Attracting Women

How’d you like to see more of this when you step inside the bedroom?

Getting your lover warmed up between the sheets is not as complicated as you think. But the thing is this isn’t like what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” or “dating gurus” are saying.

You’d actually have to do something meaningful and not just show some silly gestures that these charlatans say are supposedly “guaranteed to get her hot.” Yeah, right.

Now while your partner may not get sexually aroused at the drop of a hat like you do, there are a few simple tricks that are guaranteed to get her ready for lovemaking in no time.

So if you’re looking to improve your chances of really turning your lover on the next time you get frisky in the bedroom, here’s what you should do…

Fire your stove and cook her something special.

Surprising your lover with a tasty plate of pasta or some other home-cooked meal is one way to start her up for lovemaking.

Apart from making her feel really special, the smell of food also excites the neurons in her brain that control positive feelings like happiness, delight and even sexual arousal.

Just to make it more interesting, there are also foods that can regenerate and improve a man’s libido, so you won’t have problem getting ready for sex when things get spicy between you and your lover.

Get her mind going.

A lot of guys think that getting physical is the only method to get a woman hot and ready for a sex session.

Sure stimulating her erogenous zones is one way to warm your lover up in bed, but having a bit of mental stimulation in the mix is definitely going to make the whole thing much easier.

Send your partner naughty text messages. Email her the things you’d do to her when you two get alone in the bedroom. Call her up unexpectedly and describe the kinky stuff she’ll be in for later. Send her a few sexy selfies. You can bet that she can’t wait to get in some sexy action with you.

Take your grooming and hygiene up a notch.

It’s crucial that you should pay close attention to is how you look and smell.

Like all women, your lover is very particular with the visual and nasal cues you send off. If she thinks you smell or look unpleasant, chances are she won’t be too keen on having sex with you anytime soon.

When you smell great, however, she’ll be like putty in your hands when you start working your magic.

Besides taking regular showers, make it also a habit to splash on a good amount of deodorant and keeping your oral hygiene in check by brushing and flossing your teeth regularly. Keep in mind to trim your fingernails while you’re at it, too.

These pointers can help boost your chances of finally getting some head from her.

I won’t lie to you.

Based on personal experience – or sexperience, if you will – BJ’s are simply awesome. Besides feeling great, getting head is also one of the manliest experiences that you’ll ever go through.

How about you? Do you have a similar viewpoint about blowjobs?

However, I’ve been receiving a lot of emails on the subject, especially on how to convince a woman to go down on you, these past few days. And to help those who need a bit of assistance in this department, this post is for you.

So without further ado, let’s get the whole thing going…

A lot of guys consider blowjobs as one of the things that should be always on their sexual checklist when they get in action between the sheets.

However, what makes things a bit interesting is that most women aren’t that too excited to give oral sex when things get hot in the bedroom because of a few simple factors.

So if you’re looking to improve your chances of getting more action downtown from your lover, here are the key factors that can easily break your chances of getting a blowjob almost instantly…

You think you’re entitled to get a BJ session from her.

Although women like to have sex as much as men do, they need a bit of time to adjust when it comes to trying new stuff in bed. Sure encouraging your lover to give your oral sex is nice, but pestering her about it just every time you get frisky is a different story.

Don’t feel bad if she isn’t up for oral sex the first or second try. Wait until you think she’s ready to handle it. Patience is a virtue when oral sex is concerned and you’ll be nicely rewarded if you just hang on. Make sure you beef up your efforts at stimulating her mentally while you’re at it to speed the whole thing up, too.

You don’t go down on her like you should.

Now while this may sound surprising, it takes your initiative to go down on your lover before she will be eager to give you the same treatment. However, you shouldn’t consider this as a favor or else you won’t change her mindset about blowjobs successfully.

Make sure you always pleasure your partner orally every time things get hot in the bedroom. Always stimulate her vagina, clitoris and other erogenous hot spots in and around her groin area during sex to give her the impression that you really like going down on her. You’ll be just surprised how fast she’ll want go down on you sooner or later.

Your personal hygiene needs improvement.

Women are very inherently particular with visual and nasal cues when it comes to oral sex. In simpler terms, you have to smell and look good to them or else you won’t be able to convince her to go down on you anytime soon.

