Attracting Women

Confidence boosters that REALLY work.

Confidence boosters that REALLY work.

So you’re looking to be more confident…

Now while this may sound surprising, it’s not something that you should be ashamed of because you’re not alone.

There are actually a lot of guys having confidence problems around the world.

Sure there are some self-proclaimed “life gurus” out there who claim that they have key pieces of advice that will instantly take your confidence up a notch, but pulling it off is a process and not something immediate.

I’ve learned a few things during my extensive research into the male psychology, though, that I think will help you get on your way on the road to becoming a more confident guy.

Read on to find out what these are…

Get rid of stress.

Although it’s pretty normal that we experience little bits of stress every day, allowing them to build up makes us prone to a number of physiological and psychological issues in the long run.

Besides making us feel rather nervous and uncomfortable all the time, which can sap our confidence levels in the process, it also disrupts the way our bodies work. Too much stress can even lead to erectile dysfunction and severe panic attacks if not properly taken care of.

One way of getting rid of stress is having an outlet like focusing on a new hobby. There are countless hobbies to choose from as well like learning to play an instrument or perhaps taking up gardening.

Pay closer attention to your grooming.

How you look and smell doesn’t just affect the way others see you as a person. It also has a significant effect on your confidence levels.

If you think you look and smell not that good, you’re prone to think that you’re better off alone. Updating your look and keeping a closer eye on your grooming is the way to go.

(Here are some key grooming tips that will help you get started.)

Socialize with the right people.

Mingle with individuals who support you and not give you the notion that you have to change or else you’re not going to be accepted in their social circle. Build relationships with people who accept you for who you are and not for what you can put out.

Watch what you load up on.

Neglecting to eat and drink the right stuff can wreak havoc not just on your physical health, but also your psychological wellness. Make it a point to fill up on healthy foods and beverages each time you can and you’re good to go.

Check out these first date essentials.

Check out these first date essentials.

I’m really disappointed at what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying about first dates these days.

Apart from emphasizing that acing one is all about doing a dating trick that’s aimed at giving a woman the notion that she’s going out with an “alpha male,” they’re also suggesting that convincing her to go out with you again can be pulled off by following some “surefire techniques.”

But the thing is I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that there isn’t a specific dating trick or technique that will ensure your first date is going to be a complete success.

On the other hand, I also discovered some key factors you should take note of to make the woman you’re going out with feel not just safe and comfortable around you, but also excited to go on date number two with you soon.

Here are those key factors…

Let her in on the first date planning and organization.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, planning and organizing a first date aren’t tasks that you should take on alone.

Sure this sounds surprising right now, but you’re actually better off if you let her in on the action.

See, besides giving her the notion that you really care about her, you also won’t have a tough time going for the right venue, the food and drinks she likes as well as the activities she’ll want to engage in on your first date.

Pull out all the stops with your grooming.

Now while this may be something that you don’t need to be reminded about, there are still guys who neglect to give their grooming the TLC it deserves before showing up on a first date.

Besides keeping in mind to get rid of excess facial hair, picking your clothes carefully, having a meticulous shower and slapping on some deodorant, going for appropriate and clean shoes while at it is also a must.

Prioritize talking about trivial stuff.

One of the goals that you should realize during a first date is making a woman feel cozy and relaxed around you.

And one of the ways that you can do this is by establishing an emotional connection with your date, which is primarily done by exchanging meaningful ideas with her.

I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that women tend to be more eager to get in on a conversation if they can easily relate to the subject being discussed.

Try to kick things off with the most trivial topic that you can think of and you’ll be surprised with the results.

Keep these tips in mind when you go down on her.

Keep these tips in mind when you go down on her.

When it comes to giving your lover a mind-blowing orgasm or two in the bedroom, pleasuring her orally the right way is definitely one of the best strategies that you can go for.

Besides having a no-holds-barred access to her clitoris and vagina, which are two of the most sensitive erogenous zones in a woman’s body, there are virtually countless ways to pull the whole thing off.

You can use your lips, tongue and mouth every which way you need to really knock her socks off while you’re working your magic down there.

However, there are some very important things you need to take note of to really give your partner an oral sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon. Make sure you read on to learn more…

Keep a close eye on your facial hair.

Sure this sounds rather surprising, but your facial hair can easily make or break your chances of giving her amazing oral sex.

This is because wayward facial hairs tend to excessively rev up the pleasurable sensations that her vagina and clitoris are capable of producing.

Now while these sensations start out pleasurable, they become more and more pronounced every minute, making them feel awkward and uncomfortable for her. Make it a point to keep your facial hair properly trimmed and you’ll be on the right track.

Don’t go straight to the jackpot.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you think that making a beeline to her genitals should be the top item in your sexual checklist as soon as the action starts.

But the thing is the vagina and clitoris need a bit of time to really get in the zone and begin producing pleasurable sensations. If they’re not completely ready to rock and roll, the sensations that they’ll produce are going to be anything but pleasurable.

Keep in mind to really get her sexually aroused as much as you can to get her erogenous zones in gear.

Go slow and easy and build it up from there.

Never ever pull the whole “lick it like there’s no tomorrow” routine that you see in porn movies when you’re going down on her or else risk your whole oral sex session to be over in a, well, lick.

Oral sex is about getting her going and building up her sexual excitement as you go along. It’s not about pleasuring her like a machine. Unless she asks you to take it up a notch, stay as slow and easy as you can.

So you're planning a first date...

So you’re planning a first date…

Careful planning plays a very important role in making a first date successful.

Besides helping you prepare the best way you can for the big event to boost your chances of acing the whole thing, you’re also reducing the risks of going through some awkward moments during the same.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, planning for a first date isn’t just about looking and smelling good.

Now while keeping a close eye on your grooming is something that you shouldn’t overlook in your first date checklist, there are also other very important things you need to keep in mind to really pull it off…

Let her in on the action.

Most guys mistakenly believe that planning a first date is their sole responsibility. This is actually one big misconception.

Planning a first date is supposed to be an activity between you and the woman that you’re going out on a first date.

Apart from making her feel that you really value her inputs, which means extra brownie points for you, my friend, you’re also having a preview of the stuff she likes that you can take note of in your checklist.

You’re sure to gather a lot of meaningful information like the food she likes as well as the activities she enjoys doing.

Don’t choose a very luxurious place.

Sure you may think that going for the most luxurious venue for your first date is the best strategy, it can easily lead to disaster during the big day (or night, which is which).

Although picking a nice place that your date will find comfortable and cozy is an essential, overdoing it will just make her feel that she’s going to a job interview or a similar event.

This will simply promote a surge of stress hormones in her body that will make her feel nervous, anxious and rather impatient, which already gives you an idea of how your first date will go.

List down trivial things to talk about.

Sure opening up a conversation with something tricky and complicated may seem like a good idea, but it will just make her think that you’re trying too hard to impress her.

Make it a point to break the ice with trivial stuff like asking your date what her favorite cartoon character is or perhaps the ice cream flavor she loves.

You’ll be surprised how the conversation will flow meaningfully as you go along.