Dating Tips

Looking to improve your posture? You’ve come to the right place.

Now while this may sound surprising, having good posture is a necessity if you’re looking to successfully attract women. Besides giving a positive impression to the ladies, keeping your back straight and shoulders square also lets them know that you’re a fun guy to be with.

There’s no need to worry just yet if you think that your posture needs a bit of an improvement. A lot of guys feel the same way, too. Here are a few useful pointers that can help you get started in no time at all…

Pointer for Better Posture #1: Puff out your chest.

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Thrust your chest out a bit. Pushing your chest out not only squares your shoulders and pulls your head back, but also makes your back straighter. It also makes your tummy leaner and bearing more suave. How’s that for two for two?

Pointer for Better Posture #2: Stand and stretch for a few minutes every hour you’re sitting down.

A lot of men sit in front of their computers all day while working. And these guys can be usually found hunched in front of their TV sets during their free time as well. Not only does too much sitting put you at risk of diabetes and cardiovascular problems in the future, which also means being vulnerable to weakened erections, it also significantly affects your posture.

See sitting for hours and hours reduces the flexibility of your muscles and makes your joints creaky. Aside from having sore knees, you also won’t be able to fully rotate your hips while at it, which can make or break your efforts at a better posture.

Pointer for Better Posture #3: Keep your head high.

According to a study conducted by psychologists in Australia, majority of women perceived guys who have their chins slightly elevated to be more confident and attractive. And this is also one way to significantly improve your posture.

Besides preventing your spine from bending too much, pulling back your head and raising your chin up also gives you a more dignified look. What’s even more interesting is that this also gives women the notion that you look leaner and taller.

Pointer for Better Posture #4: Never stand on one leg.

How you bear your weight on your legs can make the difference between good posture and a horrible one. Always keep in mind to evenly distribute your weight on both legs when standing up to avoid putting most of it on one side of your body only.

Practice concentrating your weight on the balls of your feet when standing up. Your body’s natural reaction when you rest your weight on your heels is to sag your shoulders and droop your back. Although it may look like doing so can take a long time getting used to, you can actually pull this off in just a few minutes.

Boost your chances of making her like you with these pointers.

A lot of guys mistakenly think that the best way of making a woman to like them is by showering her with lots of gifts and attention right from the beginning.

Now while this may sound like the most rational way to pull it off, you will only make her think that you just want something from her in return.

Like simply getting her in bed.

So if you’re looking to make a woman you’ve got your eyes on to like you soon, here are a few pointers that will help you do just that easily…

Respect should be your top priority.

Respect is a very important element if you’d like to connect with a woman on an emotional level. Show her that you respect her at all times and she’ll see you an adorable and likable guy. Just don’t overdo it or else she might think you’re only fit for the friend zone.

Make her feel that you always listen to her ideas.

If you’re following my posts for a long time now, you probably know that women have a soft spot for men who are great listeners. Apart from feeling that you really value their time, women also think that they can talk to you for very long without feeling bored or awkward in any way.

Moreover, no matter how dull her topics may be, never try to interrupt or manipulate the conversation your way. You’ll be surprised how much she’ll enjoy talking to you more.

Get to know the things that she is interested in or she loves doing.

Making a woman connect with you emotionally involves having to share a common ground with her, which makes establishing an emotional connection with her much easier. Make it a point to learn the things that spark her interest, match them up with the stuff you like and work from there.

Whether it’s books, movies or sports, letting her know that you complement the things that hold a special place in her heart can easily earn you a lot of brownie points with her. Just remember not to lie or pretend even a bit while you’re at it because she won’t have a problem seeing through your ruse and then it’s game over.

Make her feel that you want to be a friend.

Instantly hitting it off with a woman is only something you see on TV or in the movies. Before you can successfully make her like you, building a personal relationship with her should be a priority.

Start off by making her your friend. Introduce yourself to her properly so she won’t just see you as some creepy stranger. Make her see you as someone likable. Keep in mind to avoid acting like somebody you aren’t since she’ll only see you as a pretentious creep while at it as well.

So does she really like you? Let’s find out!

I’ll kick things off by pointing out that unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” and “dating gurus” are saying, you won’t make a woman like you in an instant by putting some “techniques” into play.

Now we’ve got that out of the bag, let’s move on to a thing that a lot of guys tend to mistakenly believe. And there’s a chance that you believe in it, too.

