If you’re anything like most guys, you probably have a main priority when you and your lover are already heating things up in bed…
And that’s to give her a mind-blowing lovemaking experience.
But the thing is getting your lover completely ready for a sex session is definitely a priority if you’re looking to really give her an experience that she won’t forget anytime soon.
Apart from intensifying the pleasurable sensations that you will give your partner, you’re also going to boost her chances of achieving an orgasm or two in the process.
However, I learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that there are annoyances that can easily keep her from really getting in the mood for lovemaking.
So if you’re looking to get your lover totally sexually aroused each time you’re heating things up in bed, make sure you keep clear from the following…
Minimal or no foreplay at all.
Sure bringing your best foreplay moves into play can be rather tiring and tedious, but do them as awesome as you can to make your lover feel that you’re all for her pleasure.
And that just means she will easily get in the mood for action in bed.
Come to think of it. Your partner won’t be that perked up for lovemaking if you give her the notion that she will experience the same old routine when you’re at it between the sheets.
Surprise her with a new foreplay technique or stimulate an erogenous zone that you don’t usually pleasure and you’re sure to get her going faster.
You rush to get to the main part of the action.
Although showing her that you are a take charge guy during foreplay is a surefire way to get your lover’s excitement going, overdoing the whole thing will simply lead to disaster.
She will feel that you’re rushing her and instead of being sexually aroused, her stress hormone levels surge and she’ll just end up getting impatient, anxious and not in the mood for some action between the sheets.
Keep in mind to take things as slow and easy as you go along not just to take her sexual arousal up a notch, but also intensify the stimulation that you’re going to do to her while at it.
Your bedroom needs a bit of jazzing up.
Now while this may sound surprising, your lover’s sexual arousal levels won’t reach their ideal levels when the bedroom you’re in is a mess.
This is because her brain will be coaxed into producing and releasing stress hormones that do just the exact opposite of the positive hormones that make her sexually aroused.
Make it a point to keep your bedroom generally clean and organized to jumpstart her sexual arousal as soon as you kick things off in there.