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So you’re looking to ace that first date…

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, convincing a woman to go on a second date with you isn’t about getting lucky.

It’s rather about knowing a few tricks to easily boost your chances of taking her out again. So if you’re looking to finally land that second date you’ve always wished for, here are a few tips to keep in mind…

Remember you’re not on a booze run.

Although it’s alright to have a drink or two on your date, simply having too much will just lead to disaster. Some guys think that downing a lot of their drink of choice will make them more confident on their date.

Sadly, this is not true. It will just make you act erratic, talk gibberish and eventually blow your chances of landing another date with a woman. Just to be safe, stick to water, juice or cola.

Pick the most trivial topics to break the ice.

Breaking the ice properly is a good way to make a woman feel more comfortable being with you. And unless you make her feel just that, chances are she won’t be that excited to go out with you again no matter how hard you try.

It’s not that tough to actually get a great conversation going when you’re on a date. You only have to do one thing a lot of guys tend to overlook when they’re going out with a woman: talking casually. Make it a point to kick things off with topics that are fun to talk about and you’re sure to be off on a good start.

Steer clear from politics, religion and other things that can prevent your date from really opening up to you. If you feel that she’s not that receptive to you anymore, talk about something else or get back to a topic that she likes.

Look and smell like a million bucks.

Now while I don’t mean this as something offensive, how you look and smell can make or break your chances of scoring a second date with a woman you’ve got your eyes on. Unless you make your date feel that you’ve exerted a lot of effort to look and smell nice, chances are she won’t be that too eager to go out with you again.

See, grooming is one of the key elements women use as a standard if a guy deserves to have a second date with them. Besides being a sign of how they take care of themselves, it also gives women a preview of how healthy a man is.

Interestingly, taking regular showers, brushing and flossing frequently as well as using deodorant also helps boost the production and release of feel-good hormones in the body that make you feel more comfortable and confident during your date.

Still trying hard to get access to her “backdoor?”

Anal sex is no doubt on top of the sexual bucket lists of men around the world.

Aside from promising sensations that a lot of guys have never felt before, sexually penetrating your lover in the anus also has a forbidden charm to it that makes it really tempting to give a try at least once.

Sure you may be very eager to give anal sex a shot, but chances are your lover won’t be that crazy to try it. There’s no need to worry just yet though. Here are a few simple tricks that you can use to boost your chances of convincing her to give it a try sooner or later:

 Remember, she won’t get fired up if you badger her to do it.

Sure this may sound counter-productive, but pressuring your wife, girlfriend or lover to have anal sex with you is one of the biggest mistakes that you’ll ever make.

Anal sex can be a bit taboo to women and your lover may look at it as something she needs to be comfortable with before she wants to get in on the action. Don’t get frustrated or angry at her if she won’t consent to the idea of doing it in the backdoor immediately. Never make your lover feel that you’re already forcing her to do it.

If you get rejected once or twice, don’t worry. You’ll have lots of time to try again. And the extra time waiting will also make the experience even more amazing.

Include her anus and the areas around it when you’re heating her up in bed.

The breasts and the clitoris are usually the first things that come to your mind when foreplay is mentioned, right?

Your lover is sure to only feel awkward if you just stimulate her anus all of a sudden during your sex session. Make it a point to integrate it in your list of erogenous zones to stimulate during foreplay. This will condition her mind bit by bit that she won’t feel the least freaked out when you do it.

Keep in mind to use this time to tease your partner, too. Tickle the areas around her anus. Kiss her butt cheeks lovingly. Make her feel that you’re simply in love with her anus every time things get spicy in the bedroom, but promptly cut it when you feel that she is slowly reciprocating.

There’s even a good chance that she’ll be the one initiating anal sex if you play your cards right. Just keep in mind that hygiene is king, so make her wash the whole thing before you get busy.

Make her feel her ideas about anal sex are very important to you.

One of the easiest ways to convince your lover to try anal sex is by talking about it. However, I would just like to point out that this should be done out of the bedroom, in a non-sexual setting to avoid overwhelming her one way or another.

