Attracting Women

Steer clear from the friend zone with these tips!

If you’re anything like most guys, it’s either you experienced getting stuck in the friend zone or very much afraid of being so. But the thing is there are simple pointers you need to keep in mind to avoid getting trapped in it.

Let me explain what I mean…

Getting stuck in the friendzone is definitely one of the most awkward experiences that you’ll ever go through.

However, unlike what most men tend to mistakenly believe, falling in the friendzone trap doesn’t just happen.

It is actually the result of the choices that you made as well as the decisions that you went for as you’re building a relationship with a woman.

And what’s really interesting is there are key reasons why a lot of men tend to get themselves stuck in the friendzone. Make sure follow along to find out what these are…

You don’t tell her you have romantic intentions for her.

Letting a woman know that you’re looking to have a romantic relationship with her is a priority if you want to do just that.

Come to think of it. How does she know that you want to be closer with her in a more romantic way if you don’t tell her in the first place? Tell her straight up if you’re looking to avoid the friend zone!

You can tell her this using a simple text message, a card with flowers or some other nice gesture that you usually do. You can even tell her while you’re doing something that you two like.

Just keep in mind to do it sweet and simple. Complicating things will only result to the opposite.

You spoil her. A lot.

Say a woman you like sends you a text message at 2 in the morning asking for a ride to some place or a bite of her favorite pizza, what would you do?

Now while doing this once or twice is perfectly fine, you’re definitely on your way to being friendzoned if you make it a habit.

You’re just unconsciously telling her that you’re a chump when you do this. And women don’t like chumps.

You make her feel that you’re the nicest guy in the universe.

Now while I am not saying that being nice is an attribute that you should check off your checklist when it comes to building a romantic relationship with a woman, being too nice is just going to be a disaster sooner or later.

Aside from making a woman feel that she can easily manipulate you (just imagine how that will turn out), she will also get the notion that you’re not that exciting to be her love interest.

Make it a point to turn down the nice factor down a notch and you’re good to go. Be the boy next door, but not the doormat.

Is she turning down sex most of the time?

Let’s face it. Sometimes when you’re really hot for action in bed, chances are she’s not in the mood.

Now while there are no “magic tricks” to make a woman sexually aroused at the drop of a hat unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying, I’ve come across a few useful tips during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help you boost the odds that she’ll say yes to a sex session when you feel like it.

If your lover seems not that receptive to your hints at getting in action between the sheets these days, there’s no need to worry just yet.

You only have to keep in mind a few simple ways to get her excited for lovemaking again. Here are some useful and easy ways to pull it off without a hitch.

Take your oral hygiene to a whole new level.

Neglecting your oral health can lead to more than just tooth decay and diseased gums. It can also significantly lower your chances of making your lover all fired up for sex.

See, having bad breath simply repels women away. It doesn’t matter if you put on some nice clothes or perhaps wore the perfume that she really likes. Your partner will just reject you even when you do your fanciest moves to get her going for lovemaking.

Keep in mind that kissing plays a very important role in sex and having bad breath will make it impossible to feel sexy.

Make exercise a daily habit.

Now while a lot of guys mistakenly believe that sweating it out for a few minutes each day is just for fitness buffs, it is actually a very important component of keeping your lover excited to get between the sheets with you.

See, exercising helps you produce sweat, which contains pheromones. Sure it may sound a bit technical, but pheromones are actually natural chemicals that help attract women into getting sexually receptive with you.

And just to make the whole deal even more awesome, making exercise a regular in your daily checklist also helps you look better, which is definitely a good thing when it comes to attracting women.

Mind you, scientists say that 15 minutes of moderately working out is already ideal to keep your body and sexual stamina in shape.

Up your shower game up a notch.

Smelling rather funky is perhaps the biggest turn off when it comes to convincing your partner to get it on with you in the bedroom. No matter how hard you try, she won’t be that too eager to have sex with you if you stink of sweat or your armpits are reeking.

As long as you smell bad, it’s a no-go for her.

