Attracting Women

So you're looking to boost your chances of getting a second date...

So you’re looking to boost your chances of getting a second date…

I’m pretty sure that your top priority when it comes to first dates is to make the whole thing as amazing for a woman as you can to easily convince her to go out with you again.

Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus,” though, getting the job done isn’t just about wearing loud clothes to really “get her attention” and “acting like the alpha male” to give her the notion that she’s safe with you.

But come to think of it. If you were to put yourself in your date’s shoes for a bit, do you really think that she will go out with another time? Well, there you go.

Interestingly, I’ve learned a few things during my extensive research into the female psychology that may just boost your chances of acing a first date and easily convince a woman to go out with you again…

Keep a very close eye on your overall grooming.

Now while this may sound really surprising to be even here, not having this one on your checklist will just lead to disaster before you know it.

See, women are very particular with how the guys they’re going on a first date with look and smell. If the woman you’re out with thinks that you didn’t take care of your grooming like you should, she’ll just think badly of you.

Choose a place that she’s familiar with.

Sure the idea of picking a luxurious place for your first date may seem like a good idea to really wow a woman, it is actually one of the biggest mistakes that you’ll ever make.

This is because she will have the feeling that she’s going on a job interview instead of a first date. She’ll simply have a surge of stress hormones that will just raise her anxiety levels.

Make it a point to go for places she frequently hangs out in like her favorite bar or restaurant so she’ll be more sociable and relaxed during the same.

Talk about trivial stuff.

Women basically think of first dates as opportunities for them to make new friends. You can already imagine how things will go if you break the ice with romantic stuff.

Keep in mind to ask her easy to digest questions like what her favorite cartoon show is or perhaps the last book she’s pored over and you’re sure to engage her in a meaningful exchange of ideas soon enough.

Looking to boost your confidence levels? Read this.

Looking to boost your confidence levels? Read this.

Confidence is one of the key things that women look for guys when they’re going on a date.

If the woman you’re out with thinks that you don’t have enough of it, chances are your date with her won’t turn out like you’ve expected.

She will just think you’re not a man that she should be on a date with.

Similarly, having too much confidence isn’t going to cut it either because you will already give her the notion that you’re plain arrogant.

With that said, let’s go over some simple ways to jumpstart your confidence boost…

Be committed to it.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “pickup artists” are saying, being suitably confident isn’t something that you can achieve in a snap.

You’ve got work on it in a committed and determined manner to really pull the whole thing off in the long run.

See, when it comes to being confident, the phrase “practice makes perfect” still applies.

Improve your overall hygiene and grooming.

If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that looking and smelling great should definitely be on your list of dating priorities if you’re looking to wow a woman on a date.

Interestingly, having the knowledge that you look and smell good causes a surge of positive hormones in the body that will not just improve your mood, but will also make you move, talk and act in a more relaxed manner.

Don’t forget to brush and floss regularly, use deodorant, shower in a daily basis as well as trim your nails and you’ll be on the right track in no time.

Flaunt the things that you’re good at.

Although women think that intelligence is a positive attribute, portraying that you’re a know-it-all is already a turn off.

Make it a point to only talk about things that you really know about when socializing with a woman or else your ego – and confidence – will be shattered with a rejection out from nowhere unexpectedly.

Believe in yourself.

Aiming to be more confident as a guy without actually believing in yourself is simply going to be hopeless no matter how hard you try. It takes a lot of faith in yourself to really get the job done.

Now while the road to being more self-confident can look and feel harrowing, you’ll just be surprised with the results when you push on.

Are you still having trouble convincing her to give you a BJ?

Are you still having trouble convincing her to give you a BJ?

Ah, blowjobs. I’m pretty sure that they’re definitely in your checklist when things get extra steamy between the sheets.

Besides making you experience a lot of pleasurable sensations, getting head from your lover is no doubt one of your biggest bedroom fantasies.

However, the problem is you’re still not convincing her to go down on you until now. This doesn’t mean that you won’t be getting a bout of oral sex from your partner, though.

Chances are the following reasons are keeping her from exploring south of your border during lovemaking…

You suddenly ask her for a BJ in the middle of sex.

A lot of guys mistakenly believe that asking for a blowjob from a woman simply involves pausing in the middle of lovemaking and gently nudging her head in the direction of your penis.

Now while this move may work in porn movies, it’s rather tricky to pull the whole thing off in real life. See, this just makes her feel rushed and awkward.

Make it a point to discuss it way before the action to prep her up properly.

You don’t go down on her yourself.

Oral sex is basically a two-way street.

If you don’t make it a point to knock her socks off with an amazing round of cunnilingus when the two of you get busy in bed yourself, she won’t realize that the experience is both exciting and pleasurable.

So if you’d like your partner to give you oral action, take the lead and give her an experience she won’t forget anytime soon.

You don’t keep a close eye on your hygiene.

Now here’s the thing…

If you’re looking to convince your partner to take things orally down there, you’ve got to look and smell really nice. Keep in mind to be very conscious of your hygiene (especially in your nether region) and your chances of getting a BJ are sure to become higher.

You don’t keep your bedroom clean.

Like I’ve emphasized in an earlier post, your bedroom’s cleanliness can easily make or break her sexual arousal, which plays a key role in terms of convincing her to go down on you.

You don’t fire her up properly.

A woman’s sexual arousal directly affects the things she will be eager to take part in when things get hot in bed. If she’s not that fired up for action, she won’t be that enthusiastic to give the south of your border the TLC it deserves.

Take note of these dating blunders!

Take note of these dating blunders!

So here’s the situation…

You’ve finally convinced the woman you like to go out with you on a first date. Naturally, you’d like to give her a good impression so you’ll easily convince her to go on a second one with you.

Now while you may already know that keeping a close eye on your grooming and get-up is an absolute priority to pull the whole thing off, there are a few simple blunders that some guys tend to overlook that can ruin their chances of scoring a second date almost immediately.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are to really get her impressed on your first date.

You don’t involve her in planning your first date.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, planning a first date is a two-way street. You’ve got to let her in on the action or else things won’t turn out like you expect sooner or later.

You can start things off by asking her where she’d like to go during your date. Besides having an idea of the places that she likes to hang out in, you will also make her feel that you value her inputs.

And that basically means earning extra brownie points for you right then and there in the process, my friend.

You pick the most expensive place in town.

Although making sure that your date is going to feel really comfortable and relaxed during the big day (or night) is an essential, simply picking the priciest and most luxurious place that you can find is one of the worst decisions that you’ll ever make.

Sure the intention is right, but she will just have the idea that she’s going to a job interview instead of a first date. Like I’ve pointed out earlier, going for her favorite bar or deli is a nice choice.

You talk about complicated stuff to make her think you’re smart.

Now while women do think that smart is sexy, kicking off your first date conversation with technical subjects isn’t going to cut it.

See, women are more receptive to trivial things during a first date conversation. I know this sounds rather surprising, but the chances that your date is going to open up to you are much higher when you talk to her about simple stuff like her favorite TV show or perhaps the most recent movie she’s watched.