find out what these are and improve your chances at really lasting longer in bed…

Premature Ejaculation Myth #1: It becomes more intense as you get older.

I’m pretty sure that you’ve already heard that your ability to last for as long as you can during lovemaking becomes more and more unreliable when you reach a certain age.

However, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male sexuality that age doesn’t have anything to do with premature ejaculation at all.

The same key factors like the speed and intensity of your thrusts apply no matter how old you are when it comes to activating your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.

If you make it a point to go as slow and easy as you can and concentrating more on your partner’s pleasure, chances are you’ll be able to hold back premature ejaculation without a fuss.

Premature Ejaculation Myth #2: It is abnormal.

Some men think that premature ejaculation is something that is unnatural, but it actually isn’t. A lot of guys around the world are experiencing the same sexual issue. Sure going off too soon while you’re at it in the bedroom can be rather worrying, but it’s doesn’t mean that you’re the only one suffering from it.

Premature Ejaculation Myth #3: It is permanent.

This is perhaps the biggest premature ejaculation myth of all.

Now while coming really early before you’ve even got started between the sheets can make you feel really anxious, this sexual issue can be fixed if you know what to do.

And the biggest mistake that you can ever make is reaching for artificial products that claim to get rid of premature ejaculation like pills, creams and gels that can make the problem even worse in the long run.

Besides making sure that you only have happy thoughts when things are heating up in bed, keeping in mind to take things smooth and easy is also a smart move to keep premature ejaculation at bay.