Make it a point to include regular showers in your list of daily activities. Not only will showering help you get rid of germ-harboring dirt and grime that may have accumulated in your body, but it will also make you smell nice and fresh…which is a great way to build up your lover’s interest in getting frisky in bed.

Still can’t figure out if she is really having a great time on your first date?

So here’s the thing. You’re on a first date with a woman you’ve got your eye on for a long time now and you’d like to ace the whole thing. But the thing is you still can’t tell if she’s really having a grand time with you.

And just to tell you the awful truth, there’s no such thing as making a woman fall for you as soon as you take her out on a date like a number of so-called “dating gurus” are saying. Sure there are key dating factors that can help you pull it off, but there’s no secret technique that gets the job done like magic.

However, there are a few signs that you can keep an eye out on to determine if she is really enjoying herself during your date. And if you’re looking to boost your chances the next time you’re taking a woman out, make sure you read on…

You will notice she isn’t taking regular glances at her watch or mobile phone.

A woman who isn’t concerned about stretching the time when it comes to your first date is definitely enjoying the whole thing. When you don’t hear her say “it’s late” or perhaps “I’ve got to get up early tomorrow” constantly, then it’s a sign she’s willing to be with you for a longer time.

Remember to maintain her interest by keeping the mood light and easy and she won’t find it tough to decide that you need to have a second date soon.

You will notice she is actively participating in the exchange of ideas.

You know you’re doing a good job during your first date when she is not talking in an awkward way, as if she’s conversing in a reserved manner. This just means that she’s out of her comfort zone and is willing to mingle with you more.

Apart from listening to her intently to gather a few ideas you can use to dazzle her even more, make sure you add meaningful ideas yourself during your discussion. Avoid topics that can be rather sensitive like religion, politics and other subjects that are not appropriate to talk about during a first date.

You will notice she is giving you her utmost attention.

A woman who’s paying more attention to her phone instead of having a meaningful conversation with you during your first date is rather bored. This means that you need to spice things up fast or else you will blow your chances of acing that date sooner than you think.

It’s either you need to look for another topic to discuss about or perhaps change the mood of the date to a lighter one by telling a joke or sharing an amusing anecdote. Make her feel that you’re fun to be with and it’ll be easier to keep her attention.

So you’re looking to ace that first date…

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, convincing a woman to go on a second date with you isn’t about getting lucky.

It’s rather about knowing a few tricks to easily boost your chances of taking her out again. So if you’re looking to finally land that second date you’ve always wished for, here are a few tips to keep in mind…

Remember you’re not on a booze run.

Although it’s alright to have a drink or two on your date, simply having too much will just lead to disaster. Some guys think that downing a lot of their drink of choice will make them more confident on their date.

Sadly, this is not true. It will just make you act erratic, talk gibberish and eventually blow your chances of landing another date with a woman. Just to be safe, stick to water, juice or cola.

Pick the most trivial topics to break the ice.

Breaking the ice properly is a good way to make a woman feel more comfortable being with you. And unless you make her feel just that, chances are she won’t be that excited to go out with you again no matter how hard you try.

It’s not that tough to actually get a great conversation going when you’re on a date. You only have to do one thing a lot of guys tend to overlook when they’re going out with a woman: talking casually. Make it a point to kick things off with topics that are fun to talk about and you’re sure to be off on a good start.

Steer clear from politics, religion and other things that can prevent your date from really opening up to you. If you feel that she’s not that receptive to you anymore, talk about something else or get back to a topic that she likes.

Look and smell like a million bucks.

Now while I don’t mean this as something offensive, how you look and smell can make or break your chances of scoring a second date with a woman you’ve got your eyes on. Unless you make your date feel that you’ve exerted a lot of effort to look and smell nice, chances are she won’t be that too eager to go out with you again.

See, grooming is one of the key elements women use as a standard if a guy deserves to have a second date with them. Besides being a sign of how they take care of themselves, it also gives women a preview of how healthy a man is.

Interestingly, taking regular showers, brushing and flossing frequently as well as using deodorant also helps boost the production and release of feel-good hormones in the body that make you feel more comfortable and confident during your date.