Relationship Tips

You could be dating the wrong woman if...

You could be dating the wrong woman if…

Now here’s the situation…

You’ve been dating steadily with a woman for quite some time now and still can’t decide if you should take your relationship to a whole new level anytime soon.

It’s either you make the right decision as early as now or possibly become miserable in the long run. And you definitely won’t want to go through that sooner or later, right?

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. You’ve come to the right place when it comes to helping you make the right choice.

Here are a few signs that you’re dating the wrong woman…

Does she pay attention to you when you’re talking?

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, listening isn’t just about exchanging ideas. It’s also a subtle way of saying of how a person really feels about you.

Although you shouldn’t expect that the woman you’re dating to hang on to every word you’re saying, it’s another story if she almost always deliberately ignores you when you’re talking, especially when you are sharing something personal.

The same thing goes if she’s always on her phone even when you’re together.

Laying off the phone rule also applies to you.

Does she still talk about her exes?

Sure it’s inevitable that you will have a conversation about her ex-boyfriends sooner or later, but it’s definitely a red flag is she always sneaks the subject in your conversations.

See, this is because it is a sign of either being insecure or perhaps she still hasn’t gotten over her past relationships.

And there’s also a very big possibility that you will be a hot topic in her conversations when your relationship won’t be successful.

Does she arrive on time?

She’s basically giving you the notion that you’re not really that important to her when she is always late on your date and other activities.

Now while being a few minutes late once in a while can be understandable, it’s definitely another story if this happens all the time.

Does she treat the people around you nicely?

Sure she may be really nice to you, but make it a point to observe how she treats other people. It could be the waiter serving your food, the barista whipping up your brew, the hotdog vendor down the street or perhaps the cabbie you’ll ride with.

If she treats them properly, this means her attitude is genuine. However, it’s a red flag if she treats them otherwise.

Is your date always going mum on you?

Is your date always going mum on you?

One of the factors that play a key role in giving a woman you’re on a date with an awesome time is getting a meaningful conversation going.

Besides giving your date the notion that you’re not a phony and willing to open up to her, you’ll also know a few personal things about her that you can use to dazzle her as you go along.

However, there are a few things that you need to keep in mind when it comes to engaging a woman you’re on a date with in a meaningful conversation.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

Have a confident speaking tone and rhythm.

Before even thinking about getting a conversation going, keep in mind to have your end of things up to par.

Apart from making sure to utter your words confidently and in the right volume, remember to pronounce your words clearly while at it as well.

This is to ensure that she will understand what you’re talking about, which is extremely important.

Share a funny story.

One of the easiest ways to encourage a woman to talk with you is by tickling her funny bone.

You can share a joke, tell her an amusing anecdote or perhaps describe a funny scene in a movie or TV series you just watched.

Besides making her laugh, this also promotes a sudden release of positive hormones in her body, which is a good thing.

One thing to keep in mind, though. Don’t overdo it by telling her funny yet risqué stuff or things will just lead to disaster.

Ask her something trivial.

Unlike what some guys mistakenly think, talking about complicated stuff won’t make your date think that you are smart and attractive.

She’ll just have the notion that you’re full of hot air.

Instead, ask her trivial questions like what her favorite cartoon character is or what kind of pie she prefers. Sure this sounds simplistic, but it actually helps a great deal.

You’re not just encouraging her to share ideas with you, but you’re also getting to know her better in the process.

Vary your topics.

Talking about one topic the whole time can become boring sooner or later no matter how interesting it is in the first place.

Make it a point to mix things up from time to time to keep the flow of the conversation going smoothly.

So you're still not acing that first date...

So you’re still not acing that first date…

It’s either you make a good impression on the woman you’re on the first date with or blow your chances to go out with her again.

And unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, doing just that isn’t something that you can pull off by following the stuff that self-proclaimed “pickup artists” are saying these days.

You can’t ace a first date by acting like the alpha male or perhaps putting on loud clothes. Come to think of it and put yourself in your date’s shoes for a minute.

If the man you’re on a first date with acts like a jerk and dresses funny, would you ever think about going out with him again anytime soon? Well, there’s your answer.

Moreover, while researching extensively into the female psychology, I’ve learned a few things that can easily blow your chances of convincing a woman to go on a second date with you.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

You immediately put on the moves on her.

Women think of first dates as friendly situations where they can meet new people.

And you will just end up creeping her out if you start putting on the moves on her as soon as your date starts, which means that your date won’t turn out like you’d expected.

Keep things as friendly as you can to make her feel relaxed and comfortable around you, which gets you on the right track to getting that second date.

You bash previous first dates.

Although it’s important that you get to know your date better, simply doing a tell-all about the bad first dates that you had is one of the worst things that you can do.

This is because it will just make her feel that you’ve got a lot of emotional baggage to get rid of.

It will also give her the notion that if your date will turn out bad, she will also think that you’re going to gossip about her on your next first date.

You don’t ask trivial questions.

Encouraging a woman to talk to you is not about trying to impress her about the complicated stuff that you know.

You’ll be surprised with the results if you ask her simple and trivial questions.

Put yourself in your date’s shoes for a bit. Would you rather talk about a subject that you don’t have even the slightest inkling about or something you can easily relate to?

These signs mean that you're trapped in the friend zone...

These signs mean that you’re trapped in the friend zone…

The friend zone is perhaps the last place that you will want to get stuck in when relationships are concerned.

But the thing is a lot of guys don’t seem to have even the slightest inkling if they’re trapped in the friend zone or not.

If you’re looking to keep yourself from getting stuck in the friend zone anytime soon, here are some key signs that you should look out for…

She always introduces you as a “friend.”

Now while being close friends with the woman you’re really attracted to is one of the foundations of establishing a romantic relationship with her, always being introduced as a “friend” already gives you an idea how she sees you in her life.

You can correct this situation by directly telling the woman you like that you’d want to be more than friends with her to give her the notion that you’re a potential boyfriend material.

She talks about her exes and crushes when you’re together.

Although listening attentively to a woman is a priority when it comes to making a connection with her, you know you’re in the friend zone when she always talks about her exes, crushes and other relationship matters when the both of you are talking.

While this is a sign that she is comfortable enough to open up to you, you must also tell her that you’re not in it for being just friends, but also for being more than friends. Or else you’ll be simply a “shoulder to cry on” for her.

She always asks you to go shopping with her.

Even if going shopping with her means that you’re already spending time with each other, it’s another story if she just lets you accompany her to help her pick clothes and accessories. This is supposed to be a job for one of her girlfriends and not yours.

Keep in mind to take her someplace else other than shopping when she asks you. And make it a point to be an awesome date, too.

She always asks you to pick her up.

Now while it’s alright to do this once or twice, it’s definitely another story if you always find yourself picking her up at 3 AM because she is so wasted to drive.

Draw the line between being just a friend and a potential romantic interest to really hit the message home.