Attracting Women

Wow her with these first date getup tips!

Wow her with these first date getup tips!

Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” are saying, acing a first date isn’t something that you can achieve by simply following some pointers like acting like the alpha male and wearing loud clothes to really give a woman the idea that she should go out again with you.

But the thing is you’ll just end up giving her the wrong notion when you follow these tips.

Come to think of it. Put yourself in a woman’s shoes for a moment. How would you feel if the guy you’re on a date with arrives in a really gaudy getup and acts like the most self-obsessed man on earth?

Not good, right?

Interestingly, I’ve picked up a few key wardrobe factors during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help boost your chances of convincing your date to go out with you another time.

Go for a simple yet well-planned apparel.

A lot of men tend to overlook the fact that coming up with a nice outfit for a first date doesn’t have to be complicated in any way. You simply have to keep three important things in mind: it has to be appropriate, comfortable and match well together.

Having these three in your checklist when you’re planning your outfit will surely help you make the right choices and come up with a superb getup, which will wow your date as soon as you arrive.

Cleanliness is a big deal.

Women are very particular with cleanliness. If your date notices that your clothes and shoes are not as clean and well-maintained as they should be, she will just have a surge of stress hormones that will make her feel that you’re sloppy and irresponsible.

And it will just get worse as your date goes on. Besides feeling uneasy with you, she will also feel impatient and awkward as the minutes tick. That already gives you an idea of how your chances for a second date will turn out.

Don’t overdo it on the accessories.

Although topping off your getup with an accessory or a piece of jewelry helps wrap things up, overdoing it will simply make you look showy and desperate. Remember to only integrate two accessories in your apparel max and you’re on the right track.

Never forget your hanky.

A handkerchief is a crucial part of your apparel. You’ll never know when you will need it so make sure you have one.

Avoid these first date mistakes!

Avoid these first date mistakes!

Acing a first date is no doubt your top priority when you’ve finally convinced a woman to go out with you.

However, unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” are saying, getting the job done isn’t about acting like the alpha male or perhaps wearing loud clothes to give her the notion that your confidence levels are simply off the charts.

I’ve learned a few key dating mistakes during my extensive research into the female psychology, though, that you should keep clear of to boost your chances of making the woman you’re on a first date with to go out with you again…

Don’t choose an ultra-posh place.

Sure the idea of going for a very luxurious venue for your date may be a nice idea, but it can actually drag down your chances of acing the whole thing.

This is because doing just that will keep her from completely feeling relaxed and comfortable on your date. It will simply give your first date the atmosphere of a job interview.

Better make it a point to let her get in on the action when choosing your date’s venue to prevent this from happening.

You can also go for her favorite bar or deli since she already feels cozy there.

Don’t neglect your shoes.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you’re not that particular with your footwear.

However, not choosing the right ones for your date as well as not keeping them in great shape in the process will only lead to disaster.

See, when you show up with dirty shoes, your date will just have the notion that you’re irresponsible and sloppy.

Definitely not a good way to kick things off to your convincing her for a second date, don’t you think?

Don’t talk about complicated stuff.

Now while engaging a woman in a meaningful discussion during a first date is a must, opening with technical subjects like electronics, politics and similar things isn’t the way to do it.

Besides giving her the notion that you’re trying too hard, she also won’t be able to relate with you while at it. You will just make her feel anxious, awkward and impatient.

And she won’t be impressed no matter what, too.

Make it a point to talk about trivial stuff to get her going. Ask her what her favorite movie is or perhaps the cartoon character she really likes.

 

Is your date always going mum on you?

Is your date always going mum on you?

One of the factors that play a key role in giving a woman you’re on a date with an awesome time is getting a meaningful conversation going.

Besides giving your date the notion that you’re not a phony and willing to open up to her, you’ll also know a few personal things about her that you can use to dazzle her as you go along.

However, there are a few things that you need to keep in mind when it comes to engaging a woman you’re on a date with in a meaningful conversation.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

Have a confident speaking tone and rhythm.

Before even thinking about getting a conversation going, keep in mind to have your end of things up to par.

Apart from making sure to utter your words confidently and in the right volume, remember to pronounce your words clearly while at it as well.

This is to ensure that she will understand what you’re talking about, which is extremely important.

Share a funny story.

One of the easiest ways to encourage a woman to talk with you is by tickling her funny bone.

You can share a joke, tell her an amusing anecdote or perhaps describe a funny scene in a movie or TV series you just watched.

Besides making her laugh, this also promotes a sudden release of positive hormones in her body, which is a good thing.

One thing to keep in mind, though. Don’t overdo it by telling her funny yet risqué stuff or things will just lead to disaster.

Ask her something trivial.

Unlike what some guys mistakenly think, talking about complicated stuff won’t make your date think that you are smart and attractive.

She’ll just have the notion that you’re full of hot air.

Instead, ask her trivial questions like what her favorite cartoon character is or what kind of pie she prefers. Sure this sounds simplistic, but it actually helps a great deal.

You’re not just encouraging her to share ideas with you, but you’re also getting to know her better in the process.

Vary your topics.

Talking about one topic the whole time can become boring sooner or later no matter how interesting it is in the first place.

Make it a point to mix things up from time to time to keep the flow of the conversation going smoothly.

So you're still not acing that first date...

So you’re still not acing that first date…

It’s either you make a good impression on the woman you’re on the first date with or blow your chances to go out with her again.

And unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, doing just that isn’t something that you can pull off by following the stuff that self-proclaimed “pickup artists” are saying these days.

You can’t ace a first date by acting like the alpha male or perhaps putting on loud clothes. Come to think of it and put yourself in your date’s shoes for a minute.

If the man you’re on a first date with acts like a jerk and dresses funny, would you ever think about going out with him again anytime soon? Well, there’s your answer.

Moreover, while researching extensively into the female psychology, I’ve learned a few things that can easily blow your chances of convincing a woman to go on a second date with you.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

You immediately put on the moves on her.

Women think of first dates as friendly situations where they can meet new people.

And you will just end up creeping her out if you start putting on the moves on her as soon as your date starts, which means that your date won’t turn out like you’d expected.

Keep things as friendly as you can to make her feel relaxed and comfortable around you, which gets you on the right track to getting that second date.

You bash previous first dates.

Although it’s important that you get to know your date better, simply doing a tell-all about the bad first dates that you had is one of the worst things that you can do.

This is because it will just make her feel that you’ve got a lot of emotional baggage to get rid of.

It will also give her the notion that if your date will turn out bad, she will also think that you’re going to gossip about her on your next first date.

You don’t ask trivial questions.

Encouraging a woman to talk to you is not about trying to impress her about the complicated stuff that you know.

You’ll be surprised with the results if you ask her simple and trivial questions.

Put yourself in your date’s shoes for a bit. Would you rather talk about a subject that you don’t have even the slightest inkling about or something you can easily relate to?