Foreplay Tips

These tips will help you knock her socks off during a sensual massage...

These tips will help you knock her socks off during a sensual massage…

If you’re anything like most guys, giving your lover an unforgettable sex session is no doubt the top item in your checklist when the two of you are already heating things up between the sheets.

Apart from really knocking her socks off as you go along as well as boosting your chances of making her achieve an orgasm or two, making this a priority will also make her want more action in the bedroom.

And one of the best ways to help you get the job done is giving her a sensual massage.

Pulling it off isn’t just about working your fingers all over her body, too. Here are a few key tips that you should keep in mind to give her a mind-blowing sensual massage…

Your bedroom should be in apple pie order.

Women are really into cleanliness and organization.

And unless they think and feel that they’re in a place that is comfortable and relaxing for them, they will just experience a surge of negative hormones in their bodies sooner or later.

Your partner will just end up feeling anxious and impatient when you’re massaging her, which isn’t the result that you’re aiming for. That’s even if you’re bringing your A-game into play while at it.

Play some nice tunes.

If you’ve been following HowToLastLongInBed.com for a long time now, you probably already know that music plays a key role in stimulating a woman’s brain to produce and release positive hormones.

Besides making her feel more relaxed and comfortable, she won’t have a problem getting her sexual mood going if you play your cards right as well. A pick that I find really effective is slow jazz.

Have the right stuff.

Giving your lover an amazing sensual massage involves having stuff that will make the experience more intense and enjoyable for her.

It is really smart to have at least a couple of bottles of aromatic oil on hand, preferably those that have a musky and citrusy hint to them.

Besides making your massaging techniques smoother and more intimate, the added aroma will also make the whole affair quite rejuvenating and sexy for her at the same time.

Slow and easy is key.

Keep in mind to go as slow and easy as you can when you’re already in action. Sure this may sound like you’re preventing your partner from really enjoying the massage that you’re giving her, you are actually making each caress, stroke and rub more intense for her.

 

So she's not coming during sex these days...

So she’s not coming during sex these days…

So here’s the situation…

You and your lover are already at it between the sheets. And you’re already bringing your A-game into play to really knock her socks off and give her a mind-blowing orgasm or two in the process.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that even your best moves in bed aren’t hitting their mark anymore. It’s already getting you worried that you’ve lost your ability to really give your partner a sex session that she wants.

There’s no need to get anxious just yet though.

I’m pretty sure that you’re simply making a few mistakes that can make her sexual arousal significantly dip down and make it quite tough for her to achieve an orgasm. Let me explain what I mean…

You don’t clean your bedroom.

Sure this sounds rather out of place, but not giving your bedroom the cleaning and organizing that it deserves can easily prevent your lover from having an orgasm during sex.

See, during my extensive research into the female sexuality, I learned that two of the key factors that can disrupt the production and release of positive hormones in her body to get her completely sexually aroused is seeing and feeling that that the place she’s in is dirty and messy.

You’ll be surprised with the results when you make it a habit to keep your bedroom in apple pie order.

You don’t give her oral sex.

Going down on her is perhaps the best strategy you can go for when it comes to really making her come during sex. You’ll never fail with cunnilingus if you do it properly.

You assume that you know what she wants.

Now while you may already have an idea of the things that she likes when you two are at it between the sheets, it doesn’t mean that you can make her come during sex each and every time.

Keep in mind to ask your lover what she wants in the bedroom before you get into action. Besides asking her which erogenous zones to focus on, knowing the pace and rhythm she’s in the mood for also counts a lot.

You go too fast.

Come to think of it. Going fast and furious with your sexual penetration as soon as you get the chance will increase your chances of experiencing premature ejaculation. Isn’t this a bad move that you should always keep clear of?

Always remember these oral sex pointers!

Always remember these oral sex pointers!

Giving your lover an oral sex session is no doubt in your bedroom playbook when it comes to making her achieve an orgasm or two.

However, unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think it’s not as simple as making a beeline to her genitals and stimulating them like crazy as soon as you get chance.

You’re just either going to make her feel annoyed or perhaps rather uncomfortable, which isn’t the sensations you are aiming for when you go down on your partner.

But the thing is I’ve learned a few key pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that will surely boost your chances of giving her oral sex each and every time.

Make sure you read on to find out more…

Keep a close eye on your grooming.

Sure you may find it rather surprising to find this one in here, but making it a point to keep your grooming up to par is absolutely a priority when it comes to giving a woman amazing oral sex.

See, factors like excess facial hair as well as improper oral hygiene can significantly reduce the pleasurable sensations that her body can produce when you go down on her.

Come to think of it. If you put yourself in your lover’s shoes and see that your partner’s grooming isn’t that nice, would you really enjoy oral sex that much?

Don’t treat like a contest.

Some guys tend to think that a woman will find oral sex more pleasurable when they go at her clitoris and vagina full speed ahead.

You’ll only end up giving her the wrong sensations while you’re at it even if you’re already bringing your oral sex A-game into play.

Instead, you should go as slow and easy as you can since this will easily heighten the sensations that she’ll feel in the process.

Just take things up a notch when she’s the one asking for it.

Let her guide you.

Always make it a point to ask your lover what she’s in the mood for before you go down on her.

Sure she may not be as gung-ho compared to you when it comes to lovemaking, but she knows what will make her feel really good during oral sex way better than you do. Makes perfect sense, right?

Just go and ask her how you should go about it and you’re already on the right track.

These teasing techniques are sure going to get her sexually aroused.

These teasing techniques are sure going to get her sexually aroused.

A woman’s sexual arousal level basically influences how your lovemaking session will turn out.

It’s either your lover will have an amazing time while you’re doing the deed between the sheets or perhaps she won’t find the whole thing pleasurable at all.

But the thing is you’re just noticing that even your A-game moves aren’t hitting their mark when you’re trying to heat up your lover in bed these days.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. Here are a few useful techniques that you can use that will really boost your chances of pulling it off…

Teasing Technique #1: Make your text messages risqué.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, getting a woman sexually aroused isn’t just about stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones properly until she’s good and ready for some sexual action.

At its simplest, sexual arousal basically starts as soon as her brain activates the hormone-producing glands to churn out positive hormones.

You can easily do these by sending her naughty and kinky text messages describe what you’ll do to her as soon as you two get alone. You can email her your graphic descriptions, too.

Teasing Technique #2: Blindfold her while the action’s going on.

Anticipation is very important when you’re looking to get your partner sexually aroused. And just imagine how much she’ll anticipate when she won’t even have the slightest clue what your next move will be?

Teasing Technique #3: Deliberately mislead her.

Some guys tend to inform their lovers ahead what erogenous zone they will focus on during foreplay, which will make their partners already expect what they will be on for when foreplay is taking place.

You can intentionally mislead her in terms of what spot you’re going to pleasure. For example, you can tell her that you’ll suck her nipples, but you’re going to gently rub her clitoris instead. There are practically countless ways you can do this as well.

Teasing Technique #4: Change your pace and rhythm in the middle of foreplay.

When she’s already moaning and writhing in pleasure, make it a point to go slower or faster to slightly disrupt the pace and rhythm of your foreplay session.

This doesn’t just heighten the pleasurable sensations that your lover will feel, but also make her more excited as you go along since she won’t have the slightest clue what you will do next or how things will go.