Attracting Women

Your chances of getting her wet down there are going to be really low if you make these mistakes.

Having trouble getting her wet down there?

Women don’t just get sexually aroused in an instant. Unlike men who can get in the mood for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, they need to be eased into it slowly or else they won’t be able to get ready for a sex session at all.

It really doesn’t matter if you know all the best sexual positions in the book. What’s really important is that you know a few useful pointers that will really make her wet down there. And chances are you won’t be warming up your lover between the sheets if you make the following mistakes…

Your bedroom looks like a dump.

Tidying up your bedroom should be the very first thing on your checklist if you’re planning to sexually arouse your lover. Most women are very particular with neatness and organization. If your bedroom looks more like a dump instead of a place for lovemaking, she won’t be getting in the mood for sex anytime soon.

Make sure you clean your bedroom carefully and get rid of the clutter. Put on fresh sheets and drapes regularly. Don’t use your bedroom for storage. Place all used clothes in a bin so they won’t be all over the place. Make it a point to vacuum or sweep at least twice a week to keep clear from dust and grime.

Your hygiene is not that good.

Looking and smelling good is a priority if you’re planning to get your lover excited in bed. Now while there are some women who like their sexual partners a bit grungy, majority of them prefer guys who have proper grooming and hygiene.

Have regular showers. Use deodorant daily. Only wear clean clothes. Make sure you shave at least twice a week to avoid looking unkempt and scraggly. Trim your fingernails. Let your lover have the impression that you always try to look and smell like a million bucks for her.

You hurry her up to get to the main event.

Sexual arousal for women is a process. It just doesn’t happen instantly. You need to get your lover in the zone or else she won’t be warmed up for sex no matter how hard you try. The biggest mistake you will ever make when you want her to get wet is by forcing her to get ready.

Don’t hesitate to give her all the foreplay techniques you have up your sleeve. Stimulate all of her erogenous zones like the breasts, clitoris, inner thighs and other super sensitive areas properly. And don’t forget to keep on going when she’s moaning and groaning like crazy. It just means you are doing a good job.

Exercise isn’t a mainstay on your schedule.

Exercise is a major factor when it comes to lasting long enough in bed to satisfy your lover. When you sweat it out at least half an hour daily, you aren’t simply making your body healthier but also boosting your sexual stamina in the process.

Just imagine the orgasms you can give her if you have the right amount of sexual stamina. Compare that to lasting only a few minutes in bed and you’ll surely have exercise as a mainstay in your schedule as soon as you can.

Looking to boost your chances of acing a first date?

Looking to boost your chances of acing a first date?

Acing a first date isn’t something that you can pull off by wearing loud clothes and acting like the alpha male as pushed by so-called “dating gurus.”

I’ve learned a few useful pointers during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help you boost your chances of convincing her to go out on a date with you again.

Make sure you read on to learn more…

Be very conscious of your grooming.

How you look and smell are the two key factors that a woman will check out when you’re going out on a first date with her.

Make it a point to really pull out all the stops in ensuring that you will look and smell like a million bucks.

Besides planning your outfit at least two days ahead, keeping in mind to wear clean shoes should also be a priority in your checklist.

Be punctual.

Arriving on time or earlier than designated gives her the message that you’re responsible and has good time management skills.

Make it a point to arrive at least 10 minutes ahead of her on your first date to avoid having this effect on her.

You can also improve your first date checklist while you’re waiting for her.

Let her in on the planning.

Now while it’s the norm that guys should be in charge when it comes to planning a first date, letting her in on the same has its awesome benefits.

See, besides picking up a few things that you can use to dazzle her as you go along, you will also make her feel that you’re really into her.

How’s that for a few extra brownie points for you?

Ask trivial questions.

Engaging the woman you’re on a first date with in a conversation isn’t that tricky at all.

Starting things off with a trivial question like asking her what her favorite cartoon character is or perhaps the TV series that she’s following these days is a great strategy to have in your checklist.

