Foreplay Tips

Keep an eye on these signs that tell you she's already sexually aroused...

Keep an eye on these signs that tell you she’s already sexually aroused…

How sexually aroused a woman is plays a key role in giving her a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.

Apart from having a significant effect on the pleasurable sensations that your partner will experience during the action, the chances that she’ll achieve orgasm while at it is also on the line.

But the thing is how do you really know if a woman is already – and genuinely – sexually aroused? Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, it’s not that tricky to do.

Make sure you read on to learn 3 key signs that she’s fired up for action between the sheets…

Her breathing gets heavy and shallow.

Perhaps the most prominent sign that your partner is already prepped up for lovemaking is her breathing will become heavier and shallower than usual.

This is one of the effects of the positive hormones that get churned out when her brain detects a certain stimulus that gets her turned on. It could be a smell, a sound or perhaps some sexy eye candy.

It is also not uncommon that her breath will become quite warm when this takes place.

Her body temperature will go up.

I’m pretty sure that you’ve already heard of the phrase “hot for sex.” This isn’t just wordplay, though. A woman’s body temperature will actually rise when she gets sexually aroused.

This is because the positive hormones that get released during sexual arousal direct a more than usual amount of blood all over the body. A part of this boosted circulation will go to her pelvic region to get her lady bits down there to start getting in action.

Make it a point to feel her skin (especially in and around the erogenous zones like the breasts, clitoris, inner thighs, etc.) while you’re stimulating her body to get an idea if she’s already ready to take things to a whole new level or you still need to fire her up more.

She licks her lips more often and other gestures.

What’s really interesting is I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that women tend to show subtle signs that they’re already sexually aroused.

Besides licking or biting her lips, your partner will also blush, arch their head and back as well as get more touchy-feely in the process.

There are a lot of other gestures that she can exhibit, too. Keep in mind to be more conscious of them while you’re heating her up in the bedroom.

These foreplay tips will really fire her up.

These foreplay tips will really fire her up.

When it comes to lovemaking, kicking things off with an awesome foreplay session is absolutely a must to really get a woman going for action in the bedroom.

But the thing is a lot of men mistakenly believe that foreplay is all about pleasuring the clitoris and nipples as soon as they get the chance.

Apart from significantly reducing the pleasurable sensations that your lover will experience during foreplay, there’s also a possibility that she will have a surge of stress hormones that will just keep her sexual arousal from taking off.

And that’s even if you’re already bringing your foreplay A-game into play.

I learned a few useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality, though, that will definitely help knock your partner’s socks off when you’re already getting busy with foreplay…

Step up your grooming.

Always keep in mind that your overall grooming can easily make or break your chances of giving your lover an amazing foreplay session or not.

Besides remembering to have regular showers and keeping your facial hair in control (which can have a negative effect during oral sex), it’s also smart to have a splash of deodorant or two while at it.

Topping off with a spritz of cologne is a nice idea, too.

Make your bedroom amazing.

Getting a woman totally relaxed and comfortable is a priority when it comes to firing her up for sex. That also applies to foreplay.

Make it a point to clean and organize your bedroom in a regular basis to keep it looking and feeling really comfy for your lover.

Come to think of it. You never know when the sexual action begins so it’s better to be prepared than get sorry when the moment of truth arrives.

Keep things as slow and easy as you can

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, going fast and furious as soon as you get the chance during foreplay won’t make things more enjoyable for her.

It will just make things awkward and uncomfortable for your partner, though.

It’s better to take things slow and easy to really build up her sexual arousal. It will also make the stimulation you’re doing that she will experience more intense and powerful as you go along.

Explore her body meticulously.

Don’t just go for the usual erogenous zones like the breasts and clitoris during foreplay. Pleasuring her inner thighs, back of the neck and “treasure trail” will really get her going in no time.

Is she taking a long time to get in the mood for sex these days?

Is she taking a long time to get in the mood for sex these days?

When it comes to giving your lover an unforgettable sex session, it’s crucial that you get her really fired up for action in the bedroom first.

Unless your partner is completely sexually aroused, chances are she won’t enjoy lovemaking like you want her to experience it.

So now here’s the situation…

You’re simply noticing that your lover takes a longer time to really get sexually aroused these days. And it’s already getting you worried that you’re losing your touch when it comes to heating her up between the sheets.

There’s no need to get anxious yet, though. Here’s a quick list of the reasons why your partner isn’t getting sexually aroused as fast as she used to…

Your bedroom is a mess.

A woman isn’t going to be sexually aroused if she doesn’t feel comfortable and relaxed. And one of the things that will definitely prevent her from getting in the mood is a dirty and unorganized bedroom.

Simply keeping in mind to fix the bed, put dirty clothes in the hamper as well as doing a bit of organizing in a regular basis will surely help do the trick.

Your grooming needs a little improvement.

If you’re looking to get a woman fired up for lovemaking, then it’s very important to look and smell the part.

Make sure you trim excess facial hair, which can also be a bit annoying and uncomfortable for her when you’re pleasuring her intimate areas, brush and floss properly as well as apply deodorant.

Having a spritz or two of cologne is a nice way to top things off as well.

You go too fast.

Sure you may already have an idea of the erogenous zones and the techniques she likes when foreplay is concerned, but the pleasure levels that you can give her while you get busy while at it will go down if you go fast and furious as soon as you get the chance.

Keep in mind to go as slow and easy as you can and you’re sure to give her lots of pleasurable sensations.

It’s also smart to explore her body to discover new erogenous zones. Make sure you give her inner thighs, back of the neck and lower abdomen or “treasure trail.”

You don’t ask her what she wants.

Come to think of it. Who knows best what will give them the most foreplay pleasure than your lover?

So you'd like to get her to go down on you more often..

So you’d like to get her to go down on you more often…

Ah, blowjobs.

If you’re like most men, I’m pretty sure that you’d like experience some oral action from your lover when things are already getting steamy between the sheets.

But the thing is simply giving her the message to get in action down there by prodding her head in the direction of your genitals isn’t going to cut it.

Make sure you follow along to learn a few simple ways to encourage your partner to get busy south of your border more often…

Get her completely sexually aroused.

Unlike the stuff that you get to see in porn movies, a woman doesn’t automatically get down on her knees and suck you off when things get hot in bed.

It’s crucial that you get her really warmed up or else she won’t be that eager to give you some oral action.

Think of the whole thing as getting a car running. You can’t expect a vehicle to run without engaging it in gear first, right?

(Here’s a simple technique that you can use to do just that.)

Give her an amazing oral sex session yourself.

Convincing her to go down on you isn’t just about using your gift of gab to get the job done. You also need to give her a demonstration of your oral sex skills to seal the deal.

Make it a point to always give her a mind-blowing cunnilingus session when you’re at it in bed.

Believe me, it won’t be that tough to convince her to have the same treatment down there before you know it.

Don’t be bossy.

Now while showing initiative in the bedroom is an attribute women like, overdoing the whole thing will just lead to disaster.

You’ll only give your lover the notion that you are bossing her around when you get too rough on her when you ask her to explore south of your border.

Keep in mind to do it gently, but with a bit of ruggedness that makes her more excited while at it.

Make her feel you’re really enjoying it.

Once she goes down on you, make it a point to give a reaction that she can hear and feel.

Groan and moan in pleasure. Buckle your knees and legs. Give her the notion that you’re enjoying the experience.

This subconsciously gives her the idea that she’s doing it right and you love it, which makes her want to integrate oral sex in her bedroom checklist.