Attracting Women

She’s sure to have her mind blown with these massaging tips…

Unlike what most guys mistakenly think, massages aren’t just for relieving stress and getting rid of knots in aching muscles.

You can also use them to warm up a woman for lovemaking if you just know how to pull it off. And the good news is it isn’t as complicated as you may have previously thought.

So if you’re looking to take your lover’s sexual arousal levels off the charts the next time you do magic with your fingertips, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind…

Get her mood going with the right playlist.

Music can easily improve your lover’s mood during a massage. Choose tunes that are slow, easy and provocative. Besides allowing her to feel totally relaxed and tranquil, hearing sexy music will also make her think about erotic things between the sheets – making it even easier for you to get the job done.

Grab some scented candles to make her feel more comfortable.

Having scented candles on your checklist the next time you give your partner a massage is definitely a priority. Apart from adding a touch of daintiness that women love, scented candles also come with amazing aromas that make her feel calmer during the whole experience.

If you still can’t make up your mind which scented candles to go for, choose jasmine and chamomile. They don’t just have a soothing effect, but also smell awesome. Fruity variants like apple, cherry and peach are also available, too.

Go the extra mile and clean and organize your bedroom while at it, too.

Go for areas near her sexy zones.

Just to give her an idea that you’d like more than giving her a massage, make sure you stroke the muscles near her pelvis, thighs and lower back. Apart from occasionally brushing on your lover’s erotic parts, you can also easily gauge where you need to focus more simply by observing her reaction while doing so.

Look and smell like you’re a snack.

How you look and smell when you’re giving your lover a massage can easily make or break your chances of getting her sexually excited no matter how hard you try. Make it a point to prep up meticulously before getting into action.

Besides taking a shower and having a spritz of deodorant and cologne, it’s also a good idea to trim your fingernails while at it so your lover won’t be feeling any unintentional painful pinches and nips when she’s already getting all relaxed and cozy.

And the snack part? She might just forego the massage and get straight to the action.

So does she really like you? Let’s find out!

I’ll kick things off by pointing out that unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” and “dating gurus” are saying, you won’t make a woman like you in an instant by putting some “techniques” into play.

Now we’ve got that out of the bag, let’s move on to a thing that a lot of guys tend to mistakenly believe. And there’s a chance that you believe in it, too.

A lot of men think that women are extremely tough to decode when it comes to knowing if they’re interested romance-wise.

However, this isn’t true.

Sure this may sound surprising, but women actually send out somewhat obvious cues when they’re really into a guy. So if you’re still having a tough time determining if a woman you like feels the same way about you, here are a few signs that you should keep in mind…

She is comfortable about stripping.

Now don’t get too excited over this. What I mean to say is that women tend to become a bit more outgoing than usual when they’re with a guy they like.

Some don’t even mind taking off articles of clothing like jackets and coats in front of a man they’re interested in. If this happens to you, just imagine the other things she won’t mind taking off for you if you play your cards right…

She mimics what you’re doing.

“Mirroring” is an activity seen among primates and mammals when they’re trying to attract another of their species as a mate. This is also something demonstrated by humans when they’re with someone they like. The next time you see a woman copying your mannerisms and movements, you can safely assume that she’s interested in you.

She seems to want to give your drink or food a try.

Asking another person to give your drink or food a taste is an unconscious sign that you have a certain affinity with him or her. The next time she invites you rather enthusiastically to give her glass of wine or pasta a try, this already gives you an idea how she feels about you.

She touches you intentionally.

Touching is an unconscious way of telling a person that you care. So if you’re getting a casual pat here and a caress there from her, chances are she is attracted to you. Make sure you don’t take advantage of this by trying to touch her all over or else she’ll have a change of heart sooner than you think.

She easily laughs at your antics or jokes.

Now while getting humor into play is a surefire technique to attract a woman, seeing one laughing at almost everything you say is a clear indication that she likes you. Just make sure not to overdo it though like popping an off-color joke or something similar since it can instantly ruin the mood.

She has a pronounced lean when you share something.

This is perhaps the most obvious sign that she likes you. Women unknowingly become more outgoing when they are attracted to a guy. Besides sitting or standing closer to you than usual, they also appear to be very interested about the subject being discussed.

However, I would just like to emphasize that it is still important to keep these crucial grooming tips in mind so you can really wow a woman.

Is it time to give your bedroom a thorough cleaning and organizing?

When was the last time you cleaned and organized your bedroom?

