Attracting Women

You may be unknowingly making these first date mistakes.

You may be unknowingly making these first date mistakes.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, acing a first date can’t be achieved by simply following some supposedly proven tips.

Each first date you have is going to be a different experience every time. Chances are they’re not going to be as successful as you think they will be.

There is even a big possibility that they’ll have the opposite effect on the woman you’re going out with.

And while we’re on the subject, I’m going to share some first date mistakes I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that you’re probably unknowingly making.

Find out what these are when you follow along…

You plan the whole thing alone.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you have the principle of planning and organizing a first date by yourself.

Although it may feel like the right thing to do as a guy, it is actually one of the biggest first date no-no’s that you can make. See, you’re basically missing out on your date’s inputs when you do this.

Besides failing to take advantage of knowing the things she likes, you’re also losing your chances to make her feel that you have a high regard for her feedback and participation with the whole thing.

You can easily get on the right track to a successful first date if you let her in on the planning and organizing.

You kick things off with a complicated subject.

Getting a meaningful conversation going during a first date is one of the key factors of making it successful.

You’re not just making her feel more relaxed and comfortable around you, but you’ll also get to know her better in the process. How’s that for two for two?

However, you’re just going to ruin her mood to exchange meaningful ideas if you start things off with subjects that are complicated and difficult. Now while women think smart is sexy, she’s just going to think that you’re a blowhard if you do this.

You’re better off asking trivial questions if you are looking to have a gab fest with her.

You don’t keep a close eye on your grooming.

Sure this may sound really simplistic, but not pulling out all the stops on your grooming easily prevents you from acing a first date.

Women are very particular with how guys look and smell. And if you show up on your first date not quite up to par in this department, you’re sure going to be disappointed with how it will turn out.

(Here are some useful grooming pointers that will help you get on your way.)


Here are some reasons why she's avoiding sex with you nowadays.

Here are some reasons why she’s avoiding sex with you nowadays.

If you’re anything like most men, I’m pretty sure that you’d like to get as much action in the bedroom as you’d like to with your lover.

However, the only problem is you’re simply noticing that she’s not as eager to heat things up between the sheets these days.

Sure this is rather frustrating for you, but chances are you’re just making a few mistakes that are preventing your partner from getting it on in bed. Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

You are neglecting your hygiene.

How you look and smell are key factors when you’re looking to get your lover in the mood for some steamy action in the bedroom. Unless you make her think “sexy” and not “icky,” your chances of convincing her to make love are going to be rather slim.

Make it a point to always keep a close eye on your overall hygiene and you’re on your way to bringing back her sexual excitement in bed again.

Your bedroom is messy.

Now while this sounds surprising right now, the cleanliness and organization of your bedroom can easily make or break your chances of getting her in the mood for a sex session.

See, women are very critical of how organized and clean your bedroom is. If it’s in apple pie order, it won’t be that tricky to get her lovemaking groove on. It’s a different story when your bedroom looks like it desperately needs some vacuuming and organizing.

You’re getting straight to the jackpot.

Unlike guys who can get totally ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, women need a bit of time to really prep up for action in bed.

And when you’re almost always making her feel rushed when you’re already at it in the bedroom, she’ll just have the notion that you’re just looking to satisfy your own sexual desires. Make it a point to really heat her up before taking things up a notch.

(Here’s one simple way of firing her up for a lovemaking session.)

Your sexual moves need updating.

Although you may already know the stuff she likes when you’re already at it between the sheets, doing the same stuff over and over again will just make the experience flat for her sooner or later.

Keep in mind to mix things up in the bedroom from time to time and you’ll be surprised how eager she’ll be to do the deed.

Keep these factors in mind when you're looking to go down on her.

Keep these factors in mind when you’re looking to go down on her.

Awesome oral sex and mind-blowing orgasms are pretty much connected with each other.

You’re sure to give your lover the latter when you explore south of her border like you should when things are already heating up in bed.

Now while you may already have a checklist of the spots to stimulate as well as the techniques that you should bring into play when you go down on your partner, I’ve learned some useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that will help you take her oral sex satisfaction through the roof.

Let me explain what I mean…

Oral sex booster #1: Prioritize her comfort.

Before you start getting busy with your mouth, lips and tongue on your lover’s nether regions, make it a point to ensure that she’s really comfortable.

See, her level of comfort is crucial when it comes to her body’s ability to produce and release positive hormones. These hormones basically set off her sexual arousal and activate her orgasmic responses.

The more positive hormones are in her body, the higher your chances are when it comes to knocking her socks off during oral sex.

(And you can kick things off by cleaning and organizing your bedroom.)

Oral sex booster #2: Vary your positions.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, giving a woman oral sex isn’t just about making her spread her legs so you can start stimulating her erogenous zones like the clitoris, vulva, “the treasure trail” and inner thighs.

You can experiment with how you can pleasure these spots by varying your positions from time to time. You can begin your oral sex session with her on her back, then with her bending over and with her kneeling.

You surely won’t make her feel bored during the whole thing because there are practically countless ways to pull this off.

Oral sex booster #3: Mix it up.

Keep in mind to always mix things up as you go along during your oral sex session.

Besides frequently changing the pressure you apply on her erogenous zones down there, make it a point to use a different technique every few minutes to keep her guessing what will happen next.

And since she’ll be on her toes when you’re doing this, you’ll just make her more sexually aroused and excited. How’s that for two for two?

Oral sex booster #4: Ask for directions.

Remember to ask her where she wants to be stimulated next and how you should do it. You’ll be surprised with the awesome input that you’ll get from her when you do this.




So you'd like to convince her to go on another date with you...

So you’d like to convince her to go on another date with you…

Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” are saying, convincing a woman to go on a second date with you isn’t about following some “surefire” tips from them that are supposedly guaranteed to make her say yes sooner or later.

Now while I’ve previously explained that there are some ways to boost your chances of getting a second date with a woman, like keeping in mind to switch off your mobile phone and wearing clean shoes, this time I’m going to walk you through some factors that will only lead you nowhere.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

You show up with a lot of jewelry on.

Although accessorizing is a smart way to look and smell like a million bucks, which is definitely a must if you’re looking to make a good first impression on the woman you’re going out with for the first time, overdoing it will simply make her feel that you’re trying too hard.

If you’re having a tough time which accessories to go for, just remember this no-fuss tip: choose two and you’re good to go.

You arrive late.

Now while this may sound cliché, but you should arrive before her on your date or else you’ll just give her the wrong idea about you.

See, women are basically very particular when it comes to punctuality. If you’re late on a date, chances are they’ll just think that you’re not that responsible and will see you in a negative light.

And when this happens, her body will have a surge of negative hormones that will simply make her feel anxious and impatient. Be there at least 15 minutes earlier and you’re good to go.

You try to break the ice with complicated subjects.

Although intelligence is sexy for women, trying to engage her in a conversation with complicated topics isn’t going to cut it.

She’s just going to think that you’re pretentious and won’t be that excited to exchange meaningful ideas with you no matter how hard you try.

Make it a point to keep things light and simple and you’ll be rather surprised how your conversation will go.

You discuss the “future.”

No matter what you do, never try to jump ahead and talk about the possibility of having a future romantic relationship with her.

Sure a first date may be your stepping stone to a more serious connection with her, but talking about the subject the first time you go out with each other is just plain creepy for her.