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Oral sex no-no's that will make the experience lousy for her.

Oral sex no-no’s that will make the experience lousy for her.

One of the best strategies that you can go for when you’re looking to knock a woman’s socks off during lovemaking is going down on her.

But the thing is I learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that there’s a big possibility that you’re overlooking a few mistakes that can easily make the experience not as pleasurable for her as you’d like to.

And I’m going to walk you through them shortly so you can really give her an oral sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon the next time you explore south of her border.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these oral sex mistakes are…

You consider oral sex as a chore.

Let me kick things off with perhaps the most commonly overlooked oral sex mistake.

Some guys tend to think that oral sex is some kind of a chore that they’d have to endure if they really want to make their partners reach the Big O when things are already heating up in bed.

Now while going down on a woman takes a bit of an effort to really pull off, considering it as hard work makes your brain think that you’re experiencing some kind of stressful situation, so you’re going to feel impatient, awkward and rather anxious when the whole thing’s going to be over.

Change your mindset about oral sex and you’ll be surprised with the results.

You go straight to the clitoris.

Although the clitoris is no doubt the most sensitive erogenous zone in a woman’s body, it needs time to prep up before it’s able to churn out pleasurable sensations when stimulated.

When you stimulate the clitoris before it’s really ready, she will just feel either awkward or perhaps uncomfortable, which isn’t going to help in any way at all.

And that’s even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play while at it, too.

Keep in mind to make her really sexually aroused first before you give her the full-service downstairs.

You don’t ask her to guide you.

Some guys tend to mistakenly think that they already know that they need to know about going down on their partners.

And they’re missing out on a lot if they don’t ask directions from the woman they’d like to pleasure. Come to think of it. Who knows what really gets her off except a woman herself?

 

Looking to get more BJ's? Read this.

Looking to get more BJ’s? Read this.

Getting a blowjob is no doubt one of the things that you’re looking forward to when you and your lover are already at it in the bedroom.

Apart from the loads and loads of awesome sensations that you’ll experience when the action starts, seeing and feeling your partner pleasure you orally will definitely take your excitement levels off the charts.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that your partner isn’t that eager to go down on you when the action’s getting pretty steamy in bed.

Now while this may be a bit frustrating on your part, it doesn’t mean that you’re on your way to not get any oral action from her sooner or later.

Let me walk you through some simple tips when you’re looking to make her give you more BJ’s during lovemaking…

Give her more oral sex.

I’ll start things off with a mistake that a lot of guys seem to overlook when oral sex is concerned.

You’re probably not giving her the oral attention that your lover deserves if she seems to have lost her excitement to explore south of your border.

Make it a point to initiate giving your partner more oral sex sessions that will knock her socks off. You’ll just end up nowhere if you do them sloppily.

Update your grooming.

If she’s not going down on you like she used to, there is a big possibility that you’re not looking and smelling as good as you did before.

See, if a woman thinks that you’re not paying attention to your grooming like you should, she won’t be that eager to take the action downtown.

And while we’re on the subject, keep in mind to trim your pubes as well.

Don’t boss her around.

Sure you may see in porn that the actors simply have to tilt the head of their partners or force her on her knees to signal that they’re ready for a BJ.

Do the same move to your lover in the bedroom and the results will just be disastrous.

Mix things up.

Although you may already have an idea of the things that your partner likes when you pleasure her using your mouth, tongue and lips, you should make it a priority to update your oral sex moves from time to time.

See, even the best oral sex techniques can get really boring if you do them just every time you get the opportunity

These mistakes will ruin oral sex for her.

These mistakes will ruin oral sex for her.

Going down on your lover is definitely one of the ways that you can really knock her socks off when things get hot in the bedroom.

Besides giving her an overload of pleasurable sensations when you give her clitoris and vulva the oral attention that they deserve, you’re also boosting her chances of having a mind-blowing orgasm or two while at it.

Sure you may already have an idea how to pull the whole thing off, but some guys tend to overlook a few mistakes that can prevent her from really enjoying the experience even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these mistakes are to really take her pleasure levels off the charts the next time you’re exploring south of her border…

You go fast and furious immediately.

A lot of men mistakenly think that oral sex is all about zeroing in on a woman’s sexy bits and stimulating them with their lips, tongue and mouth the moment the action starts.

Although you need to stimulate your lover’s erogenous zones like the vulva, vagina and clitoris to get them producing pleasurable sensations, immediately making a beeline for them as soon as you get the chance will only lead to disaster.

Instead of producing pleasurable sensations, she will just feel awkward and uncomfortable, which can easily disrupt her overall oral sex experience.

Besides giving your partner the notion that you’re teasing her, you’ll also boost her sexual arousal when you go down on her as slowly as you can.

Don’t go straight to the clitoris.

Now while the clitoris is the most sensitive erogenous zone in a woman’s body, stimulating it before it’s really ready will prevent it from churning out the loads and loads of pleasurable sensations that it’s able to produce.

Always keep in mind to get her completely sexually aroused first before even thinking about pleasuring the clitoris when you explore south of her border.

(Here’s an awesome clitoral stimulation move you can use to blow her mind when you are already at it, too.)

You think you know everything you need to know.

Sure you may have gone down on your partner lots of times already and have an idea of the things that get her going during oral sex, but it’s still very smart to ask her how you should run the show.

Come to think of it. Who knows best what will get your lover off than her, right?

Boost her sexual pleasure with these simple tips.

Boost her sexual pleasure with these simple tips.

Giving your lover an overload of pleasurable sensations is a must if you’re looking to make her reach orgasm or two as you go along.

But the thing is unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying, there are no cutting corners in doing just that.

You’d have to bring your A-game into play when you’re going down on her or perhaps getting busy giving her nipples, inner thighs and back of the neck the stimulation they deserve to get the job done.

Now while you may already have an idea of the things that your partner likes when the two of you are already getting in action between the sheets, here are a few pointers that will help intensify the pleasurable sensations she experiences even more while you’re getting busy…

Get her as sexually aroused as you can.

Sure this sounds rather simplistic, but your lover’s sexual arousal levels can easily make or break your chances of really knocking her socks off during your lovemaking session.

Before you start pulling out all the stops when the both of you are getting frisky in the bedroom, keep in mind to get her as sexually aroused as you can so her body will have a surge of positive hormones.

These hormones don’t just make her skin, especially in and around the erogenous ones, super sensitive temporarily, but also activate her body’s orgasmic responses when their levels get off the charts.

Don’t go straight to the jackpot.

Now while making a beeline to the clitoris or nipples may be the best strategy to go for when it comes to kicking off a sex session, this is actually a big mistake.

See, even the most sensitive erogenous zones need to prep up properly first so they can produce the pleasurable sensations that they’re capable of.

Make it a point to stimulate their outer edges first before you get to ground zero. Besides giving her a teasing sensation that she’ll surely love, you’re also ensuring that the erogenous zone you’re pleasuring is getting on its way to its full potential.

Show your admiration.

As I’ve previously pointed out, the brain is one erogenous zone that you shouldn’t neglect during lovemaking.

Make it a point to verbally show your admiration while pleasuring your lover in bed. This promotes the release of more positive hormones, which will definitely take your sex session up a notch.