I’ve just come across what is probably THE easiest sex tip ever to apply.  Want to know what it is?…

Couple being intimate

This guy obviously knows a few sex tips

So the sex tip I’m talking about is this…

Hold your partners hands while having sex.

You don’t have to do it for the whole time you have sex, but if you do it for a few minutes you’ll find that it really improves the intimacy of sex…

Which, by the way, women LOVE.

Now, to be honest, I can’t take credit for this sex tip.  I discovered it while reading this article called Sex Tips: A Handy Way to Increase Intimacy.

But how easy is that?

Now you might be thinking…  “Jack, but this is hardly going to help me become the best lover she has ever had overnight…”

And my response would be…

You’re right.

This ALONE will not transform your love life overnight.

But what really leads to massive change in life and getting the BIG goals we want (like becoming an extraordinary lover or lasting over 30 minutes in bed)…

Is the grouping of MANY small changes.

Sure, this sex tip in itself won’t make you into a truly unforgettable lover, but what if you learned 10 different sex tips like this one and applied ALL OF THEM in one love making session.

Now my betting is that would make one HELL of a difference.

So keep up the learning, because it’s the accumulation of many small distinctions that helps you breakthrough to achieve the massive goals you want.

Oh, and here’s another VERY important sex tip you need to know, both if you want to be a better lover and last longer in bed…

It’s how to perform something known as Kegels For Men. Check it out now.

One of the single biggest reasons why men fail to end their premature ejaculation is because they give up too easily when learning how to end it. Here are a few tips on how to make sure you never make that mistake…

Now before I go any further, let me just say that it IS possible to learn how to last longer VERY quickly.

Some men pick up strategies and within days are able to last significantly longer.

But the fact is that everyone is different.

Some people will naturally take longer before they make the change successfully.

Sometimes men take longer to make the change because they either don’t know the strategies for lasting longer or don’t perform them correctly.

Other times it’s that men just don’t have enough drive… They kinda want to learn to last longer, but it’s not an absolute MUST for them, therefore they don’t get over the even the smallest of hurdles like trying out a new position or thrusting technique in bed.

For example in this Interview With Matti P you hear about a guy who’s wife CHEATED because he sucked so much in bed.  The fact is he could have done a million things to make his sex life better, but he just didn’t have the drive until a disaster like that happened.

The bottom line is if you’re not one of the lucky men who get instant results then here’s what you need to do…

The clue is in the title…

Never give up.

If you had a child that was taking longer than expected to learn how to walk would you give up on him / her?

NO WAY.

You would encourage the kid to keep going until they learned how to walk, no matter how long it took.

You’ve got to have the same attitude when it comes to learning to last longer in bed…

Because the fact is you never know when your big breakthrough is just around the corner.

You could be just a few more attempts away from being able to last 10 minutes longer in bed (or whatever your target is), but if you give up, then you would never have make the discovery.

So if you’re feeling low on motivation you’ve got to rekindle your drive.

You’ve got to remind yourself of all the reasons WHY you want to learn to last longer in bed first place.

When you start focussing on the WHY you’ll find it a lot easier to keep moving forward.

So if you’re feeling excited and ready to move forward towards being able to last longer in bed then check out this article on Kegels For Men.  It’ll teach you the easy to follow steps to ending premature ejaculation for good.

Want to know what women REALLY think about sex and premature ejaculation?  Then check this out…

A mistake that almost ALL men make when it comes to sex is that on some level they forget to really think about what’s going on the woman’s head.

I’m not pointing fingers, because I do this too.

And the reason this happens is because it’s natural to think about everything from your own perspective…  It’s just how we humans work.

But of course thinking from our own perspective doesn’t always lead to ideal outcomes when it comes to stuff like pleasing someone else.

In order to please someone else, aka a woman in bed, you’ve got to understand what they feel and what they enjoy about sex.

And you can’t do this when you’re running on autopilot and going about your business as usual.

You actually have to stop everything you’re doing and focus solely on getting into the mind of the woman you’re going to make love to.

When you stop and take just 5 minutes to solely focus on imagining BEING her, you’ll be amazed at the stuff you’ll discover.

I don’t even have to tell you any magic techniques or tricks, because just by doing this one exercise you’ll discover things you NEVER realized about her.

You’ll discover interesting new ways of pleasuring her and what kind of things she would like you to do in bed, but would probably never tell you.

And on top of that you’ll also probably have this breakthrough…

That women have insecurities too.

And during all that time you spend worrying about premature ejaculation she’s probably worrying about her own stuff.

Articles like this one on Some Of The Sex Mistakes Women Make prove that women are worrying way more about themselves during sex than you could probably ever have thought they were before.

And when you realize this you’ll massively take the pressure off yourself and you’ll find because of taking this pressure off that lasting longer in bed is a lot easier.

Now after you take 5 minutes to get into the mind of the woman you’re going to sleep with go check out my special 3 step method on How To Last Longer In Bed.  Armed with the knowledge of how your woman works you’ll be able to use the techniques needed for lasting longer in bed with 10x more effectiveness.

In case you’ve ever wondered… Condoms definitely DO have an effect on how long you can expect to last during sex.  And here’s how you can use that to your advantage…

But before I get into that let me just cover the fundamentals.

Firstly, if you don’t know how to put on a condom properly then read this article now called Sunday Sex Ed Tips: Condoms.

Secondly, whether or not you practise safe sex is totally down to you.  I am not here to tell you how to live your life or claim that I am a doctor who is making any medical recommendations, but my personal opinion is that you should always wear a condom for health and safety purposes if you are not 100% certain of the person you are with or if you don’t want to risk pregnancy.

With that stuff said… Let me get to the point of this post

The way in which wearing condoms effects premature ejaculation is as follows…

One of the main causes of premature ejaculation is “over-stimulation”.

In other words, when you experience more stimulation than you can handle in a very short period of time that’s when premature ejaculation happens.

So if you can reduce the stimulation you experience down to a more controllable level then naturally you can last longer.

Side note:  I am in NO way saying you should take the pleasure out of sex.  I am just saying that if you orgasm early because of overwhelming pleasure then there’s no harm in reducing the stimulation you experience slightly so you can have the LONG-TERM satisfaction of long-lasting sex, rather than less than a minute’s worth of super-intense pleasure.

And how does this “over-stimulation” concept relate to condoms?

Well when you wear a condom the overall stimulation you experience is reduced.

This is why some men prefer sex without a condom, because they feel more.

But if you struggle with premature ejaculation then wearing a condom can work in your favour.  Since by wearing a condom you reduce the stimulation you experience it’s easier to last longer.

So there you have it.

Not only do condoms keep you safe from disease and unwanted pregnancy, they also help you last longer in bed.

And if you want to last even longer then you can get some thicker condoms to reduce the sensation even more.

But you’ll want to be sure to find the balance between lasting longer and how much pleasure you get, because the goal is not to make it so you feel nothing during sex, but you do want to take your pleasure levels down to a controllable level so you can at least enjoy long-lasting sex.

Alternatively, if you don’t want to use condoms as a “crutch” for lasting longer then you can learn some 100% natural techniques like the ones in this article on How Can I Last Longer In Bed?

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