Foreplay Tips

So you'd like to make masturbation more pleasurable...

So you’d like to make masturbation more pleasurable…

I’m pretty sure that masturbation is a mainstay in your regular schedule. Come to think of it. Having a go at “choking your chicken” is no doubt one of the most pleasurable activities that can do by your lonesome.

However, doing the whole thing in your own usual way again and again can be rather monotonous and dull sooner or later. So why not follow along and find out a few simple pointers that can help make your masturbation sessions more pleasurable?

Masturbation Pleasure Booster #1: Use your non-dominant hand.

The next time you’re looking to “attack the one-eyed purple-headed warrior,” make it a point to use your non-dominant hand to stimulate yourself.

Sure this sounds rather surprising right now, but the sensations that you’re going to experience when you do this are not just going to be unpredictable since you’re not using the hand that you normally “beat the meat” with, but also quite awesome while at it.

Just keep in mind to use an ample amount of lube while you’re getting in action to keep things smooth sailing as you go along.

Masturbation Pleasure Booster #2: Play a bit of music.

I know this may seem like something that you should have in your sexual checklist when you and your lover are already at it between the sheets, but having music playing in the background when you’re “badgering the witness” can help boost the amount positive hormones in your body.

Besides making you feel more sexually aroused, this surge of positive hormones will also make your erogenous zones more sensitive to stimulation, which simply means every stroke will be more pleasurable.

Keep in mind to go for slow jazz and ballads since they have been seen to help with coaxing these positive hormones to surge better.

Masturbation Pleasure Booster #3: Don’t treat it like a race.

Sure the whole idea of masturbating is to achieve orgasm and ejaculate while at it. However, a lot of guys seem to go fast and furious as soon as they get the chance to masturbate.

This can easily make or break your chances of enjoying your masturbation session. You’ve got to allow the positive hormones to reach their ideal levels first or else you won’t experience the pleasure that you’re looking to go through.

Remember to go at it slow and easy. Sure you can go faster as you go along, but you need to warm up your body properly first.


Want to get more BJ's from her? Here are a few simple tips...

Want to get more BJ’s from her? Here are a few simple tips…

When it comes to sex, I’m pretty sure that getting a blowjob from your lover is one of the things that you’re always looking forward to.

However, you’re simply noticing that she’s not as eager to go down on you like she used to nowadays.

There’s no need to get anxious though or perhaps completely cross off blowjobs in your sexual checklist. I’ve learned a few tricks while extensively researching into the female sexuality that will help you fix this issue.

So without further ado, here are a few simple ways to get her want to explore south of your border again when things get hot in the bedroom.

Jazz up your personal hygiene.

Good grooming plays a very important role in convincing your lover to go down under during sex. If you keep in mind to make it a habit to look and smell good for her, chances are it won’t be that tricky to persuade her to get the oral action going.

And it’s just going to be the opposite when you neglect your hygiene like taking regular showers, brushing your teeth, slapping on some deodorant and letting your pubes go haywire down there.

Come to think of it. Put yourself in your lover’s shoes for a bit. Would you take the dive when things aren’t as desirable south of the border?

Don’t be bossy.

Now while being assertive and a take charge guy in the bedroom are attributes that can be a picker upper for women, overdoing the whole thing can easily disrupt your lover’s mood for sex.

Instead of feeling hot and excited, she will just feel that you’re rushing her into it and you’re simply in it for your own pleasure, which means your chances of getting a BJ will take a nosedive sooner than you think.

Make it a point to always be gentle and tender while you’re asking her to give her a blowjob.

Give her an oral sex session she won’t forget anytime soon.

Having a tough time to convince her to go down on you these days? There is a big possibility that you’re not giving her cunnilingus that knocks her socks off and it’s keeping her from really getting in action down there.

Always remember to wow her every time you go down on her and make her reach the Big O while at it. That will definitely get the job done in no time.

Here are a few simple pointers to make foreplay more pleasurable for her...