Sure that question may seem out of line now, but you’ll want to check out this post why it is crucial that you clean and organize your bedroom before we go on…

Now while this may sound surprising, research shows that women find it easier to become sexually aroused if they think that the bedroom they’re in is clean and organized when it comes to lovemaking.

Instead of successfully turning her on the next time you get frisky, neurological scientists from Atlanta discovered that a lot of women are more likely to feel stressed and uncomfortable if the bedroom they’re going to make love in is a mess.

This simply means that no matter how good you are at foreplay to make your lover hot and ready for action between the sheets, there is a very big chance that you won’t fully arouse her sexually if your bedroom is cluttered and just plain chaotic.

Now while it’s not uncommon for men to be less than devoted to cleaning and organizing their bedrooms, not doing just that can take a toll on your sex life sooner or later.

So if you’re still not convinced why you need to spend more time keeping your bedroom tidy and organized, here are a few good reasons why you should have it on your regular schedule immediately…

You’ll have a tough time warming her up.

As I have pointed out earlier, women are not wired to get completely sexually aroused when they feel stressed or anxious even a bit. Unlike guys that can rise to the occasion at the drop of a hat, women simply need to feel extremely relaxed during lovemaking.

Although there is a possibility that sex can still happen between the two of you, you will easily notice that she won’t be as lubricated or responsive while you’re at it.

You will end up making her feel trashy.

Women are very critical with nasal and visual cues. In short, how you exert effort to look and smell good around them can either make or break your chances of actually getting them between the sheets.

The more you look and smell awesome, the more valuable they feel to you. The same logic goes for your bedroom. Sure she may be your lover, but how do you think she will feel if you try to have sex with her in a messy place?

You will just inadvertently spike her anxiety levels.

Let’s start with the most important reason of all. Women can’t fully become sexually aroused if they feel anxious or uncomfortable. As long as your lover feels that something isn’t right, like the dirty clothes you have on the floor or the dusty drapes, you won’t be getting her wet and wild anytime soon.

Looking to be more attractive to women? Check this out.

And I’m not talking about heading off to the nearest plastic surgeon and asking for a consultation either.

But the thing is a lot of guys seem to overlook some simple pointers that can easily boost their attractiveness to the opposite sex.

Let me explain what I mean…

Unlike what most men mistakenly believe, attracting women is not all about looking like a movie star or having the physique of a professional athlete.

There are actually simple ways you can turn women’s heads and reeling them in without a fuss. So if you’re looking to take your attractiveness to the opposite sex up a notch, here are a few pointers that will surely help you do just that…

Kick your smoking habit goodbye.

 Now while drinking offers a few health benefits like making your heart stronger and keeping blood flow excellent, overdoing it can make you smell rather unpleasant to women. You can’t also start and keep a nice conversation going if you’re intoxicated. On the other hand, smoking only makes you smell like an ashtray and stains your teeth. Quit this nasty habit as soon as you can.

And just to make things worse, smoking can make your erections fizzle out, too.

Wear the right clothes.

A lot of men think that sports team jerseys can be worn in every occasion. Some also think that sagging pants is the in thing, too, along with baggy shirts. If you’re looking to be more attractive to women, improving your outfit choices should also be on your checklist.

The first thing you should do is go for a more mature apparel selection. Choose pants and shirts that aren’t just appropriate for your age, but fit you right as well. Dress up like a debonair and your efforts will be rewarded. Dressing down because you think it’s cool can lead to disaster sooner or later.

Your posture is crucial.

You may remember the countless times your mom told you to always stand up straight and have your shoulders square. Sure you may have only begrudgingly followed because you’re afraid she might pinch you somewhere you don’t want her to. However, having a good posture can actually attract women.

A recent University of Washington study revealed that majority of women found men who have good posture more attractive because they thought it gave the impression of excellent health and an agreeable disposition. This also goes to say that mothers really do know best.

Regular showers are essential.

Now while this may sound rather straightforward, women basically prefer men who hold hygiene in high regard. Women are very particular about the visual and nasal cues you give off. In other words, if you look and smell a bit funky, chances are a woman won’t be that too eager to mingle with you.

Make it a point to take regular showers. Use deodorant every day. Brush and floss your teeth at least twice daily. Spritz a bit of cologne or perfume. Just to make the whole thing even more interesting, knowing that you smell and look great also boosts the amount of endorphins or happy hormones in your brain, making you more sociable and confident around women.