A recent article I read inspired me to write this post.  For anyone thinking of dabbling in sex with an ex here’s my take on the essential precautions you must take…

The first thing I’d recommend if you’re considering “rekindling the flame” with an ex is to read this article called 5 Tips for Sex with the Ex.

It’s a great article, and it’s what inspired me to write this post.

The thing that struck me while reading it was that I noticed an underlying theme that I’ve come across many times before when it comes to dating, relationships, sex, etc.

And that underlying theme is to just take things easy.

Play it cool.

Don’t get overexcited and stress too much too soon.

Don’t make mountains out of molehills.

For example in the article I was just talking about the second tip is “Sex does not equal love”.

What this means is if you go back to have sex with an ex, don’t instantly assume that you’ve suddenly fallen in love again and now you’re going to spend the rest of your lives together.

This is the exact OPPOSITE of playing it cool.

If you were to react like that then you’d probably push your ex away FAST.

Whereas if you play it cool then you probably wouldn’t scare them away and then if you wanted to you could always slowly develop your relationship to take things more seriously again if you wanted to.

Although this is a blog mainly focussed on helping men last longer in bed, I wanted to talk about this because every little thing you do spills over to other areas of your life.

Which means that if you don’t play it cool when you go to have sex with your ex then the chances are that you don’t play it cool when you have sex full stop.

And if you don’t play it cool when you have sex then you’re much more likely to experience premature ejaculation, because being tense and nervous are MASSIVE triggers for premature ejaculation.

The bottom line is play it cool in your relationships and sex, at least at the start (because you can always get more intense later on), and you will be rewarded.

And if you’re looking for some more “tangible” tips for lasting longer in bed, in other words, actual strategies and techniques you can use then you’ll want to check out this article on Premature Ejaculation Cures.

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Being good at foreplay can mean the difference between getting your woman to orgasm within minutes of sex and having her NEVER orgasm.  Here’s how to get your woman super-horny before you start having sex…

Firstly you’ve got to realize how women work differently.  As this article called Sex Tips: Know More About Foreplay puts it, women and men are totally different when it comes to arousal.

Men are like light bulbs and women are like irons.  We can be turned on and off instantly, but women need to be turned on gradually over time.

So how can you use this to your advantage?

Well firstly, take a moment to get into her shoes.  Imagine how you would view sex if it wasn’t a yes or no decision, but rather something that happened over time.

The first thing you’d realize is that you’d have to be in the mood to want to go ahead with it…

Sound familiar?

Because if a woman is not in the mood for sex… She is not in the mood for sex, and no amount of verbal persuasion can change that.

As men we’ve all been there, wanting sex, but our woman doesn’t want it, because she doesn’t feel like it.

It can be frustrating to us because it’s difficult to understand how she feels because we can get turned on in an instant.

But there’s also a flip side to this…

If we understand what women are like we can learn from it.

And the first thing to realize is that since you’ve got to turn her on over time… Why not start earlier?

Why not start teasing and flirting with her during the day?

Say little sexual comments to her throughout the day.

Slowly build up her anticipation for sex.

This way when it finally comes to physical foreplay she’ll already be incredibly excited and you’ll be much less likely to run into the roadblock of “I’m not in the mood”.

You’ll be amazed at the difference this little trick has on your sex life.

And what’s even better is that if she’s really horny she’ll orgasm a lot faster so you have to worry less about how long you last.

But if you are still interested in lasting longer then you’ll want to check out this article on How To Last Long In Bed… This article combined with incredible foreplay is like dynamite for your bedroom skills.

If you’re in a relationship and want to avoid an affair then you better listen up, because I’m about to show how your sex life DIRECTLY impacts the chances of your woman having an affair…

I’ve just finished reading a very interesting article called The Truth About Affairs and it raised an interesting pattern that occurs in many relationships.

The pattern I’m talking about here is when over time the man starts to show less and less affection towards the woman in the relationship, whether it be physically through hugging and kissing or just through general compliments, etc.

And as a result the woman reacts by withdrawing sex, as a subconscious way of punishing the man, but also because she feels less like having sex because she feels less loved.

Naturally the man gets more disappointed by this and is less affectionate and the woman reacts similarly.

In the end it’s a negative spiral, until one person in the relationship meets someone else who fulfils all their needs and makes them feel special and BAM… An affair starts.

So as negative as this whole pattern might seem, it can be easily avoided.

And as the man in the relationship it all comes down to showing affection.

If you can be sure to show plenty of affection all the way through your relationship your woman will have no reason to withdraw sex.

And on top of that… If you have the skills to last long in bed and deliver her incredible pleasure she’ll have EVEN LESS reason to withdraw sex, because it will be such a huge source of pleasure for her.

It’s win-win.

Now the “how to” of showing affection is obvious, you just give her compliments, pay attention to her, listen to her and show her physical affection as often as possible.

But the “how to” of lasting longer in bed is less obvious. So if you’re not sure of exactly how to pull this off you may want to check out this article that includes 7 expert tips for instant-results on ending premature ejaculation…  It’s called Last Long In Bed.

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I want to give you a quick warning about the premature ejaculation treatment industry…  There are a LOT of scams out there trying to push fake premature ejaculation solutions.  So in this post I want to show you what some of the warning signs are of potential scams so you don’t end up wasting any money on them…

Firstly, it’s no wonder there are companies trying to sell scam solutions claiming to cure premature ejaculation…

Premature ejaculation is an incredibly frustrating and humiliating condition for men, which means many men are willing to go a LONG way to figure out the solution…

Even if that means trying a solution they’re not 100% sure about.

One Australian “tycoon” made a fortune selling his fake solution to the Australian public, which has become known as the Advance Medical Institute Impotency Scam.

So although they caught this guy, there could well be more scammers out there.

But how can you spot these scams?!

Here are some pointers…

Do they offer a guarantee?

If they don’t there’s probably a reason for it… which is most likely that their solution doesn’t work.  Any company offering of a genuine solution to premature ejaculation would have no problem offering a guarantee because they know their customers would be happy, so watch out for anyone who doesn’t offer a guarantee.

Do they have any testimonials?

If no one else is saying their stuff works then there’s a good chance that’s because it doesn’t work and there’s no one around to tell a success story.

Does their proposed solution make sense?

With pills for example, it’s hard to figure out how taking them could change your biology so that suddenly you can last longer.

It may work, but to be honest I’ve never tried it because I don’t want to risk the potential side-effects.

This is also the reason why I like 100% natural solutions to premature ejaculation such as breathing methods and thrusting techniques…

Because the logic of how they help you last longer make perfect sense and you’re also not risking your health by doing them.

But anyway I hope that’s given you an idea of some of the things to look for in potential scams so you don’t have to waste your hard earned money on something that’s not going to help you.

And like I said, the 100% natural method is my preferred solution and you can check out one example of a natural breathing method I use to lasting longer in bed in this article on how to stop premature ejaculation.