Getting your lover warmed up between the sheets is not as complicated as you think. But the thing is this isn’t like what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” or “dating gurus” are saying.
You’d actually have to do something meaningful and not just show some silly gestures that these charlatans say are supposedly “guaranteed to get her hot.” Yeah, right.
Now while your partner may not get sexually aroused at the drop of a hat like you do, there are a few simple tricks that are guaranteed to get her ready for lovemaking in no time.
So if you’re looking to improve your chances of really turning your lover on the next time you get frisky in the bedroom, here’s what you should do…
Fire your stove and cook her something special.
Surprising your lover with a tasty plate of pasta or some other home-cooked meal is one way to start her up for lovemaking.
Apart from making her feel really special, the smell of food also excites the neurons in her brain that control positive feelings like happiness, delight and even sexual arousal.
Just to make it more interesting, there are also foods that can regenerate and improve a man’s libido, so you won’t have problem getting ready for sex when things get spicy between you and your lover.
Get her mind going.
A lot of guys think that getting physical is the only method to get a woman hot and ready for a sex session.
Sure stimulating her erogenous zones is one way to warm your lover up in bed, but having a bit of mental stimulation in the mix is definitely going to make the whole thing much easier.
Send your partner naughty text messages. Email her the things you’d do to her when you two get alone in the bedroom. Call her up unexpectedly and describe the kinky stuff she’ll be in for later. Send her a few sexy selfies. You can bet that she can’t wait to get in some sexy action with you.
Take your grooming and hygiene up a notch.
It’s crucial that you should pay close attention to is how you look and smell.
Like all women, your lover is very particular with the visual and nasal cues you send off. If she thinks you smell or look unpleasant, chances are she won’t be too keen on having sex with you anytime soon.
When you smell great, however, she’ll be like putty in your hands when you start working your magic.
Besides taking regular showers, make it also a habit to splash on a good amount of deodorant and keeping your oral hygiene in check by brushing and flossing your teeth regularly. Keep in mind to trim your fingernails while you’re at it, too.