Relationship Tips

Boost your chances of making her like you with these pointers.

A lot of guys mistakenly think that the best way of making a woman to like them is by showering her with lots of gifts and attention right from the beginning.

Now while this may sound like the most rational way to pull it off, you will only make her think that you just want something from her in return.

Like simply getting her in bed.

So if you’re looking to make a woman you’ve got your eyes on to like you soon, here are a few pointers that will help you do just that easily…

Respect should be your top priority.

Respect is a very important element if you’d like to connect with a woman on an emotional level. Show her that you respect her at all times and she’ll see you an adorable and likable guy. Just don’t overdo it or else she might think you’re only fit for the friend zone.

Make her feel that you always listen to her ideas.

If you’re following my posts for a long time now, you probably know that women have a soft spot for men who are great listeners. Apart from feeling that you really value their time, women also think that they can talk to you for very long without feeling bored or awkward in any way.

Moreover, no matter how dull her topics may be, never try to interrupt or manipulate the conversation your way. You’ll be surprised how much she’ll enjoy talking to you more.

Get to know the things that she is interested in or she loves doing.

Making a woman connect with you emotionally involves having to share a common ground with her, which makes establishing an emotional connection with her much easier. Make it a point to learn the things that spark her interest, match them up with the stuff you like and work from there.

Whether it’s books, movies or sports, letting her know that you complement the things that hold a special place in her heart can easily earn you a lot of brownie points with her. Just remember not to lie or pretend even a bit while you’re at it because she won’t have a problem seeing through your ruse and then it’s game over.

Make her feel that you want to be a friend.

Instantly hitting it off with a woman is only something you see on TV or in the movies. Before you can successfully make her like you, building a personal relationship with her should be a priority.

Start off by making her your friend. Introduce yourself to her properly so she won’t just see you as some creepy stranger. Make her see you as someone likable. Keep in mind to avoid acting like somebody you aren’t since she’ll only see you as a pretentious creep while at it as well.

She’s sure to have her mind blown with these massaging tips…

Unlike what most guys mistakenly think, massages aren’t just for relieving stress and getting rid of knots in aching muscles.

You can also use them to warm up a woman for lovemaking if you just know how to pull it off. And the good news is it isn’t as complicated as you may have previously thought.

So if you’re looking to take your lover’s sexual arousal levels off the charts the next time you do magic with your fingertips, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind…

Get her mood going with the right playlist.

Music can easily improve your lover’s mood during a massage. Choose tunes that are slow, easy and provocative. Besides allowing her to feel totally relaxed and tranquil, hearing sexy music will also make her think about erotic things between the sheets – making it even easier for you to get the job done.

Grab some scented candles to make her feel more comfortable.

Having scented candles on your checklist the next time you give your partner a massage is definitely a priority. Apart from adding a touch of daintiness that women love, scented candles also come with amazing aromas that make her feel calmer during the whole experience.

If you still can’t make up your mind which scented candles to go for, choose jasmine and chamomile. They don’t just have a soothing effect, but also smell awesome. Fruity variants like apple, cherry and peach are also available, too.

Go the extra mile and clean and organize your bedroom while at it, too.

Go for areas near her sexy zones.

Just to give her an idea that you’d like more than giving her a massage, make sure you stroke the muscles near her pelvis, thighs and lower back. Apart from occasionally brushing on your lover’s erotic parts, you can also easily gauge where you need to focus more simply by observing her reaction while doing so.

Look and smell like you’re a snack.

How you look and smell when you’re giving your lover a massage can easily make or break your chances of getting her sexually excited no matter how hard you try. Make it a point to prep up meticulously before getting into action.

Besides taking a shower and having a spritz of deodorant and cologne, it’s also a good idea to trim your fingernails while at it so your lover won’t be feeling any unintentional painful pinches and nips when she’s already getting all relaxed and cozy.

And the snack part? She might just forego the massage and get straight to the action.

