Surprised Wife

Women love to be surpised

In this post I want to give you a dead simple trick on how to spice up your love life.

This is so simple, but it’s in our nature as people to forget to do this.

And the trick is this…

Practice surprising your partner.

If you’ve had sex with your lover more than just a few times it can be so easy to slip into a routine and keep doing the same things over again.

It’s very natural for this to happen.

But if you want an incredible sex life, or even just to spice up your love life, then you’ve got to make a conscious effort to surprise your partner.

And doing this is incredibly easy.

You’ll probably know better than anyone how your partner loves to be surprised, but here are a few ideas…

  • Be romantic with her in places she isn’t used to you being romantic in
  • Surprise her with a bath surrounded by scented candles that you can share together
  • Give her a full body massage using aromatic oils
  • Take her for a midnight stroll
  • Send her teasing text messages while you’re apart
  • Buy her a sexy gift
I did tell you it was simple.
But the real key is overcoming that natural urge to stick with what’s familiar and what you’re used to.
And all it takes is reminding yourself of how much you love treating your lover – and how much you love all the passionate sex that comes from that 🙂


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Hey, it’s Jack Grave here.

Welcome to my site. It’s great to have you here!

I hope you get a ton of valuable information out of site…

I’ve designed it specifically to share some of the techniques and strategies I’ve learned that have helped me go from lasting less than 10 seconds in bed, to being able to last over 30 minutes in bed…

And TRANSFORM my sex life as a result.

You’ll also find some other great advice on how to improve the quality of your sex life, give your lover more pleasure, and get her wanting a lot more sex too.

So have a look around and I hope you find the solution you’re looking for.


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Why resort to using pills when there are 100% natural solutions?

Ever wondered if those pills promising to help you last longer work?  Well here’s what I’ve found…

As I’m writing this article now, I’ve never tried any “last longer” pills before.

And the reason is simple.

So far I’ve never come across a pill I thought I could trust.

Most of them are sold through shady websites and there is little evidence to support they work.

I also don’t understand the science behind why it would work.

From everything I’ve learned in years of research and in teaching tens of thousands of men to last longer in bed…. it’s my firm belief that learning to last longer in bed really comes down to what you DO in bed.

A huge cause of premature ejaculation is unnecessary over-stimulation, both psychologically and physically.

And all these things are WITHIN YOUR CONTROL if you know what you’re doing (which you can learn all about in the articles on this site).

By changing things like how you breathe, how you thrust, which sex positions you use and many other things it makes sense that you can learn to last longer in bed.

But what I don’t understand is how taking a tiny pill can help you last longer in bed, especially if you don’t use all the special breathing techniques, sex positions and other methods needed to help you last longer.

That’s why I haven’t tried any pills.

Now if someone were to show me some concrete science of why it does work, then I’d consider testing them out.

But for now, I lay off them.

And quite frankly, with everything I know now (from techniques to sex positions and more) I don’t need the pills anyway, so I’ve got no real incentive to try them.

Personally I way prefer the natural approach to solving the problem of premature ejaculation.

And if it’s something you’re interested in too then I recommend you start with reading this article on the 3 essential premature ejaculation cures.

Want to make today the best Valentine’s Day for you ever?

Here’s a simple trick…

Do something to surprise your woman.

But not the “usual” kind of surprise that every other guy does…

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or a not-so-long-term relationship (if you’re not in a relationship right now, then save this tip for when you are), the woman you’re with right now probably thinks that on some level she “knows you”.

She thinks she knows what you do to turn her on, how to make her feel good, how you have sex, etc.

We all have our habits and she probably knows you pretty well.

So make this Valentine’s Day special by doing something completely out of character (in a good way) to surprise her.

And it can’t be something you’ve done before.

It has to be totally different and more importantly something she wouldn’t
expect you do to do (hence the term surprise…).

If you can, make this surprise a sexual one.

Try something in the bedroom you wouldn’t normally try.

Use a sex toy, try a totally new position, do it in a crazy place, use hardcore dirty talk or do something more extreme if you’ve already maxed out those options…

Go out of your comfort zone to surprise her.

Stretch yourself for this one.

It can’t be a usual “oh, it’s Valentine’s Day so this will be the one day of the year I buy her flowers, that’ll surprise her…”

That definitely won’t surprise her.

Driving a woman wild in bed takes stimulating her psychology and emotions.

And surprising her in a way she’s not expecting is an amazing way to do that.

But like I said, it can’t be a “wussy” surprise that everyone else does.

Push yourself out of your comfort zone and think of something that your woman loves, but maybe is the kind of thing you would normally refuse to do.

Whatever it is… get creative.

And if you really challenge yourself to be creative you’ll definitely have the best Valentine’s Day of your life…

Because you’ll be with one very satisfied lady.

Oh, and after doing a great job of surprising her, make sure you don’t let her down in the bedroom by not lasting long enough!

Be sure to brush up on some of the free tips in my “last longer in bed tonight” video found here…

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