Foreplay Tips

These breast stimulation tips will surely help you blow her mind.

These breast stimulation tips will surely help you blow her mind.

It’s no secret that guys have a fascination with women’s breasts. And I’m pretty sure that you always include them in your sexual checklist each time things get extra steamy in the bedroom with you and your lover.

Sure the breasts are quite abundant with sensitive nerve endings that have the ability to produce pleasurable sensations when stimulated the right way, but there are some key things you need to remember to really give your lover an experience she won’t forget anytime soon when you work your magic on them.

So if you’re looking to really knock her socks off the next time you pleasure her breasts, make sure you keep the following pointers in mind…

They need time to prep up for action.

Unlike what you see in porn movies where the actors usually make a beeline for the actresses’ boobs as soon as the scene kicks off, doing it in real life will only make her feel either awkward or uncomfortable.

See, akin to the clitoris that needs a bit of time to get ready, the sensitive nerve endings in the breasts also need some time to churn out pleasurable sensations. This means going fast and furious will just lead to disaster.

And when you rush the whole thing by stimulating your partner’s breasts prematurely, the sensations that she’ll feel won’t be like you expected. It’s also smart to remember that going slow and easy helps intensify the sensations that she’ll feel.

Don’t go straight to the nipples.

Although the temptation to immediately get busy on her nipples is just too great to shake off when you pleasure your lover’s breasts, zeroing in on them as soon as you can will just produce sensations that are more annoying than awesome for her.

Make it a point to start things off by pleasuring the sides of your partner’s breasts.

Besides making her feel teased, which will boost her excitement levels, her body will also churn out more positive hormones like oxytocin and dopamine that make it easier for her to achieve orgasm as you go along your sex session.

Vary your stimulation techniques.

Now while you may already know the things that your lover likes when you’re working your magic on her breasts, keep in mind to go at it with different techniques and pressure levels.

This prevents her from thinking that you’re doing the same things again and again each time you work your magic on her breasts, which makes the pleasurable sensations she feels dip down.

Here are some reasons why she's avoiding sex with you nowadays.

Here are some reasons why she’s avoiding sex with you nowadays.

If you’re anything like most men, I’m pretty sure that you’d like to get as much action in the bedroom as you’d like to with your lover.

However, the only problem is you’re simply noticing that she’s not as eager to heat things up between the sheets these days.

Sure this is rather frustrating for you, but chances are you’re just making a few mistakes that are preventing your partner from getting it on in bed. Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

You are neglecting your hygiene.

How you look and smell are key factors when you’re looking to get your lover in the mood for some steamy action in the bedroom. Unless you make her think “sexy” and not “icky,” your chances of convincing her to make love are going to be rather slim.

Make it a point to always keep a close eye on your overall hygiene and you’re on your way to bringing back her sexual excitement in bed again.

Your bedroom is messy.

Now while this sounds surprising right now, the cleanliness and organization of your bedroom can easily make or break your chances of getting her in the mood for a sex session.

See, women are very critical of how organized and clean your bedroom is. If it’s in apple pie order, it won’t be that tricky to get her lovemaking groove on. It’s a different story when your bedroom looks like it desperately needs some vacuuming and organizing.

You’re getting straight to the jackpot.

Unlike guys who can get totally ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, women need a bit of time to really prep up for action in bed.

And when you’re almost always making her feel rushed when you’re already at it in the bedroom, she’ll just have the notion that you’re just looking to satisfy your own sexual desires. Make it a point to really heat her up before taking things up a notch.

(Here’s one simple way of firing her up for a lovemaking session.)

Your sexual moves need updating.

Although you may already know the stuff she likes when you’re already at it between the sheets, doing the same stuff over and over again will just make the experience flat for her sooner or later.

Keep in mind to mix things up in the bedroom from time to time and you’ll be surprised how eager she’ll be to do the deed.

Looking to finger her? Read these important tips first.

Looking to finger her? Read these important tips first.

Fingering your lover when things are already getting extra steamy in the bedroom is no doubt one of the most versatile sex moves that you can ever do.

Besides giving your partner different sensations compared to when you sexually penetrate her using your penis, working your magic on her using your fingers also helps stave off premature ejaculation while you’re at it.

Now while you may already have a general idea of how to give your lover a fingering session by now, I’m going to walk you through some crucial pointers that you need to keep in mind to make the experience really awesome for her.

So if you’re looking to really knock her socks off the next time you finger your partner, remember to have the following pointers up your sleeve…

Keep a close eye on your grooming.

I know that you think this is just about the hygienic side of things, but it’s actually so much more. See, not giving your hands the grooming TLC they truly deserve can make fingering a horrible experience for your lover.

Apart from making her feel rather uncomfortable when you don’t trim your fingernails like you should, you’re also making her vulnerable to a number of health issues if you just go ahead in use your fingers for sexual penetration without giving them a meticulous scrub first.

Slow and gentle does it.

Some men mistakenly think that going as intensely as they can when fingering starts is the way to go when it comes to making a woman feel good.

Now while you need to stimulate your lover’s vagina to produce pleasurable sensations, doing it like there’s no tomorrow as soon as you get the chance will only lead to disaster.

You need to keep in mind that starting slow and easy is a must to ease your partner into it and keep her sexual arousal up to par. Besides observing her body language, you can also ask her if she’d like it faster and more intense as you go along to find out if you already need to up the ante.

Stimulate her other erogenous zones.

Remember to pleasure her other erogenous zones like the breasts, inner thighs, nape and lower abdomen to intensify the sensations that your partner will experience when you finger her.

Having a fingering session doesn’t mean that you just have to focus on sexually penetrating her vagina with your fingers. You can also, let’s say, “multitask” while you’re at it.

Keep these factors in mind when you're looking to go down on her.

Keep these factors in mind when you’re looking to go down on her.

Awesome oral sex and mind-blowing orgasms are pretty much connected with each other.

You’re sure to give your lover the latter when you explore south of her border like you should when things are already heating up in bed.

Now while you may already have a checklist of the spots to stimulate as well as the techniques that you should bring into play when you go down on your partner, I’ve learned some useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that will help you take her oral sex satisfaction through the roof.

Let me explain what I mean…

Oral sex booster #1: Prioritize her comfort.

Before you start getting busy with your mouth, lips and tongue on your lover’s nether regions, make it a point to ensure that she’s really comfortable.

See, her level of comfort is crucial when it comes to her body’s ability to produce and release positive hormones. These hormones basically set off her sexual arousal and activate her orgasmic responses.

The more positive hormones are in her body, the higher your chances are when it comes to knocking her socks off during oral sex.

(And you can kick things off by cleaning and organizing your bedroom.)

Oral sex booster #2: Vary your positions.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, giving a woman oral sex isn’t just about making her spread her legs so you can start stimulating her erogenous zones like the clitoris, vulva, “the treasure trail” and inner thighs.

You can experiment with how you can pleasure these spots by varying your positions from time to time. You can begin your oral sex session with her on her back, then with her bending over and with her kneeling.

You surely won’t make her feel bored during the whole thing because there are practically countless ways to pull this off.

Oral sex booster #3: Mix it up.

Keep in mind to always mix things up as you go along during your oral sex session.

Besides frequently changing the pressure you apply on her erogenous zones down there, make it a point to use a different technique every few minutes to keep her guessing what will happen next.

And since she’ll be on her toes when you’re doing this, you’ll just make her more sexually aroused and excited. How’s that for two for two?

Oral sex booster #4: Ask for directions.

Remember to ask her where she wants to be stimulated next and how you should do it. You’ll be surprised with the awesome input that you’ll get from her when you do this.