Massaging Tips

She will surely love these massage tips!

She will surely love these massage tips!

Properly getting a woman sexually aroused is essential if you’re looking to give her a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.

And I’ve learned that one of the best ways to do just that is giving your partner a sensual massage.

Besides being very relaxing, you can also stimulate some of her erogenous zones like the inner thighs, back of the neck and the “treasure trail” or  lower abdomen while at it to get her going for action between the sheets as you go along.

So if you’re looking to really wow her the next time you give her a massage, here are a few useful tips that you should keep in mind…

Clean your bedroom.

Your primary objective when giving a woman a massage is promoting a surge of feel-good hormones in her body so she can unwind and get really cozy.

One thing that prevents that from happening is a messy bedroom.

See, instead of stimulating her body to release feel-good hormones like dopamine, it’s just going to churn out their negative counterparts, which will only trigger the opposite effects.

Pick the right tunes.

Your choice of music can easily make or break your chances of really getting her in the zone when you’re giving her a massage.

Make it a point to go for tunes that are slow, downbeat and don’t involve any bit of bass drumming at all. I highly suggest instrumentals or ambient sound.

The idea here is to make her feel as comfortable and relaxed as she can and not getting down to the music any moment.

Stock up on massage oils.

She’s going to find your moves rather boring if you don’t get your hands on massage oils.

See, besides making your strokes and caresses smoother and gentler, these massage oils also provide unique scents that will excite her senses even more while you’re working your magic on her.

I suggest picking scents that are easy on the nose like the ones sourced from herbs, fruits and flowers.

Let her guide you.

Sure you may already have an idea of the things you need to do when you’re giving your partner a massage, but it’s still best to let her call the shots while at it.

Make it a point to ask her how much pressure she prefers, the spots she’d like to be stimulated as well as the techniques that she likes during the action.


These massaging tips will surely get her going.

These massaging tips will surely get her going.

The pleasurable sensations that a woman experiences during lovemaking greatly depends on how sexually aroused she is.

The more fired up your partner is for action between the sheets, the more powerful and intense the sensations she will feel the moment you take things up a notch as you go along.

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, I learned that giving a woman a sensual massage is one way of really getting her in the mood.

And here are a few useful pointers that you should keep in mind when you’re planning to work your magic on her with your fingers…

Make things spic and span.

Comfort and relaxation are the two most important factors that you need to prioritize when prepping her up for a massage.

She won’t be feeling as refreshed and rejuvenated even if you’re getting your already getting your massage A-game into play if she thinks the place you’re giving her a massage is dirty and messy.

Remember to keep things in apple pie order to really get her going.

Have some nice tunes.

Music not only helps get her relaxed, but also somehow intensify the sensations that she will experience when you get busy on her with your massaging moves.

Go for slow, downbeat tunes that promote her brain to take it easy for a while. Avoid those that have prominent bass drum beats because they will prevent her from really getting cozy.

My personal suggestions include slow jazz, ambient as well as instrumentals. You can also pick sounds like raindrops, sea breeze and the like if you’d like a more natural feel while at it.

Don’t forget the cream.

Massage cream, that is.

Your massage is going to be more pleasurable for her if you use one because besides making your strokes smoother, she’s also in for some refreshing aromatherapy action in the process.

You can also go for oils and liniments if she prefers stronger and more pronounced aromas.

Go slow and easy.

Massages are supposed to be gentle and soothing. They should not be hurried and given as if you’re impatient and rushing to be somewhere else.

I know this sounds tedious, but the rewards are just worth it. Apart from making it easier for her to get ready for action in bed sooner or later, she will also have the idea to give you a nice massage anytime soon.

These tips will help you knock her socks off during a sensual massage...

These tips will help you knock her socks off during a sensual massage…

If you’re anything like most guys, giving your lover an unforgettable sex session is no doubt the top item in your checklist when the two of you are already heating things up between the sheets.

Apart from really knocking her socks off as you go along as well as boosting your chances of making her achieve an orgasm or two, making this a priority will also make her want more action in the bedroom.

And one of the best ways to help you get the job done is giving her a sensual massage.

Pulling it off isn’t just about working your fingers all over her body, too. Here are a few key tips that you should keep in mind to give her a mind-blowing sensual massage…

Your bedroom should be in apple pie order.

Women are really into cleanliness and organization.

And unless they think and feel that they’re in a place that is comfortable and relaxing for them, they will just experience a surge of negative hormones in their bodies sooner or later.

Your partner will just end up feeling anxious and impatient when you’re massaging her, which isn’t the result that you’re aiming for. That’s even if you’re bringing your A-game into play while at it.

Play some nice tunes.

If you’ve been following for a long time now, you probably already know that music plays a key role in stimulating a woman’s brain to produce and release positive hormones.

Besides making her feel more relaxed and comfortable, she won’t have a problem getting her sexual mood going if you play your cards right as well. A pick that I find really effective is slow jazz.

Have the right stuff.

Giving your lover an amazing sensual massage involves having stuff that will make the experience more intense and enjoyable for her.

It is really smart to have at least a couple of bottles of aromatic oil on hand, preferably those that have a musky and citrusy hint to them.

Besides making your massaging techniques smoother and more intimate, the added aroma will also make the whole affair quite rejuvenating and sexy for her at the same time.

Slow and easy is key.

Keep in mind to go as slow and easy as you can when you’re already in action. Sure this may sound like you’re preventing your partner from really enjoying the massage that you’re giving her, you are actually making each caress, stroke and rub more intense for her.


Give her a sexy massage with the simple pointers.

Give her a sexy massage with the simple pointers.

Unlike what most guys mistakenly think, massages aren’t just for relieving stress and getting rid of knots in aching muscles.

You can also use them to warm up a woman for lovemaking if you just know how to pull it off. And the good news is it isn’t as complicated as you may have previously thought.

So if you’re looking to take your lover’s sexual arousal levels off the charts the next time you do magic with your fingertips, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind…

Pay close attention to your hygiene.

How you look and smell when you’re giving your lover a massage can easily make or break your chances of getting her sexually excited no matter how hard you try. Make it a point to prep up meticulously before getting into action.

Besides taking a shower and having a spritz of deodorant and cologne, it’s also a good idea to trim your fingernails while at it so your lover won’t be feeling any unintentional painful pinches and nips when she’s already getting all relaxed and cozy.

Light scented candles.

Having scented candles on your checklist the next time you give your partner a massage is definitely a priority. Apart from adding a touch of daintiness that women love, scented candles also come with amazing aromas that make her feel calmer during the whole experience.

If you still can’t make up your mind which scented candles to go for, choose jasmine and chamomile. They don’t just have a soothing effect, but also smell awesome. Fruity variants like apple, cherry and peach are also available, too.

Stimulate muscles near her erogenous zones.

Just to give her an idea that you’d like more than giving her a massage, make sure you stroke the muscles near her pelvis, thighs and lower back. Apart from occasionally brushing on your lover’s erotic parts, you can also easily gauge where you need to focus more simply by observing her reaction while doing so.

She might even stop the massage and go straight to lovemaking if you’re playing your cards right, too.

Put on some sexy music.

Music can easily improve your lover’s mood during a massage. Choose tunes that are slow, easy and provocative. Besides allowing her to feel totally relaxed and tranquil, hearing sexy music will also make her think about erotic things between the sheets, making it even easier for you to get the job done.