Fingering is no doubt one of the most versatile sexual techniques you can go for when you and your lover are already at it between the sheets.
Besides being able to stimulate your partner’s clitoris, which is no doubt the most sensitive erogenous zone in her body, you’re also preventing yourself from coming way sooner than you’d like to while at it.
Knocking her socks off with loads and loads of pleasurable sensations while keeping clear of premature ejaculation at the same time? Definitely a win-win situation during lovemaking.
But the thing is a lot of men mistakenly believe that fingering a woman is all about making a beeline to her vagina and clitoris and stimulating them like there’s no tomorrow.
If you’re looking to really give her a mind-blowing experience when you work your magic on her with your fingers, here are some useful pointers you need to keep in mind…
Her sexual arousal should be off the charts.
Unlike what you see in porn flicks, your lover should be as fired up for sex as she should or else the whole thing won’t be as awesome for her even if you’re bringing your fingering A-game into play.
It’s really important that you get her as sexually aroused as you can to make her skin, particularly in and around her erogenous zones, extra sensitive as well as get her juices flowing down there, too.
Prematurely pleasuring your partner will just make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.
Check your fingernails.
Sure this sounds a bit surprising right now, but your fingernails can easily make or break your chances of giving her the sexual satisfaction she wants when you finger her.
Make it a point to keep your fingernails ideally trimmed and cleaned or else they will simply annoy or hurt your partner when you get in action.
Moreover, dirty fingernails can also make her sick so keep them properly clean and clipped.
Slow and easy is crucial.
It’s not true that attacking the vagina and clitoris vigorously during fingering is important to immediately get her on track to experiencing a blast of pleasurable sensations. You’re better off by starting things slow and easy to get her in the right rhythm.
Don’t worry. She’ll be the one asking you to speed things up when the action’s already getting hot.
Pleasure her other erogenous zones.
Fingering isn’t about focusing on her vagina and clitoris. Don’t forget to give her other erogenous zones like the breasts, inner thighs, lower abdomen and back of the neck the attention they deserve in the process.