Massaging Tips

You won’t give her an amazing massage session unless…

Giving your lover a massage she won’t easily forget anytime soon isn’t just about knowing how and where to knead your fingertips all over her body.

It’s also about having an idea of a few surefire pointers that will definitely take her relaxation levels off the charts even before you start your massage session.

So if you’re still not that confident about giving your lover the relaxing massage she’s always wanted, here are a few tips that will easily help you make her look forward to the next one in no time…

Totally commit yourself to it – or else you’ll just give her a flat experience.

It’s not enough that you want to give your lover a relaxing massage.

You also have to dedicate yourself to the task ahead. Unless you do that, you’ll only make her feel that your touch is a bit hurried and rather uncomfortable – and your chances of getting her in the mood for lovemaking will plummet, too. You’ll also appear impatient and not enjoying what you’re doing.

Quality means a lot more than quantity when it comes to choosing your massage oil.

The oil you choose for your massage can either mean its complete success or the entire opposite.

Besides providing the necessary lubrication to allow you to glide your fingertips easily all over your lover’s body, it can also give off an awesome aroma that will surely take relaxation up a notch even further.

Although there are a lot of oils to choose from, make sure you ask your lover first what her preferences are to really make her feel like royalty.

Your music and her relaxation go hand in hand.

Music doesn’t just help your lover ease her mind to achieve full relaxation and lose her inhibitions to totally enjoy the experience. It also makes her more perceptive to the sensations that you’ll give her as you stimulate her with your fingertips.

Go for songs that are slow and easy like instrumental tracks and ballads. Make sure you take a listen to them first before including them in the playlist to avoid an awkward mix-up. If you think you can get to sleep with a certain song playing, it’s a keeper.

Clean, organize and jazz up your massage venue.

Prepping up the place where you’ll give your lover a good rubdown should be a top priority on your checklist. Make sure you get rid of clutter and give the room a meticulous vacuuming to get it as spotless as you can.

Now while this may sound surprising, a woman can’t fully relax during a massage if she thinks that the environment you’re in is messy or needs a bit of cleaning first. You can even take the whole thing up a notch by making the room smell nice while you’re at it.

She’s sure to have her mind blown with these massaging tips…

Unlike what most guys mistakenly think, massages aren’t just for relieving stress and getting rid of knots in aching muscles.

You can also use them to warm up a woman for lovemaking if you just know how to pull it off. And the good news is it isn’t as complicated as you may have previously thought.

So if you’re looking to take your lover’s sexual arousal levels off the charts the next time you do magic with your fingertips, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind…

Get her mood going with the right playlist.

Music can easily improve your lover’s mood during a massage. Choose tunes that are slow, easy and provocative. Besides allowing her to feel totally relaxed and tranquil, hearing sexy music will also make her think about erotic things between the sheets – making it even easier for you to get the job done.

Grab some scented candles to make her feel more comfortable.

Having scented candles on your checklist the next time you give your partner a massage is definitely a priority. Apart from adding a touch of daintiness that women love, scented candles also come with amazing aromas that make her feel calmer during the whole experience.

If you still can’t make up your mind which scented candles to go for, choose jasmine and chamomile. They don’t just have a soothing effect, but also smell awesome. Fruity variants like apple, cherry and peach are also available, too.

Go the extra mile and clean and organize your bedroom while at it, too.

Go for areas near her sexy zones.

Just to give her an idea that you’d like more than giving her a massage, make sure you stroke the muscles near her pelvis, thighs and lower back. Apart from occasionally brushing on your lover’s erotic parts, you can also easily gauge where you need to focus more simply by observing her reaction while doing so.

Look and smell like you’re a snack.

How you look and smell when you’re giving your lover a massage can easily make or break your chances of getting her sexually excited no matter how hard you try. Make it a point to prep up meticulously before getting into action.

Besides taking a shower and having a spritz of deodorant and cologne, it’s also a good idea to trim your fingernails while at it so your lover won’t be feeling any unintentional painful pinches and nips when she’s already getting all relaxed and cozy.

And the snack part? She might just forego the massage and get straight to the action.

Looking to give her a massage session she won’t easily forget? Read this.