And no matter how smart you think it is, leading with technical and complicated topics won’t cut it.

Put your phone on silent mode.

Putting your phone away during a first date not just helps you fully concentrate on the woman you’re out with, but also gives her the idea that you’re really into her.

I know this may be tricky to do, but putting those texts, videos, status updates and other stuff on hold actually boosts your chances of landing a second date.

A few tips on scoring a second date.

A few tips on scoring a second date.

I’m pretty sure that scoring a second date is your top priority when you’re taking out a woman for the very first time.

But the thing is successfully doing this isn’t about acting the alpha male or wearing loud clothes like self-proclaimed “dating gurus” are saying.

Make sure you read on to learn some simple ways of increasing your chances of convincing the woman you’re going out on a first date with to have a second one with you.

Plan your getup ahead of time.

Women are very particular with how you look and smell. If you show up on a date wearing some hastily thrown getup, you’re in for a lot of disappointment.

Make it a point to plan your apparel beforehand – at least a couple of days beforehand – to find out what works and what doesn’t.

And while we’re on the subject, wear clean shoes. Women are quite meticulous with footwear, too.

Switch off your phone.

Now while phones are necessities in today’s modern world, being distracted by it during a first date will just lead to disaster.

Keep in mind to switch it off during your first date so you can really give your utmost attention to the woman you’re going out with.

The status updates, tweets, funny emails and videos as well as the other stuff you normally check out with your phone can wait.

Ask trivial questions.

Sure intelligence is sexy for women, but starting things off with something difficult and complicated isn’t going to cut it.

This is because it will just give your date the notion that you’re trying too hard to impress her, which will just make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.

One effective way of doing this is asking trivial questions. Besides making it easy for her to relate to, she won’t also have a hard time answering them as you go along.

Examples like the TV show she’s following or the name of her first pet should be your guide, too.

Get and maintain ideal eye contact.

Getting and maintaining ideal eye contact is a must because this gesture gives the woman you’re on a first date with the notion that you’re not someone shady.

Make it a point to establish eye contact when you’re exchanging ideas with her.

If you’re not that comfortable to do so, you can always focus your vision to the upper bridge of her nose.

Avoid these first date mistakes!

Avoid these first date mistakes!

Making a first date successful is no doubt your top priority when you’re taking out a woman for the first time.

But the thing is doing such that isn’t about following the advice of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” these days.

Pulling it off isn’t about acting like the alpha male or perhaps wearing loud clothes to make her think that she has to give you her utmost attention.

Acting like a jerk and having a bad get-up combined? Well, that’s the start of a really bad first date in my book.

However, I’ve compiled a few mistakes that you should avoid to help boost your chances of making her say yes to a second date.

Let me explain what I mean…

Arriving late.

Women are a bit particular with punctuality. If you arrive late on your first date, she might think that you’re irresponsible. And it’s going to have a big effect on your goal to score a second date even if you’re already pulling out all the stops while at it. Keep in mind to arrive at least 15 minutes earlier and you’re good to go.

Not planning your apparel ahead of time.

How you look and smell is a big deal when it comes to women. So you’re sure to elicit the wrong reaction from her when you show up with a hastily grabbed getup. Make it a point to plan your apparel two days before so you can easily see what works and what doesn’t.

Talking about complicated stuff.

Now while intelligence is sexy to women, kicking things off with complicated stuff when you’re trying to engage her in a conversation will just lead to disaster before you know it. This is because she’ll just think you’re trying too hard in the process. Ask trivial things like the name of her favorite cartoon character, the name of her first pet or perhaps the TV show she’s following these days and you’ll be surprised with the results.

Not getting and keeping eye contact.

So here’s the situation…

You’re basically giving her the idea that you’re hiding something when you can’t keep and maintain eye contact with the woman you’re on a first date with. If you’re having difficulty looking at her straight in the eye, try looking at the top of the bridge of her nose. Besides giving her the notion that you’re listening to her intently, it will also make her feel that you’re really into her.