Foreplay Tips

So you'd like to give her an awesome oral sex session...

So you’d like to give her an awesome oral sex session…

Oral sex should definitely be on your list of things to do between the sheets if you’re looking to give a woman a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.

Apart from having the chance of pleasuring her erogenous zones like the vulva, breasts and clitoris more intimately, you’re also going to stimulate a lot of sensitive nerve endings while at it that will give her an orgasm or two.

However, a lot of guys mistakenly believe that going down on a woman simply involves making a beeline for her genitals and licking as fast as they can.

So if you really want to give her oral sex that will blow her mind, make sure that you always keep clear from these no-no’s when  you go down on her…

Having a dirty bedroom.

Now while this may sound rather surprising to be on this list, having a clean bedroom when you’re planning to go down on a woman is more than just aesthetics.

It basically helps her to become ideally relaxed and comfortable.

And if you’ve been following my posts for a long time now, a woman needs to feel really relaxed and comfortable to get completely sexually aroused, which can easily make or break your efforts at giving her an awesome oral sex experience.

Going too fast.

Although a woman’s erogenous zones like the breasts, vulva and clitoris contain a lot of extremely sensitive nerve endings, they still need to be fired up properly or else they won’t produce pleasurable sensations.

Keep in mind to get her really warmed up first before exploring south of her border.

It’s also important to start slow and easy when you go down on her or else she’ll just feel awkward and uncomfortable even if you’re already bringing your oral sex A-game into play.

Going too hard.

Unlike what a lot of men think, applying a lot of pressure when stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones won’t increase the pleasure levels that she will experience during oral sex.

It will just lead to the opposite.

Make it a point to let her guide you while the action is going on. Ask her where she’d like to be stimulated, the techniques she wants as well as how light or hard she likes the whole thing.

Come to think of it. Who knows best what will really knock her socks off during oral sex other than the woman you’re giving it to?

She'll enjoy foreplay even more if you avoid these mistakes...

She’ll enjoy foreplay even more if you avoid these mistakes…

I’m pretty sure that giving your lover an awesome foreplay session is one of the top items in your sexual checklist when things get extra steamy between the sheets.

This is because it basically takes her sexual arousal up a notch.

The more sexually aroused your partner is, she won’t just enjoy your lovemaking session even more, but your chances of giving her a mind-blowing orgasm while you’re at it are also going to be much higher.

Sure you may already have an idea of the stuff that your lover likes when it comes to foreplay, but I’ve learned a few things during my extensive research into the female sexuality that can easily ruin the whole thing.

Let me explain what I mean…

You get fast and furious as soon as you get the chance.

Now while the temptation of going full speed ahead with foreplay as soon as the action starts is rather overwhelming, always keep in mind that it will be much better if you take things down a notch.

See, a woman’s brain tends to stimulate her hormone-producing glands to churn out more positive hormones this way, which means she won’t just be fired up for sex sooner, but she will also enjoy your foreplay session a lot more.

You only focus on one or two erogenous zones.

When the term “erogenous zone” pops up, I’m betting that you immediately think of the clitoris and the breasts.

But what’s really interesting is a woman’s body has a lot of other erogenous zones like the mons pubis, inner thighs, back of the ears, wrists and the back of the neck that will give her lots of pleasurable sensations if you give them the same amount of TLC.

You will also make foreplay even more amazing for your lover if you keep in mind to explore her body to search for more erogenous hotspots when you’re already getting busy with foreplay.

Come to think of it. Just stimulating one erogenous zone during foreplay is going to feel boring for her, too.

You do the same techniques over and over.

So here’s the thing…

You find out that your partner loves it when you lick and suck her clitoris. Now while it’s alright to integrate this when you’re having foreplay, simply making it a routine will just take away all the fun out of it.

Keep in mind to always mix things up when you two are at it. Experimenting with the whole thing isn’t just going to make foreplay even more exciting for the both of you, but can also take her pleasure levels off the charts.