A lot of men think that women are extremely tough to decode when it comes to knowing if they’re interested romance-wise.

However, this isn’t true.

Sure this may sound surprising, but women actually send out somewhat obvious cues when they’re really into a guy. So if you’re still having a tough time determining if a woman you like feels the same way about you, here are a few signs that you should keep in mind…

She is comfortable about stripping.

Now don’t get too excited over this. What I mean to say is that women tend to become a bit more outgoing than usual when they’re with a guy they like.

Some don’t even mind taking off articles of clothing like jackets and coats in front of a man they’re interested in. If this happens to you, just imagine the other things she won’t mind taking off for you if you play your cards right…

She mimics what you’re doing.

“Mirroring” is an activity seen among primates and mammals when they’re trying to attract another of their species as a mate. This is also something demonstrated by humans when they’re with someone they like. The next time you see a woman copying your mannerisms and movements, you can safely assume that she’s interested in you.

She seems to want to give your drink or food a try.

Asking another person to give your drink or food a taste is an unconscious sign that you have a certain affinity with him or her. The next time she invites you rather enthusiastically to give her glass of wine or pasta a try, this already gives you an idea how she feels about you.

She touches you intentionally.

Touching is an unconscious way of telling a person that you care. So if you’re getting a casual pat here and a caress there from her, chances are she is attracted to you. Make sure you don’t take advantage of this by trying to touch her all over or else she’ll have a change of heart sooner than you think.

She easily laughs at your antics or jokes.

Now while getting humor into play is a surefire technique to attract a woman, seeing one laughing at almost everything you say is a clear indication that she likes you. Just make sure not to overdo it though like popping an off-color joke or something similar since it can instantly ruin the mood.

She has a pronounced lean when you share something.

This is perhaps the most obvious sign that she likes you. Women unknowingly become more outgoing when they are attracted to a guy. Besides sitting or standing closer to you than usual, they also appear to be very interested about the subject being discussed.

However, I would just like to emphasize that it is still important to keep these crucial grooming tips in mind so you can really wow a woman.

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And I’m not talking about heading off to the nearest plastic surgeon and asking for a consultation either.

But the thing is a lot of guys seem to overlook some simple pointers that can easily boost their attractiveness to the opposite sex.

Let me explain what I mean…

Unlike what most men mistakenly believe, attracting women is not all about looking like a movie star or having the physique of a professional athlete.

There are actually simple ways you can turn women’s heads and reeling them in without a fuss. So if you’re looking to take your attractiveness to the opposite sex up a notch, here are a few pointers that will surely help you do just that…

Kick your smoking habit goodbye.

 Now while drinking offers a few health benefits like making your heart stronger and keeping blood flow excellent, overdoing it can make you smell rather unpleasant to women. You can’t also start and keep a nice conversation going if you’re intoxicated. On the other hand, smoking only makes you smell like an ashtray and stains your teeth. Quit this nasty habit as soon as you can.

And just to make things worse, smoking can make your erections fizzle out, too.

Wear the right clothes.

A lot of men think that sports team jerseys can be worn in every occasion. Some also think that sagging pants is the in thing, too, along with baggy shirts. If you’re looking to be more attractive to women, improving your outfit choices should also be on your checklist.

The first thing you should do is go for a more mature apparel selection. Choose pants and shirts that aren’t just appropriate for your age, but fit you right as well. Dress up like a debonair and your efforts will be rewarded. Dressing down because you think it’s cool can lead to disaster sooner or later.

Your posture is crucial.

You may remember the countless times your mom told you to always stand up straight and have your shoulders square. Sure you may have only begrudgingly followed because you’re afraid she might pinch you somewhere you don’t want her to. However, having a good posture can actually attract women.

A recent University of Washington study revealed that majority of women found men who have good posture more attractive because they thought it gave the impression of excellent health and an agreeable disposition. This also goes to say that mothers really do know best.

Regular showers are essential.

Now while this may sound rather straightforward, women basically prefer men who hold hygiene in high regard. Women are very particular about the visual and nasal cues you give off. In other words, if you look and smell a bit funky, chances are a woman won’t be that too eager to mingle with you.

Make it a point to take regular showers. Use deodorant every day. Brush and floss your teeth at least twice daily. Spritz a bit of cologne or perfume. Just to make the whole thing even more interesting, knowing that you smell and look great also boosts the amount of endorphins or happy hormones in your brain, making you more sociable and confident around women.