You can break it to your partner gently while watching TV or perhaps when you are having a nice lunch together. Tell her you’d like to try anal sex at least once and ask her what she thinks about it. Keep in mind not to sound desperate while at it as well to avoid turning her off.

Still can’t figure out if she is really having a great time on your first date?

So here’s the thing. You’re on a first date with a woman you’ve got your eye on for a long time now and you’d like to ace the whole thing. But the thing is you still can’t tell if she’s really having a grand time with you.

And just to tell you the awful truth, there’s no such thing as making a woman fall for you as soon as you take her out on a date like a number of so-called “dating gurus” are saying. Sure there are key dating factors that can help you pull it off, but there’s no secret technique that gets the job done like magic.

However, there are a few signs that you can keep an eye out on to determine if she is really enjoying herself during your date. And if you’re looking to boost your chances the next time you’re taking a woman out, make sure you read on…

You will notice she isn’t taking regular glances at her watch or mobile phone.

A woman who isn’t concerned about stretching the time when it comes to your first date is definitely enjoying the whole thing. When you don’t hear her say “it’s late” or perhaps “I’ve got to get up early tomorrow” constantly, then it’s a sign she’s willing to be with you for a longer time.

Remember to maintain her interest by keeping the mood light and easy and she won’t find it tough to decide that you need to have a second date soon.

You will notice she is actively participating in the exchange of ideas.

You know you’re doing a good job during your first date when she is not talking in an awkward way, as if she’s conversing in a reserved manner. This just means that she’s out of her comfort zone and is willing to mingle with you more.

Apart from listening to her intently to gather a few ideas you can use to dazzle her even more, make sure you add meaningful ideas yourself during your discussion. Avoid topics that can be rather sensitive like religion, politics and other subjects that are not appropriate to talk about during a first date.

You will notice she is giving you her utmost attention.

A woman who’s paying more attention to her phone instead of having a meaningful conversation with you during your first date is rather bored. This means that you need to spice things up fast or else you will blow your chances of acing that date sooner than you think.

It’s either you need to look for another topic to discuss about or perhaps change the mood of the date to a lighter one by telling a joke or sharing an amusing anecdote. Make her feel that you’re fun to be with and it’ll be easier to keep her attention.

You’re sure going to be sad when your sexual stamina fizzles out!

Your ability to give your lover a sex session that she won’t forget anytime greatly depends on your lasting power between the sheets.

Unless you’ve got the lasting power to really give your partner the pleasurable sensations she wants in bed, chances are you won’t make her reach the Big O even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

But the thing is that you don’t have to reach for pills, creams and other artificial stuff that claim to help you extend your bedroom playing time. There are actually simple and natural ways to do just that.

Here’s a quick checklist of the key factors that you should keep in mind when it comes to really taking your sexual stamina up a notch in no time:

Are your bad habits bringing down your sexual stamina?

I’m pretty sure you are finding this one a bit surprising, but your habits can easily boost or disrupt your sexual stamina. If the habits you have do your body good, then you won’t have a problem maintaining your lasting power between the sheets.

But the thing is that if you habitually smoke or perhaps drink a lot, it will set off a negative reaction in your body that can affect your overall circulation. And when that’s compromised, your sexual stamina is also going to be affected.

So how much exercise have you done this week?

Sweating it out in a regular basis not only helps maintain the ideal function of your organs, muscles and bones that play a key role in terms of movement, but also keep your blood flow in tiptop shape.

Make it a point to keep a regular exercise regimen in your schedule. I’m not saying that you should become a hardcore gym buff to pull this off. Just having a 15 to 20 minute bout of vigorous brisk walking, jogging or biking will already do the trick.

You are what you eat.

What you regularly load up on can easily have a big effect on your sexual stamina. Unless you make it a point to give your body the essential nutrients it needs to function up to par, you’re sure to notice that you’ll last sooner than you’d like to during lovemaking.

Keep in mind to have lots of fresh fruits and vegetables in your regular diet as well as down at least six to eight glasses of water a day. Enjoying moderate portions of your favorite brew from time to time also helps optimize the circulation, too.