Foreplay Tips

Do these to get more blowjobs!

Do these to get more blowjobs!

Ah, blowjobs.

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that getting head from your lover is one of the things that you’re looking forward to when things are sizzling up in the bedroom.

Besides giving you loads and loads of pleasurable sensations, getting some oral attention from your partner also makes you feel really manly.

However, you’re simply noticing that she’s not as eager to go down on you during lovemaking these days.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, it doesn’t mean that your days of getting BJ’s from your partner are almost over.  Chances are you’re not just properly easing her into it in bed.

Make sure you follow along to learn a few things I’ve picked up during my extensive research into the female psychology that will help you convince her to get down and dirty south of your border…

Don’t be bossy.

Now while showing initiative during lovemaking is a strategy that a lot of women will find stimulating, overdoing the whole thing will just keep her from going down on you.

This is because you’ll just give her the notion that you’re already bossing her around. Make it a point to ask her firmly yet still in a gentle way.

You can also start things off by giving her an awesome oral sex session yourself.

Never beg for it.

Sure getting cute with your partner when the situation calls for it is alright, but actually begging for a BJ when you’re at it in bed is just going to lead to disaster.

See, apart from giving her the idea that you’re whiny, she’s also going to have a surge of stress hormones in her body, which can easily sap her sexual mood.

If she declines when you ask her to go down on you, don’t fret or show her that you’re upset. You can ask her again as you go along during your lovemaking session.

Make her feel that you really like it.

Always make your lover feel that she’s the greatest when she goes down on you.

Remember to appreciate the things she does and be rather vocal when she’s already getting busy down there.

Just keep in mind to tell her of the things that you don’t like while at it so she won’t do them again the next time around.

Keep your hygiene down there up to par.

Put yourself in your partner’s shoes for a bit. Would you be game enough if you don’t look and smell so good down there?

Well, there’s your answer.

Are you doing these during foreplay? Stop!

Are you doing these during foreplay? Stop!

When it comes to giving your lover an experience in the bedroom that she won’t be forgetting anytime soon, getting an amazing foreplay session going is definitely a priority.

Giving your partner awesome foreplay makes her more sexually excited. The more fired up for sex she is, the easier it will be for you to make her reach the Big O as you go along.

But the thing is a lot of guys mistakenly think that foreplay is all about reaching for a woman’s erogenous zones like the breasts and clitoris to stimulate them.

This move will just make your lover feel awkward and uncomfortable, which can ruin her sexual mood before you know it believe me.

And speaking of things that can sap her sexual mood, here are a few more foreplay mistakes that I’ve come across during my extensive research into the female psychology…

Not jazzing up the bedroom.

Women are very particular with cleanliness and organization. And if she finds your bedroom messy and dirty, her sexual arousal could take a nosedive.

This is because her stress levels will rise, which cancel out the effects of the positive hormones that are needed to get her sexual arousal in gear.

Make it a point to give your bedroom the organizing and cleaning it deserves before you get the action going.

Not putting on some nice tunes.

Music basically helps your partner get relaxed.

And if you’ve been following my posts for a while now, it won’t be that tricky to make her fired up for lovemaking if she feels really comfortable.

Besides getting her mind at ease, nice tunes also have a sexy feel to them.

Can’t decide which ones to pick? For starters, slow jazz, instrumentals and ballads can get you on your way.

Not varying your techniques.

Sure you may already have a general idea of the things your lover likes during foreplay, but simply doing the same stuff over and over will just make them flat and boring in the long run.

Keep in mind to always have new techniques up your sleeve when you and your partner are already at it in the bedroom.

She’ll also become more excited because you will keep her on her toes in the process.

Not keeping an eye on your grooming.

Remember the pointer I’ve emphasized about women and cleaning and organizing? It also involves your overall grooming, too.

Make it a point to always keep an eye on how you look and smell before you sizzle things up with her and you’ll be surprised with the results.

These tips will help you get more BJ's from her.

These tips will help you get more BJ’s from her.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you’d like to have as much oral action from your lover as possible.

However, you’re simply noticing that she’s not going down on you like she used to these days.

And it’s already getting you worried that you may be losing your touch in terms of making her explore south of your border.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. I’ve come across a few simple pointers that may just help increase your chances to convince your partner to give you more BJ’s.

Let me explain what I mean…

Ask her nicely.

I know this sounds really simplistic right now, but a lot of men seem to overlook the fact that they’re getting somewhat bossy when they’re hankering for some oral action.

Make it a point to always ask her as nice as you can when you’re looking to make her play your skin flute when you’re already at in between the sheets.

Besides making her feel that you really respect her, asking her nicely also staves off a surge in stress hormones in her body that will kill her sexual mood.

Knock her socks off when you go down on her.

If you’re gunning to make her go down on you as much as possible, giving her a mind-blowing oral sex session yourself each time you’re getting busy south of her border is definitely a priority.

(While we’re on the subject, here’s a useful oral sex pointer you need to keep in mind when you’re already working your magic down there.)

When she gets the notion that you’re always pulling out all the stops to give her an awesome time when you give her cunnilingus, she will more than happy to return the favor before you know it.

Get her imagination in gear.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, convincing a woman to give you head mostly involved luck.

It’s either she’s going to blow you if you’re lucky or not.

But the thing is the possibility that she’s going to “open wide for Chunky” becomes much higher if you make her imagination run wild.

See, the more fired up for sex a woman is, the more adventurous she will become in the bedroom.

Don’t see cunnilingus as a burden.

Some men tend to be very obvious when it comes to showing that they think of giving their partners oral sex as tedious work.

You’ll only make her feel annoyed and taken for granted when you do this. Always remember that giving awesome oral sex is a two-way street.

Fingering do's you should keep in mind.

Fingering do’s you should keep in mind.

When it comes to sex, fingering your lover is definitely something you should have in your checklist.

It doesn’t just help you stave off premature ejaculation, but also gives you added control and variation when you’re already getting busy south of her border.

And when she’s experiencing loads and loads of pleasurable sensations while you’re at it, it won’t be that tricky to make her reach orgasm during the action.

How cool is that?

But the thing is a lot of men tend to overlook some key pointers that they need to have up their sleeve when they’re already fingering their partners. Let me explain what I mean…

Get her really fired up.

Unlike what you see in porn, fingering a woman isn’t about making a beeline for her vagina as soon as the action starts and stimulating her like there’s no tomorrow.

You need to get your lover really fired up for sex first before you get busy down under.

Besides making her wet down there, the vagina and clitoris needs to be activated properly before they can produce pleasurable sensations.

Clean your fingernails.

Sure the vagina may be capable of churning out loads of pleasurable sensations when it’s stimulated, but their performance can be disrupted when your fingernails are unkempt.

Apart from making her feel rough and sore, the gunk that can be under them can also pose a health risk to your partner in the process.

Make it a point to keep your fingernails trim and clean and you’re sure to give her an awesome experience.

Start at the sides.

Remember the time I told you about erogenous zones needing to be activated properly first before they can churn out pleasurable sensations?

Starting at the sides helps get the vagina going. And it’s going to give her a teasing effect on her, too.

Let her guide you.

Now while you may be the one doing most of the work when you’re fingering her, don’t overlook the fact that your partner is the one who can really give you directions on how to take her pleasure levels off the charts.

You’ll be surprised with the results when you let her call the shots, too.

Get a rhythm going.

Never stick to one style of stimulation when you’re fingering her. Make it a point to vary your techniques as you go along.

Apart from keeping her on her toes, you’re also going to cover a lot of sensitive nerve endings while at it.