Here are a few simple pointers to make foreplay more pleasurable for her…

Foreplay plays a very important role when it comes to getting a woman ready for lovemaking and giving her the sexual satisfaction that she wants when the action starts between the sheets.

Now while I’m sure that you’ve already got a few mainstay foreplay tricks in your arsenal that you bring into play when things get extra steamy in the bedroom, here are a few simple pointers that will definitely make the whole even more awesome for your partner…

Foreplay Booster #1: Clean your bedroom.

Unlike guys that can get ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, women need to feel really relaxed and comfortable before they can get their freak on in bed.

Perhaps one of the most important factors a lot of men tend to overlook in terms of boosting a woman’s foreplay pleasure levels is the cleanliness of the bedroom where the sexy action will take place.

Simply make it a habit to clean and organize your bedroom regularly to pull this off. Besides picking up the pace on your partner’s sexual arousal, you’ll also give her a foreplay session she won’t forget anytime soon.

Foreplay Booster #2: Explore new erogenous zones.

Sure you may have already pinpointed her favorite erogenous zones when things get hot between the sheets, but stimulating them again and again will just reduce the pleasurable sensations that she’ll experience in the process.

Chances are you make a beeline for her breasts and clitoris when the action starts. However, there are a lot of other erogenous hot spots that you can focus on like the back of the neck, inner thighs, the lower abdomen as well as the mons pubis.

Foreplay Booster #3: Go painstakingly slow.

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that you are tempted to have a go at foreplay as fast and furious as you can.

Although this technique can still somehow give your partner pleasurable sensations, there is also a big possibility that she will feel rather uncomfortable as you go along. Make it a point to go as slow as you can.

Besides being a way to tease her, this will also promote a surge of positive hormones like dopamine and oxytocin that will really boost her chances of reaching the Big O sooner than you’d expect.

Foreplay Booster #4: Don’t stop.

This is perhaps  the most straightforward pointer here. When she asks you to stop what you’re doing, don’t. This just means that she’s already in the zone.

Looking to upgrade your oral sex strategy? Read this!

Looking to upgrade your oral sex strategy? Read this!

I’m pretty sure that oral sex is in your list of bedroom techniques to really give your lover a mind-blowing experience each and every time.

Apart from helping boost your chances of making her achieve an orgasm or two as you go along, it also helps you keep clear from inadvertently popping off during the action.

Although you may already know the erogenous zones that your partner likes to be stimulated and how she wants them to be pleasured, you can still “upgrade” you oral sex strategy with a few simple pointers.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these are and wow her all the more the next time you explore south of her border…

Oral Sex Upgrade #1: The misdirection technique

This pointer is as straightforward as it gets. When you go down on her, make it a point to deliberately lead her astray in terms of what erogenous zone you’re going to stimulate and how you’re going to do it.

For example you can say that you’re going to lick her clitoris, but you’re actually going to put your tongue inside her vagina instead. This catches her off-guard and she’ll become more excited in the process.

Moreover, you can use this technique when you’re stimulating the erogenous zones located in the upper part of your lover’s body as well.

Oral Sex Upgrade #2: The ABC and 123 technique

Instead of simply going at it down under with simple kisses, licks, caresses and fondling, keep in mind to pattern them using the alphabet and numbers. Besides covering a lot of area while stimulating your partner, you will also keep her on her toes while at it since she won’t know where you’ll go next.

You can either kick things off with your ABC’s or 123’s and vice versa. Imagine how that will really get her going between the sheets.

Oral Sex Upgrade #3: The teaser technique

I’m pretty sure that you want to get fast and furious as soon as you get the chance to orally pleasure her. But the thing is you can make her more excited and experience even more intense sensations when you do your stimulation teasingly.

You can pull this off by doing this really gently, enough to make her feel something, but not a lot to really give her the full experience in the process. Believe me, she’s really going to beg for more and enjoy the whole thing at the same time.