Make it a point to shower regularly and give your privates a really good scrubbing if you’re planning to make your lover give you oral sex. Trimming your pubic hair is also a smart idea while you’re at it.

And here’s a cool bonus: perking up your overall hygiene helps boost your chances of making her say yes to action in bed, too.

Looking to improve your posture? You’ve come to the right place.

Now while this may sound surprising, having good posture is a necessity if you’re looking to successfully attract women. Besides giving a positive impression to the ladies, keeping your back straight and shoulders square also lets them know that you’re a fun guy to be with.

There’s no need to worry just yet if you think that your posture needs a bit of an improvement. A lot of guys feel the same way, too. Here are a few useful pointers that can help you get started in no time at all…

Pointer for Better Posture #1: Puff out your chest.

Want an instant posture fix?

Thrust your chest out a bit. Pushing your chest out not only squares your shoulders and pulls your head back, but also makes your back straighter. It also makes your tummy leaner and bearing more suave. How’s that for two for two?

Pointer for Better Posture #2: Stand and stretch for a few minutes every hour you’re sitting down.

A lot of men sit in front of their computers all day while working. And these guys can be usually found hunched in front of their TV sets during their free time as well. Not only does too much sitting put you at risk of diabetes and cardiovascular problems in the future, which also means being vulnerable to weakened erections, it also significantly affects your posture.

See sitting for hours and hours reduces the flexibility of your muscles and makes your joints creaky. Aside from having sore knees, you also won’t be able to fully rotate your hips while at it, which can make or break your efforts at a better posture.

Pointer for Better Posture #3: Keep your head high.

According to a study conducted by psychologists in Australia, majority of women perceived guys who have their chins slightly elevated to be more confident and attractive. And this is also one way to significantly improve your posture.

Besides preventing your spine from bending too much, pulling back your head and raising your chin up also gives you a more dignified look. What’s even more interesting is that this also gives women the notion that you look leaner and taller.

Pointer for Better Posture #4: Never stand on one leg.

How you bear your weight on your legs can make the difference between good posture and a horrible one. Always keep in mind to evenly distribute your weight on both legs when standing up to avoid putting most of it on one side of your body only.

Practice concentrating your weight on the balls of your feet when standing up. Your body’s natural reaction when you rest your weight on your heels is to sag your shoulders and droop your back. Although it may look like doing so can take a long time getting used to, you can actually pull this off in just a few minutes.

Boost your chances of making her like you with these pointers.

A lot of guys mistakenly think that the best way of making a woman to like them is by showering her with lots of gifts and attention right from the beginning.

Now while this may sound like the most rational way to pull it off, you will only make her think that you just want something from her in return.

Like simply getting her in bed.

So if you’re looking to make a woman you’ve got your eyes on to like you soon, here are a few pointers that will help you do just that easily…

Respect should be your top priority.

Respect is a very important element if you’d like to connect with a woman on an emotional level. Show her that you respect her at all times and she’ll see you an adorable and likable guy. Just don’t overdo it or else she might think you’re only fit for the friend zone.

Make her feel that you always listen to her ideas.

If you’re following my posts for a long time now, you probably know that women have a soft spot for men who are great listeners. Apart from feeling that you really value their time, women also think that they can talk to you for very long without feeling bored or awkward in any way.

Moreover, no matter how dull her topics may be, never try to interrupt or manipulate the conversation your way. You’ll be surprised how much she’ll enjoy talking to you more.

Get to know the things that she is interested in or she loves doing.

Making a woman connect with you emotionally involves having to share a common ground with her, which makes establishing an emotional connection with her much easier. Make it a point to learn the things that spark her interest, match them up with the stuff you like and work from there.

Whether it’s books, movies or sports, letting her know that you complement the things that hold a special place in her heart can easily earn you a lot of brownie points with her. Just remember not to lie or pretend even a bit while you’re at it because she won’t have a problem seeing through your ruse and then it’s game over.

Make her feel that you want to be a friend.

Instantly hitting it off with a woman is only something you see on TV or in the movies. Before you can successfully make her like you, building a personal relationship with her should be a priority.

Start off by making her your friend. Introduce yourself to her properly so she won’t just see you as some creepy stranger. Make her see you as someone likable. Keep in mind to avoid acting like somebody you aren’t since she’ll only see you as a pretentious creep while at it as well.