Foreplay Tips

Looking to really heat her up for sex? Check this out!

Looking to really heat her up for sex? Check this out!

Getting a woman totally sexually aroused is a key priority when it comes to giving her a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.

And unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, pulling it off isn’t something that is instantaneous. You have to keep a few important pointers to really get the job done.

So if you’re looking to give your lover a sex session that will definitely blow her mind, make sure you follow along and learn a few surefire pointers that will help you do just that…

Clean and organize your bedroom.

I know this sounds rather strange to be on this list, but making it a point to keep your bedroom in apple pie order is a must if giving your partner an awesome bout of lovemaking is on your to-do list.

See, getting a woman sexually aroused involves stimulating her brain to activate the hormone-producing glands to churn out positive hormones, which set off the biological changes that prep up her body to get ready for action between the sheets.

Interestingly, one of the biggest factors that can disrupt this process is when a woman sees and feels that the place she’s in is dirty and messy. Can you see the connection between your partner’s sexual arousal and cleaning and organizing your bedroom yet?

Ask her what she wants to do.

Now while women tend to be more submissive when it comes to lovemaking, giving her the notion that she will run the show the next time things get hot in bed will set off a surge of positive hormones in her body.

Besides making your partner feel that you’re really into her and want to give her an amazing experience between the sheets, her sense of sexual adventure will also be awakened.

Moreover, you also won’t have a tough time giving her pleasurable sensations while at it since she will already give you clues what she wants to experience during the action.

Don’t rush her into it.

Slowly and surely is the way to go when it comes to really getting a woman completely sexually aroused.

Unlike guys that can get ready for action between the sheets at the drop of a hat, women need to be eased into to really get going.

Sure the urge to get fast and furious as soon as you get the chance is great, keep in mind that doing just that will just possibly lead to disaster.

Make her want to give you a BJ again.

Make her want to give you a BJ again.

Let’s cut to the chase.

Getting a round of oral sex from your lover is no doubt one of the things that you’re always looking forward to when things get extra steamy between the sheets.

However, you’re simply noticing that your partner’s eagerness to go south of your border is becoming rather low nowadays. And it’s already getting you worried that you won’t have as much oral action from her sooner or later.

There’s no need to get anxious just yet though. I’ve learned a few key things during my extensive research into the female sexuality that can help boost your chances of convincing her to give you head.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Be very conscious of your hygiene down there.

If you’re looking to get her to go down on you when things are already getting hot in the bedroom, make it a habit to keep a close eye on your hygiene, particularly down under.

Besides getting rid of the unwanted hairs in and around your genitals, remember to give it a good scrubbing as well when you’re taking a shower to make it smell really good.

Make the first move.

A lot of guys seem to forget that the ladies go first when it comes to sexual pleasure and that includes oral sex.

If you notice that your lover is not as excited to give you a BJ these days, there is a big chance that you’re not knocking her socks off with your oral sex techniques.

Always keep in mind to explore south of her border as pleasurable as you can when you and your partner are having a lovemaking session. She will be more excited to go down on you this way.

Ask her nicely.

Now while being assertive in bed is a turn on among women, overdoing the whole thing will only lead to the opposite.

If you want your lover to go down on you, make sure you ask her nicely and not like she’s obligated to do it because you want to.

Acting bossy when you’re at it between the sheets also promotes a surge in stress hormones in her body that can ruin her mood for sex before you know it.

Don’t be whiny.

If she says no when you ask her, don’t be whiny and repeat the question over and over. Believe me, you will just annoy her in the process.

So you'd like to give her an amazing oral sex session...

So you’d like to give her an amazing oral sex session…

If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that oral is one of the most effective ways of really knocking your lover’s socks off when the action is already happening between the sheets.

However, no matter how much she loves the oral sex techniques that you do when you’re going down on her in the bedroom, chances are they won’t be as pleasurable as you’d like them to be sooner or later if you don’t keep in mind a few useful pointers.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Show your enthusiasm to do it.

One thing a lot of guys seem to overlook is that enthusiasm counts a lot when you have exploring south of her border on your sexual checklist.

This is because you’re making your lover feel that you actually love to give her oral sex instead of treating it as a burden that you have to do. Keep in mind to show as much enthusiasm as you can while at it and you’ll be surprised how much she will enjoy the whole thing.

Don’t go straight to the erogenous zones.

Sure the whole point of oral sex may be stimulating her erogenous zones like the clitoris and nipples, but simply going straight to them as soon as you get the chance will only make your partner feel uncomfortable.

See, a woman’s body needs to completely prep up during sexual arousal to make these erogenous zones churn out the pleasurable sensations that they are capable of producing. Getting to them before they’re ready will simply lead to the opposite.

Never reveal your strategy.

Now while communication plays a key role when it comes to giving your partner an oral sex session she won’t be forgetting soon, giving her a play-by-play commentary of the things you’ll do when you’re at it is just going to ruin her mood.

Besides making her lose her anticipation of the pleasurable sensations that she’s going to experience, she will find even your most effective techniques boring and dull as well.

Don’t stop.

Keeping at it as steady as you can is a surefire way to really give her the oral sex pleasure that she’s always wanted. Don’t break your pace even if she asks you to or if her body is already writhing wildly with pleasure.

You’re just ensuring that her surge of positive hormones won’t stop and she will have an awesome time.

Make your foreplay sessions even more awesome with these pointers.

Make your foreplay sessions even more awesome with these pointers.

If you’re anything like most guys, you probably have foreplay in your sexual checklist to make sure that your lover is really good and ready for action between the sheets.

Now while you may already have a few tried and proven foreplay techniques up your sleeve that can easily get your partner in the mood for sex, here are some tips that you can add to your roster to really knock her socks off…

Awesome Foreplay Pointer #1: Keep your bedroom in apple pie order.

I know you’re wondering why this is one’s on the list, but keeping in mind to clean and organize your bedroom as often as you can help make your lover feel more comfortable and relaxed when you’re already getting it on in bed.

See, the more relaxed and comfortable a woman is, the more her brain is stimulated to produce and release positive hormones that get her ideally sexually aroused and allow her to experience the pleasurable sensations that she wants while at it.

Awesome Foreplay Pointer #2: Go painstakingly slow.

Now while I’m sure that you’d like to get at it as soon as you get the opportunity, making it a point to go as slow and easy as you can is a great idea to give her an awesome foreplay session.

See, the slower and easier you go, the more sensitive she will become to your stimulation, which will make it easier for you to give her an orgasm or two as you go along. Only take your rhythm up a notch when you notice that she couldn’t take it any longer.

Awesome Foreplay Pointer #3: Don’t focus on one erogenous zone.

If you’re anything like most men, you probably concentrate on the clitoris and nipples during foreplay. However, you’re simply missing out on a lot of pleasurable sensations when you do this.

Remember that there are numerous erogenous zones in your lover’s body, aside from the nipples and clitoris. You’ve also got the back of the neck, the inner thighs, the wrists, the mons pubis as well as the abdomen. Make it a point to give them the TLC they deserve.

Awesome Foreplay Pointer #4: Use words to heighten her sexual pleasure.

Don’t be silent when you’re getting busy during foreplay. Tell her how hot she makes you while you pleasure her erogenous zones. Make her feel like she’s the most beautiful and most desirable woman in the planet.

You’ll just be surprised how much she will be enjoying the experience in the process.