Attracting Women

Always keep clear from these crucial dating mistakes!

If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that acing a first date is as easy as looking like a movie star. A few spritzes of an expensive cologne also helps boost your chances of doing just that as well.

However, having a successful date is more than just looking and smelling great. It is also avoiding making these mistakes that a lot of guys don’t even have the slightest clue they are doing them already.

You hog the spotlight.

Perhaps one of the biggest mistakes a lot of guys make when they’re out with a woman is not listening intently to them when they are engaged in a conversation. Apart from giving them the notion that you are interested in their ideas and feelings, you are also making them feel anxious and impatient.

See, listening is one way to establish trust with your date. Unless you make a woman feel that she can easily open up to you, chances are she won’t be trusting you anytime soon, which also means that it’s game over when it comes to your date.

Moreover, besides blowing your chances of making your date successful, you won’t also get to know the woman you’re out with better that can easily help you plan your next strategy to make her fall for you.

You’re not listening to her.

Not listening attentively to your date is one thing and talking too much is another. Simply not giving the woman you’re out with the chance to share her ideas easily turns her off.

This is because your date will think that you are self-centered and rather difficult to engage in a discussion with. And when this happens, your chances of earning her trust are going to be bleak.

Keep in mind to make the conversation mostly about your date and you’ll be just fine. Make it a point to find out a few interesting things about the woman you’re out with like her favorite fruit or movie and the discussion will flow smoothly.

You don’t give her a hint of mystery.

Women like a bit of mystery when it comes to their dates. Simply opening yourself up to a woman as soon as you engage in a discussion is definitely a no-no because she will think you’re boring since you’ve already bared it all.

Have a few mysterious details here and there to intrigue her and you’ll pull off a successful date in no time.

Being late…which is a dating mortal sin.

Showing up late on a first date is perhaps the biggest mistake you’ll ever make. She will immediately have the wrong notion about you, too. And you don’t want that to happen, right?

She’s just going to be frustrated during your first date when you make these mistakes.

If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that acing a first date is as easy as looking like a movie star. A few spritzes of an expensive cologne also helps boost your chances of doing just that as well.

However, having a successful date is more than just looking and smelling great. It is also avoiding making these mistakes that a lot of guys don’t even have the slightest clue they are doing them already.

Arriving late. Seriously.

Showing up late on a first date is perhaps the biggest mistake you’ll ever make. She will immediately have the wrong notion about you, too. And you don’t want that to happen, right?

Going all-out with your personal details.

Women like a bit of mystery when it comes to their dates. Simply opening yourself up to a woman as soon as you engage in a discussion is definitely a no-no because she will think you’re boring since you’ve already bared it all.

Have a few mysterious details here and there to intrigue her and you’ll pull off a successful date in no time.

Not giving her the chance to open up.

Not listening attentively to your date is one thing and talking too much is another. Simply not giving the woman you’re out with the chance to share her ideas easily turns her off.

This is because your date will think that you are self-centered and rather difficult to engage in a discussion with. And when this happens, your chances of earning her trust are going to be bleak.

Keep in mind to make the conversation mostly about your date and you’ll be just fine. Make it a point to find out a few interesting things about the woman you’re out with like her favorite fruit or movie and the discussion will flow smoothly.

Not giving her the attention she deserves.

Perhaps one of the biggest mistakes a lot of guys make when they’re out with a woman is not listening intently to them when they are engaged in a conversation. Apart from giving them the notion that you are interested in their ideas and feelings, you are also making them feel anxious and impatient.

See, listening is one way to establish trust with your date. Unless you make a woman feel that she can easily open up to you, chances are she won’t be trusting you anytime soon, which also means that it’s game over when it comes to your date.

Moreover, besides blowing your chances of making your date successful, you won’t also get to know the woman you’re out with better that can easily help you plan your next strategy to make her fall for you.

Boost your confidence around women with these 3 simple pointers.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you’d like to give women the notion that you’re a very confident man because confidence is pure sexy to them.

However, unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, doing just that isn’t something complicated at all. And you shouldn’t believe the things a lot of “dating gurus” say like wearing loud outfits as well as saying certain words can help you pull this off without a hitch.

I discovered a few interesting pointers that can help you feel and act more confident during my extensive research into the male psychology though. So make sure you read on to find out what these are…

Flaunt those chompers.

Did you know that the simple act of smiling is the most effective ice breaker ever? Make it a habit to flash your pearly whites when socializing with women and you’ll give them the notion that you are an OK guy to hang out with.

Go for shoes and clothes that make you feel comfy.

It is not true that there are only certain outfits that help you feel confident around women. Interestingly, anything that is decent and comfortable can be worn to help you do just that. You don’t have to follow the advice of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” that will only make you look ridiculous.

There are some so-called gurus who recommend wearing the loudest, most eye-catching apparel during social interactions since they make you appear strong and a go-getter, much like the alpha male of the pack. Well, I think that’s simply silly.

Make it a point to keep accessories at a minimal, too. A watch and cuff link combo should do the trick. Don’t forget to give your shoes a meticulous cleaning before you meet and greet women as well since they can easily make or break a date.

Hygiene should be a top priority.

Sure this may sound rather cliché, but keeping a close eye on your hygiene is a very important factor when it comes to boosting your confidence levels. As it turns out, making hygiene a priority sets off something amazing inside your body.

See, when you smell and look great, the brain spikes up the number of feel-good hormones in the system. Apart from making you feel livelier, it also makes you more receptive and friendlier during social interactions.

This is because you won’t be as anxious and worrisome when being around women or perhaps going out with a woman you’ve got your eye on for a very long time. So make it a habit to make yourself look and smell good as much as you can and you’re on the right track.

Still having a tough time scoring that second date?

If you’re anything like most men, you probably went through a date that didn’t go too well once or twice.

I’ve been there quite a few times as well and that prompted me to delve more on how to make myself more attractive to women when I take them out.

What’s really interesting is that I discovered a few significant mistakes that keep men from turning women’s heads in the dating scene over the years. And I’m sure they can help you boost your chances of snagging another date with a woman you like, too.

Make sure you follow along to find out what they are and how you can use them to your advantage without a fuss.

Remember to wear the right pair of shoes.

I’ve learned that if you really want to make the best impression on a woman when you take her out on a date, you can start by going for the right footwear. Women have the tendency to draw out personal attributes of a guy they’re with just by giving his shoes a peek. Let me give you a few examples.

They thought you were sloppy when your shoes look like they’ve been hurriedly cleaned or wiped down. Moreover, women assumed you don’t care about your appearance if your shoes look really worn and are almost breaking up. Keep in mind to wear nice and clean shoes to a date and you’re good to go.

Make oral and dental hygiene a priority.

I’ve come across a psychology book that revealed women are more inclined to be drawn to your teeth when you smile instead of focusing on your face as a whole. This means that if your teeth look unpleasant, there’s a possibility that your date won’t turn out well as you’ve expected.

Make it a point to brush and floss at least twice a day. Besides keeping your pearly whites free from cavities, you’re also going to do away with stains and grime that can discolor your teeth. And poor dental hygiene can lead to erectile dysfunction sooner or later as well.

Make sure your hair is properly groomed.

Although women have different views on the correct length of hair a man should have, they seem to collectively agree that what matters the most is the style it comes in. They don’t want it too slick that it already looks slimy or perhaps too laid back that it already appears frenzied. Style it carefully and properly to get the best results.