Foreplay Tips

These massaging tips will surely get her going.

These massaging tips will surely get her going.

The pleasurable sensations that a woman experiences during lovemaking greatly depends on how sexually aroused she is.

The more fired up your partner is for action between the sheets, the more powerful and intense the sensations she will feel the moment you take things up a notch as you go along.

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, I learned that giving a woman a sensual massage is one way of really getting her in the mood.

And here are a few useful pointers that you should keep in mind when you’re planning to work your magic on her with your fingers…

Make things spic and span.

Comfort and relaxation are the two most important factors that you need to prioritize when prepping her up for a massage.

She won’t be feeling as refreshed and rejuvenated even if you’re getting your already getting your massage A-game into play if she thinks the place you’re giving her a massage is dirty and messy.

Remember to keep things in apple pie order to really get her going.

Have some nice tunes.

Music not only helps get her relaxed, but also somehow intensify the sensations that she will experience when you get busy on her with your massaging moves.

Go for slow, downbeat tunes that promote her brain to take it easy for a while. Avoid those that have prominent bass drum beats because they will prevent her from really getting cozy.

My personal suggestions include slow jazz, ambient as well as instrumentals. You can also pick sounds like raindrops, sea breeze and the like if you’d like a more natural feel while at it.

Don’t forget the cream.

Massage cream, that is.

Your massage is going to be more pleasurable for her if you use one because besides making your strokes smoother, she’s also in for some refreshing aromatherapy action in the process.

You can also go for oils and liniments if she prefers stronger and more pronounced aromas.

Go slow and easy.

Massages are supposed to be gentle and soothing. They should not be hurried and given as if you’re impatient and rushing to be somewhere else.

I know this sounds tedious, but the rewards are just worth it. Apart from making it easier for her to get ready for action in bed sooner or later, she will also have the idea to give you a nice massage anytime soon.

These commonly overlooked factors can break a woman's sexual arousal.

These commonly overlooked factors can break a woman’s sexual arousal.

A woman’s sexual arousal plays a very important role when it comes to giving her a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.

The more fired up for sex your partner is, the more pleasurable sensations she will experience when the action’s already hot between the sheets, which means that making her reach the Big O as you go along won’t be that tricky.

But the thing is a lot of guys seem to overlook a few crucial factors that can keep a woman from really getting sexually aroused. And we will tackle them in a bit when you follow along…

You rush her to get in the mood.

Unlike guys that can get ready for action in the bedroom at the drop of a hat, women need a bit of time to get in the mood for lovemaking. And you’re only setting yourself up for disaster if you rush your partner in any way.

Make it a point to go as smooth and easy as you can when you’re trying to fire her up for sex. Sure the temptation to go fast and furious is overwhelming, but the rewards are simply worth it when you do it slowly.

You do the same moves.

Here’s the thing. No matter how much a woman likes a foreplay technique, she won’t find it pleasurable as before if you do the same thing each time you get the opportunity. Make sure you use different techniques every time to really take her sexual arousal up a notch.

You don’t keep an eye on your bedroom’s cleanliness and organization.

Women are very particular with organization and cleanliness. Your chances of getting her sexually aroused are going to be very slim because her body will only have a surge of negative hormones.

Unlike their positive counterparts that promote sexual arousal, negative hormones will set off feelings of anxiety and impatience. Just imagine how that will disrupt the possibility that she will be excited for getting frisky between the sheets.

You go straight to the clitoris and nipples.

Sure they may be the two most sensitive erogenous zones in a woman’s body, but simply making a beeline to the clit and nipples will only lead to the opposite. Keep in mind to warm her up properly first before you get right to the main event.

Key erogenous zones that will help start her up include the back of the neck, the lower abdomen and the inner thighs.

These tips will help you make her come during lovemaking.

These tips will help you make her come during lovemaking.

Perhaps the most important thing that you’ve got in your sexual checklist is making a woman reach the Big O when the two of you are already at it in the bedroom.

Apart from blowing her mind with lots of pleasurable sensations, she will also be more excited to do the sexy mambo with you again anytime soon.

However, a lot of guys mistakenly think that giving a woman an orgasm can be easily pulled off by zeroing in on her clitoris and nipples and stimulate them like there’s no tomorrow while at it.

Sure these erogenous zones do have the capability to produce a lot of pleasurable sensations, but simply stimulating them like crazy isn’t going to cut it.

But what’s really interesting is I’ve learned a few useful pointers that can easily help increase your chances of really getting her to the point of no return between the sheets.

So how about we start going through these pointers already?

Cleanliness is a must.

Although you may think that prepping up doesn’t anything to do with lovemaking, but it’s actually a key factor when it comes to making a woman ideally sexually aroused and make it easier for her to come during the action.

See, you’ll just make her feel stressed and anxious if she thinks that you’re not keeping a close eye on your hygiene or perhaps the bedroom you’re having sex in isn’t quite up to her standards of tidiness and organization.

Make it a point to not just look and smell like a million bucks for her, but also keep your bedroom in apple pie order always.

Think of her satisfaction.

Most guys tend to think that lovemaking is mostly about sexually penetrating their partners. Sure sexual penetration can provide a lot of pleasurable sensations, but it is also the time when men unknowingly get too excited and end up coming a lot sooner than they’d like to.

Keep in mind to prioritize her pleasure before yours and you’ll be on your way to giving her an orgasm or two.

Use other sexual techniques.

Giving a woman a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon isn’t just about sticking your member in her vagina. You can also blow her mind by going down on her properly as well as using your fingers, tongue and lips to give her erogenous zones like the breasts, inner thighs and back of the neck the stimulation they really deserve when the action’s happening.

These oral sex tips will surely blow her mind.

These oral sex tips will surely blow her mind.

Going down on your lover is perhaps one of the best ways to knock her socks off during your sex session.

However, a lot of men mistakenly believe that pulling the whole thing off is simply about making a beeline for her genitals as soon as things get extra steamy between the sheets, stimulate like crazy and they’re good to go.

Besides making a woman feel awkward and rather uncomfortable, it will also trigger her brain to release stress hormones that will simply raise her anxiety levels, which already gives you a pretty clear idea of how your oral sex session will turn out.

So if you’re really looking to blow your partner’s mind the next time you go down on her, make sure you keep these pointers in mind…

Get her mind going first.

If you’re anything like most guys, you probably think that getting at it when the action’s already hot in the bedroom is the best way to go during oral sex.

But the thing is it will just lead to disaster before you know it because her body doesn’t have the right amount of positive hormones that will really get her going for the same yet.

Make it a point to stimulate your lover’s mind first to get her in the zone and you’re on your way to giving her amazing oral sex.

Don’t immediately zero in on her erogenous zones.

A lot of men make the mistake of immediately stimulating the clitoris or the vulva during oral sex.

Sure these erogenous zones can produce a lot of pleasurable sensations when stimulated properly, but not allowing them to get really fired up for action will just make the stimulation you do feel flat.

Make it a point to start things off by teasing the sides of her erogenous zones. Besides making her anticipate the pleasurable sensations that she’ll experience, you’re also boosting her excitement levels in the process.

Slow and easy does it.

Now while the idea of getting fast and furious during oral sex may give you the notion that your partner is going to have loads and loads of pleasurable sensations while at it, it’s actually the opposite.

You’ll be just surprised when you do it slow and easy.

Ask her for directions.

Who knows best what will give her the most intense of sensations during oral sex? It’s your partner, right? Keep in mind to let her call the shots when you do it to really blow her mind hen you go down on her.