So here’s the thing. You’re on a first date with a woman you’ve got your eye on for a long time now and you’d like to ace the whole thing. But the thing is you still can’t tell if she’s really having a grand time with you.
And just to tell you the awful truth, there’s no such thing as making a woman fall for you as soon as you take her out on a date like a number of so-called “dating gurus” are saying. Sure there are key dating factors that can help you pull it off, but there’s no secret technique that gets the job done like magic.
However, there are a few signs that you can keep an eye out on to determine if she is really enjoying herself during your date. And if you’re looking to boost your chances the next time you’re taking a woman out, make sure you read on…
You will notice she isn’t taking regular glances at her watch or mobile phone.
A woman who isn’t concerned about stretching the time when it comes to your first date is definitely enjoying the whole thing. When you don’t hear her say “it’s late” or perhaps “I’ve got to get up early tomorrow” constantly, then it’s a sign she’s willing to be with you for a longer time.
Remember to maintain her interest by keeping the mood light and easy and she won’t find it tough to decide that you need to have a second date soon.
You will notice she is actively participating in the exchange of ideas.
You know you’re doing a good job during your first date when she is not talking in an awkward way, as if she’s conversing in a reserved manner. This just means that she’s out of her comfort zone and is willing to mingle with you more.
Apart from listening to her intently to gather a few ideas you can use to dazzle her even more, make sure you add meaningful ideas yourself during your discussion. Avoid topics that can be rather sensitive like religion, politics and other subjects that are not appropriate to talk about during a first date.
You will notice she is giving you her utmost attention.
A woman who’s paying more attention to her phone instead of having a meaningful conversation with you during your first date is rather bored. This means that you need to spice things up fast or else you will blow your chances of acing that date sooner than you think.
It’s either you need to look for another topic to discuss about or perhaps change the mood of the date to a lighter one by telling a joke or sharing an amusing anecdote. Make her feel that you’re fun to be with and it’ll be easier to keep her attention.