Giving your wife, girlfriend or lover a massage is not just a great way to soothe her tired muscles. It’s also a smart tactic to warm her up for sex…if you just know a few handy tricks that you should do before getting into action.

Unlike what most men think, giving your partner an unforgettable massage isn’t just about how good you are at kneading her muscles. It also involves knowing what factors to keep an eye on to make sure she’ll enjoy every bit of it.

Surprise your lover the next time you give her a massage by keeping these tips in mind…

Step 1: Prep up your bedroom as meticulously as you can.

Now while this may sound surprising, not taking time to prep up the place where you’ll do magic with your fingertips can easily screw the whole thing up. And chances are it’s going to be the bedroom. Women are basically sticklers for cleanliness and organization. Your lover won’t be able to fully relax if she thinks that the room where you’ll give her a massage isn’t clean and organized enough.

Make sure you give your bedroom a meticulous cleaning and remove any clutter. Put on fresh pillows and sheets as well as change the drapes. Remember to integrate accents like scented candles and essential oils in the mix to give her the notion that you really took the time and effort to give her an unforgettable massage.

Step 2: Help start her bath.

A soothing bath is a nice way to start relaxing your lover’s muscles even before you really got started with your massage session. Although the usual soap and water combo will already suffice, adding in fragrant oils and similar aromatics will definitely take her pleasure levels off the charts.

Make it a point to personally prepare her bath. Apart from making your lover feel extra special and earn extra brownie points in the process, she won’t also have to do a lot of movement that will tire her muscles even more.

Step 3: Keep in mind to have all the stuff you need.

Don’t even think about giving her a massage if you still don’t have all the tools you need to give her one that she will remember for a very long time. Besides assembling a kit with lotion, talcum powder and similar massaging essentials, you also need to have a few towels handy to make sure she’ll stay cozy and warm when you knead her muscles.

Step 4: The tunes matter a lot.

You can entice your lover’s senses even more by putting up a nice playlist for you to groove on while you massage her. Go for smooth tunes that are generally slow and easy to listen. The best genres to pick are ballads, rhythm and blues, instrumental as well as jazz.

And now, sir, you’re ready for action.

Read this if you think she's going through PMS.

Read this if you think she’s going through PMS.

Dealing with a woman who’s going through premenstrual syndrome or PMS can be rather tricky if you don’t have the right knowledge to help you during this time.

Now while coping with her can be quite challenging when PMS gets in the picture, it doesn’t mean that you can’t pull the whole thing off.

Here are a few things that I’ve picked up during my extensive research into the female psychology that you’ll surely find useful the next time she’s experiencing PMS…


A lot of guys tend to panic when they’re having the notion that their lovers are experiencing premenstrual syndrome. Sure just thinking about PMS can be quite harrowing for a man, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t help your partner through it.

You’ve also got to remember that you won’t be much of help either if you’re going to be more anxious compared to your partner when she’s having PMS.

Understand that she’s going through a rough patch.

Women are prone to experience mental, physical and emotional fluctuations during PMS because the balance of hormones in their bodies is disrupted during this time.

Don’t let your partner’s crankiness and mood swings get to you. It’s the hormones that are talking when she snaps at you and not her. Make sure you’re very understanding with her while at it, too.

Make her feel positive.

Interestingly, it’s the negative hormones in her body that are raising her stress levels through the roof when she’s having PMS. The best way to counter their effects is to promote a buildup of positive hormones to prevent the situation from getting worse.

Besides telling your lover that you’re with her all the way, you can also send her cute cards with positive messages, uplifting text as well as affectionate gifts that remind her you’ve got her back.

Giving her a nice massage is a great option, too.

Ask her how you can help her.

As a guy, you won’t have a single clue what she’s feeling when PMS strikes. Keep in mind to ask her how you can help her when it happens. Never assume anything because it might give her the idea that you’re not eager to be of assistance, which will just lead to disaster.

Give her some alone time.

If your partner tells you to leave her alone, do what she says. However, this doesn’t mean that you should avoid her completely. Keep in mind to check on her from time to time just in case. Just remember that this will all change in a few days.