Steer clear from the friend zone with these tips!

If you’re anything like most guys, it’s either you experienced getting stuck in the friend zone or very much afraid of being so. But the thing is there are simple pointers you need to keep in mind to avoid getting trapped in it.

Let me explain what I mean…

Getting stuck in the friendzone is definitely one of the most awkward experiences that you’ll ever go through.

However, unlike what most men tend to mistakenly believe, falling in the friendzone trap doesn’t just happen.

It is actually the result of the choices that you made as well as the decisions that you went for as you’re building a relationship with a woman.

And what’s really interesting is there are key reasons why a lot of men tend to get themselves stuck in the friendzone. Make sure follow along to find out what these are…

You don’t tell her you have romantic intentions for her.

Letting a woman know that you’re looking to have a romantic relationship with her is a priority if you want to do just that.

Come to think of it. How does she know that you want to be closer with her in a more romantic way if you don’t tell her in the first place? Tell her straight up if you’re looking to avoid the friend zone!

You can tell her this using a simple text message, a card with flowers or some other nice gesture that you usually do. You can even tell her while you’re doing something that you two like.

Just keep in mind to do it sweet and simple. Complicating things will only result to the opposite.

You spoil her. A lot.

Say a woman you like sends you a text message at 2 in the morning asking for a ride to some place or a bite of her favorite pizza, what would you do?

Now while doing this once or twice is perfectly fine, you’re definitely on your way to being friendzoned if you make it a habit.

You’re just unconsciously telling her that you’re a chump when you do this. And women don’t like chumps.

You make her feel that you’re the nicest guy in the universe.

Now while I am not saying that being nice is an attribute that you should check off your checklist when it comes to building a romantic relationship with a woman, being too nice is just going to be a disaster sooner or later.

Aside from making a woman feel that she can easily manipulate you (just imagine how that will turn out), she will also get the notion that you’re not that exciting to be her love interest.

Make it a point to turn down the nice factor down a notch and you’re good to go. Be the boy next door, but not the doormat.

Is she cheating on you? Find out now!

Is she cheating on you? Find out now!

If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably had your suspicions about your girlfriend’s faithfulness once or twice in your relationship.

Sure there may be times when your hunches of infidelity are just plain silly, but there could be hints that she’s already seeing someone else if you just know what to look out for.

Now while I am not saying that your girlfriend is a cheater, it’s better to have an idea that she’s having an illicit relationship than being the last to know in the long run.

Here are the signs that you should keep an eye on to determine if your sweetheart is really faithful to you or not…

Her attitude suddenly changes.

Although it’s quite normal for women to experience bouts of anxiety occasionally, noticing that your girlfriend is acting rather defensive and nervous around you almost all the time is a possible sign that she is cheating on you.

She instantly gets riled up when you ask her how her day was or who she was with. She also tries to pick a fight with you every chance she gets even if you just asked her a simple question.

Her phone becomes something really off-limits.

Now while we all have some sort of attachment to our mobile phones, your girlfriend could be hiding something if she doesn’t leave hers lying around even for a few minutes and carries it with her everywhere she goes.

She even gets extremely irritated if you try checking out her phone. Plus, she leaves the room to receive a call and wouldn’t want you to see what she’s keying in when sending a text message.

(Here’s why you should send her kinky messages, too.)

Her friends act sketchy.

Noticing a big change in the behavior of her friends towards you is a possible sign that your girlfriend is having an affair with another man.

This behavioral change could be a sudden closeness that they did not have for you before or getting unexpectedly ostracized by them out of the blue.

They probably know something you don’t and are covering up for their friend so you won’t have a clue about it.

Your sex life goes kaput.

Perhaps this is the biggest clue that she’s already not that faithful to you.

Your sex life has virtually become non-existent.

She either says she’s too tired or she has a headache every time you try heating things up in the bedroom.

She always has excuses to avoid doing the deed with you.