When it comes to giving a woman a sex session that will really knock her socks off, getting her ideally prepped up for lovemaking is definitely a priority.
Apart from making her really wet for sexual penetration, getting her really going for lovemaking also boosts the production and release of positive neurotransmitters and hormones in her body that will take her chances of reaching the Big O during the action up a notch.
But the thing is I discovered during my extensive research into the female sexuality that a lot of guys tend to overlook a few mistakes that can keep women from really getting in the mood for a sex session.
There’s even a possibility that you’re making some of them, too. Why not follow along to find out what these are?
Making a beeline to her erogenous zones.
Let’s kick things off with perhaps the biggest mistake that can easily ruin your partner’s sexual arousal…
Now while physically stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones like the breasts and clitoris when you’re looking to get her sexual mood in gear is one of the ways to do it, zeroing in on them as soon as you get the chance will just make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.
(Start the ball rolling with a kissing session that will blow her mind and you’ll be on the right track.)
You move too fast.
Slow and easy should be your mantra when you’re working your magic on your partner to get her prepped up for lovemaking.
Besides promoting a surge in positive hormones and neurotransmitters that set off the necessary changes to make sex pleasurable for her, taking things slow and easy also keeps her on her toes while you’re at it, boosting her sexual excitement levels.
Getting fast and furious will just give your lover the notion that you’re rushing her, which will just make her feel more anxious than horny.
Saying she’s “hot” during sex talk.
Although it’s a good strategy to reassure your partner that you find her sexually attractive when things are getting hot in the bedroom, there’s a possibility that things will go the other way around when you use the words “hot” and “sexy” to describe her.
This is because she will just have the idea that you only see her as a sex object.
Keep in mind to use the words “beautiful” and “gorgeous” since they convey sincerity and respect in a woman’s perspective even during lovemaking.