If you’re anything like most guys, it’s either you experienced getting stuck in the friend zone or very much afraid of being so. But the thing is there are simple pointers you need to keep in mind to avoid getting trapped in it.
Let me explain what I mean…
Getting stuck in the friendzone is definitely one of the most awkward experiences that you’ll ever go through.
However, unlike what most men tend to mistakenly believe, falling in the friendzone trap doesn’t just happen.
It is actually the result of the choices that you made as well as the decisions that you went for as you’re building a relationship with a woman.
And what’s really interesting is there are key reasons why a lot of men tend to get themselves stuck in the friendzone. Make sure follow along to find out what these are…
You don’t tell her you have romantic intentions for her.
Letting a woman know that you’re looking to have a romantic relationship with her is a priority if you want to do just that.
Come to think of it. How does she know that you want to be closer with her in a more romantic way if you don’t tell her in the first place? Tell her straight up if you’re looking to avoid the friend zone!
You can tell her this using a simple text message, a card with flowers or some other nice gesture that you usually do. You can even tell her while you’re doing something that you two like.
Just keep in mind to do it sweet and simple. Complicating things will only result to the opposite.
You spoil her. A lot.
Say a woman you like sends you a text message at 2 in the morning asking for a ride to some place or a bite of her favorite pizza, what would you do?
Now while doing this once or twice is perfectly fine, you’re definitely on your way to being friendzoned if you make it a habit.
You’re just unconsciously telling her that you’re a chump when you do this. And women don’t like chumps.
You make her feel that you’re the nicest guy in the universe.
Now while I am not saying that being nice is an attribute that you should check off your checklist when it comes to building a romantic relationship with a woman, being too nice is just going to be a disaster sooner or later.
Aside from making a woman feel that she can easily manipulate you (just imagine how that will turn out), she will also get the notion that you’re not that exciting to be her love interest.
Make it a point to turn down the nice factor down a notch and you’re good to go. Be the boy next door, but not the doormat.