Attracting Women

Looking to boost your confidence? Check this out!

Looking to boost your confidence? Check this out!

Your level of self-confidence plays a very important role in your life. Besides influencing how you think and act daily, it also affects every decision you make.

And if you’re anything like most men, chances are you tend to experience problems keeping your confidence up to par from time to time, especially during tough situations.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, though, improving your confidence isn’t as tough as you think.

Here are some key tips you should keep in mind if you’re looking to take your confidence up a notch…

Accept that it’s going to take time.

Let me kick things off by saying that improving your confidence isn’t something that can be achieved overnight. Besides requiring a lot of commitment on your end, it also takes time to pull off.

There is no way that you can cut corners or rush the whole thing. If you think that you don’t have the time or determination yet, then it’s best to put it off until you’re really ready.

Doing it half-cocked won’t cut it. Ever.

Focus on your weaknesses.

At its simplest, it’s your weaknesses that are holding you back from really improving your confidence.

Make it a point to list down all your attributes that you think need improvement and how you can make them better.

Sure this sounds rather tedious, but this helps you know yourself in a deeper level and allow you to creatively fix the issues that need to be taken care of.

List down your strengths, too.

If you’ve got weaknesses, then you’ve certainly got strengths as well.

Just like what we previously discussed, make sure you note down the things that you’re good at. Some men tend to overlook the fact that they’re good at things, too.

It could be a talent or perhaps some unique attribute that you have and think of ways how you can improve them as well.

Interestingly, the mere thought of listing down your strengths helps promote the release of positive hormones that make you feel good.

Keep it going.

When you start your journey to improve your confidence, make it a point to follow it through each day.

It isn’t something that you should stop altogether because you find the experience challenging.

Always remember that although improving your confidence takes a bit of time, you’re sure to reap the rewards once you pull it off.

Do this to avoid the friend zone!

Do this to avoid getting trapped in the friend zone!

The friend zone is no doubt one of the worst places to get trapped in when you’re looking to build a romantic relationship with a woman that you really like.

Besides preventing you from really taking your relationship with her to the next level, you’re also going to feel much more devastated when she decides to reject your advances sooner or later.

But the thing is there are ways that you can keep clear from getting trapped in the friend zone. Make sure you read on to find out what they are…

Avoid Getting Trapped In The Friend Zone #1: Make your intentions known right off the bat.

A lot of guys mistakenly believe that a woman will eventually get the notion that a man is building a romantic relationship with her sooner or later.

Come to think of it, how will she know if you don’t tell her in the first place?

Keep in mind to get your message across when you think that the time is right. Confess your true feelings to her so she won’t be left in the dark and you’ll just end up waiting in vain.

Avoid Getting Trapped In The Friend Zone #2: Don’t make her think that you’re her butler.

Now while it’s alright to do a favor or two for her from time to time to earn some brownie points, overdoing it will just lead to disaster.

This is because she will have the idea that you’ll do everything at her beck and call, which isn’t an attribute that women look for in guys that they’d like to be linked romantically linked with.

You will just be her “really nice friend that she treats like a brother.”

Keep in mind to set some boundaries when doing favors is concerned.

Avoid Getting Trapped In The Friend Zone #3: Do romantic things with her.

If you’re looking to get romantically involved with a woman, do some romantic things with her and not just stick with the friendly stuff.

Take her on a date. Woo her with romantic poems and text messages. Make her feel that you want to be more than just her friend.

Avoid Getting Trapped In The Friend Zone #4: Spend time with her alone.

Although socializing and establishing a relationship with her friends is inevitable, make it a point to spend an alone time with her as much as you can.

This gives her the idea that you’re not just there to hang out, but take things up a notch.

 

 

Boost your chances of scoring a second date with these tips!

Boost your chances of scoring a second date with these tips!

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are convincing a woman to go out with you on a second date is your top priority when you’re taking her out for the first time.

Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” and “dating gurus” are saying, though, pulling it off doesn’t involve acting like the alpha male or perhaps dressing in loud clothes to really get her attention.

Put yourself in a woman’s shoes for a moment. If you were to go out on a first date with a guy who acts like a jerk and has a terrible taste in fashion, would you have the heart to do it a second time?

Well, I think you already know the answer to that one.

However, I learned some pretty useful things that will help boost your chances of acing a first date during my extensive research into the female psychology. Make sure you read on to learn more…

Let her in on the planning and organizing.

Sure you may think that arranging a first date is purely a man’s job, but you’re actually missing out on a lot of brownie points when you go it alone.

Make it a point to consult her when you’re planning and organizing your first date. Besides making her feel that you really care about her and what she likes, you’re also going to learn a lot about her as you go along.

Make sure you look and smell nice.

I know that this sounds rather simplistic and redundant, but this is one factor that can easily make your chances of scoring that second date plummet before you know it.

Keep in mind to take a long, meticulous shower, slap on some deodorant and plan your outfit accordingly. Be very careful with your shoes while at it since women are very particular about footwear.

Don’t overdo it on the accessories as well.

Be on time.

Punctuality is an essential when it comes to first dates. Arriving late only gives her the notion that you’re really not that interested in going out with her.

Make it a point to be at the venue at least 15 minutes ahead of schedule.

Talk about easy stuff.

One piece of advice: trying to break the ice with complicated subjects like politics, science and similar things will only make you look like a blowhard to your date.

Go for trivial stuff instead.

Avoid these dating mistakes at all times.

Avoid these dating mistakes at all times.

Unlike what you see in the movies, having a successful date isn’t something that you can pull off by just doing something cliché to really get a woman’s attention and hoping for the best.

Now while I think that there are no surefire dating tips that can ensure your date is going to be a success, I’ve learned a few mistakes during my extensive research into the female psychology may just prevent you from getting on the right track.

Let me explain what I mean…

Not having the right mindset.

If you’re anything like most men, you probably have the notion that you’ve finally got a shot at romance with the woman you’ve got your eye on for a long time now because she agreed to go on a first date with you.

Although this is partly true, thinking that you should pull out all the stops in terms of romance when you go out with her for the first time is a very big no-no.

This is because women basically think of first dates as friendly situations where they meet new people.

How do you think she’ll react when she feels that you’re going full Casanova on her when she’s simply looking to make friends?

Not engaging her in the planning process.

Most guys believe that planning and organizing a date should be entirely their responsibility. Now while having initiative is a plus among women, not letting her in on the whole thing can keep you from really getting the brownie points to ace a date.

Make sure you consult her when you figure out key details like the venue, the food and drinks you’ll have as well as the activities that you’ll do together.

Apart from making her feel that you’re really determined to make your date amazing for her, you will also have clues about the things she likes in the process.

Not knowing how to break the ice.

Exchanging meaningful ideas properly with a woman is a priority when it comes to dates. Besides knowing her a lot better, you will also make her feel that she enjoys talking with you.

This boosts your chances of convincing her to go out with you another time.

However, some men seem to not have an idea how to break the ice. Keep in mind to start things off by asking simple and trivial questions and you’re on your way.