Avoid these annoyances that can sap away her sexual arousal.

Avoid these annoyances that can sap away her sexual arousal.

Getting your lover completely ready for a sex session is definitely a priority if you’re looking to really give her an experience that she won’t forget anytime soon.

Apart from intensifying the pleasurable sensations that you will give your partner, you’re also going to boost her chances of achieving an orgasm or two in the process.

However, I learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that there are annoyances that can easily keep her from really getting in the mood for lovemaking.

So if you’re looking to get your lover totally sexually aroused each time you’re heating things up in bed, make sure you keep clear from the following…

Annoyance #1: A dirty bedroom.

Now while this may sound surprising, your lover’s sexual arousal levels won’t reach their ideal levels when the bedroom you’re in is a mess.

This is because her brain will be coaxed into producing and releasing stress hormones that do just the exact opposite of the positive hormones that make her sexually aroused.

Make it a point to keep your bedroom generally clean and organized to jumpstart her sexual arousal as soon as you kick things off in there.

Annoyance #2: You rush her into it.

Although showing her that you are a take charge guy during foreplay is a surefire way to get your lover’s excitement going, overdoing the whole thing will simply lead to disaster.

She will feel that you’re rushing her and instead of being sexually aroused, her stress hormone levels surge and she’ll just end up getting impatient, anxious and not in the mood for some action between the sheets.

Keep in mind to take things as slow and easy as you go along not just to take her sexual arousal up a notch, but also intensify the stimulation that you’re going to do to her while at it.

Annoyance #3: You don’t mix things up.

Come to think of it. Your partner won’t be that perked up for lovemaking if you give her the notion that she will experience the same old routine when you’re at it between the sheets.

Surprise her with a new foreplay technique or stimulate an erogenous zone that you don’t usually pleasure and you’re sure to get her going faster.

Annoyance #4: You think foreplay is a burden.

Sure bringing your best foreplay moves into play can be rather tiring and tedious, but do them as awesome as you can to make your lover feel that you’re all for her pleasure.

And that just means she will easily get in the mood for action in bed.

Use this checklist as a guide when you're going down on her...

Use this checklist as a guide when you’re going down on her…

So here’s the situation…

You and your lover are already heating things up between the sheets and you’d like to take her pleasure levels up a notch by going down on her.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, though, giving your partner an amazing oral sex session isn’t about making a beeline for her genitals and start stimulating like there’s no tomorrow.

It will just be uncomfortable for her no matter how hard you try and can easily ruin her mood for lovemaking before you know it.

But the thing is that you simply have to keep a few important pointers in mind to really knock her socks off when you explore south of her border. Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Get her mind going.

Sure the idea of oral sex is pleasuring a woman down there, but immediately doing just that before she’s completely sexually aroused will just lead to some issues as you go along.

You need to coax her brain to produce and release a lot of positive hormones first to make her erogenous zones intensely sensitive to stimulation as well as get her really wet and excited in the process.

Besides describing the things that you’re going to do to her while you’re going down on her, sending her kinky text messages before the action starts is also a good idea.

Start slow and easy.

Keep in mind that going fast while you’re exploring south of her border doesn’t mean she’s going to get loads of oral sex pleasure.

This is actually one of the biggest oral sex myths ever. While you can see porn actors stimulate their partners like there’s no tomorrow in skin flicks, the result will just be the opposite in real life.

See, going as slow and easy as you can actually gives your lover more pleasurable sensations. And unless she’s the one asking you to speed things up as you go along, don’t change your pace and rhythm.

You’re sure to see her toes curl up as well as hear her moan like crazy when you do this.

Vary your techniques.

Oral sex isn’t just about using your tongue and lips. You can actually get the job done in a lot of ways if you simply get creative enough.

You can use your fingers or mix things up with a bit of kissing, licking and caressing to keep her guessing what will you do next.