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She’s just going to be frustrated during your first date when you make these mistakes.

If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that acing a first date is as easy as looking like a movie star. A few spritzes of an expensive cologne also helps boost your chances of doing just that as well.

However, having a successful date is more than just looking and smelling great. It is also avoiding making these mistakes that a lot of guys don’t even have the slightest clue they are doing them already.

Arriving late. Seriously.

Showing up late on a first date is perhaps the biggest mistake you’ll ever make. She will immediately have the wrong notion about you, too. And you don’t want that to happen, right?

Going all-out with your personal details.

Women like a bit of mystery when it comes to their dates. Simply opening yourself up to a woman as soon as you engage in a discussion is definitely a no-no because she will think you’re boring since you’ve already bared it all.

Have a few mysterious details here and there to intrigue her and you’ll pull off a successful date in no time.

Not giving her the chance to open up.

Not listening attentively to your date is one thing and talking too much is another. Simply not giving the woman you’re out with the chance to share her ideas easily turns her off.

This is because your date will think that you are self-centered and rather difficult to engage in a discussion with. And when this happens, your chances of earning her trust are going to be bleak.

Keep in mind to make the conversation mostly about your date and you’ll be just fine. Make it a point to find out a few interesting things about the woman you’re out with like her favorite fruit or movie and the discussion will flow smoothly.

Not giving her the attention she deserves.

Perhaps one of the biggest mistakes a lot of guys make when they’re out with a woman is not listening intently to them when they are engaged in a conversation. Apart from giving them the notion that you are interested in their ideas and feelings, you are also making them feel anxious and impatient.

See, listening is one way to establish trust with your date. Unless you make a woman feel that she can easily open up to you, chances are she won’t be trusting you anytime soon, which also means that it’s game over when it comes to your date.

Moreover, besides blowing your chances of making your date successful, you won’t also get to know the woman you’re out with better that can easily help you plan your next strategy to make her fall for you.

Make sure you avoid these premature ejaculation myths!

I’m pretty sure that one of your top priorities when it comes to lovemaking is lasting for as long as you can.

Besides giving your partner all the sexual pleasure she needs when you’re at it between the sheets, you’re also boosting your chances of making her achieve orgasm (even again and again) if you play your cards right.

However, I am really disappointed at what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying these days, particularly about the stuff about premature ejaculation.

Make sure you follow along as I walk you through some of the most prevalent premature ejaculation myths and debunk them one by one…

You can’t escape it!

A lot of self-proclaimed “sex gurus” are saying that experiencing premature ejaculation is rather expected as you get older.

Interestingly, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male sexuality that coming too soon during sex is basically triggered by specific factors.

These factors include the pace and rhythm of the sexual act, the mindset you have before and during lovemaking as well as the amount of positive hormones in your body.

And just to point out, you don’t need to get your hands on pills, creams, treated condoms as well as other artificial products to fix this problem.

It is going to be a perpetual problem!

Just to clear things up, premature ejaculation isn’t a permanent thing.

See, premature ejaculation takes place when your sexual arousal gets disrupted or perhaps the pace and rhythm you’re having during the action are faster than they should.

What’s really interesting is once you find a way to rectify this problem, you will be surprised to know that it will go away.

Watch out because the next victim  could be you!

Let’s start things off with the most popular premature ejaculation myth…

Unlike what most men mistakenly believe, the problem of going off too soon during lovemaking happens to a lot of guys (say millions and millions to give you a ballpark figure) around the world.

Sure going through premature ejaculation when you and your lover are getting busy in bed may be quite frustrating and embarrassing, but you are not alone in this. There are actually lots and lots of guys who are dealing with it these days.

Come to think of it. Chances are you’re experiencing it because you’re worried that you’re going to come too soon or perhaps didn’t have sex for a long time.

Her sex drive could bomb if you do these things…

If you’re anything like most men, getting your partner in the mood for sex is the very first item in your bedroom checklist. Besides getting her ready for action, your chances of making her get an orgasm are also multiplied when you pull this off properly.

Sure you may have got a lot of awesome foreplay and sexual tricks up your sleeve, but your lover won’t be getting in the mood to jump between the sheets with you anytime soon if you keep on making these mistakes that will stop her from becoming full on sexually aroused.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these mistakes are and even learn a few pointers that will have her want to make things spicy in the bedroom again.

You may be doing the same stuff in the bedroom.

Repetitiveness is one significant reason why she’s not having sex with you. Although you may already know how to make her squirm and moan between the sheets, doing the same stuff over and over will make her somewhat immune to the sensations that she’ll get along the way.

Now while I am not saying that you should reinvent the wheel on this one, make sure you come up with new ways to stimulate her pleasure zones differently. Take on a new style when you sizzle up her clitoris, breasts and similar erogenous hot spots and you’re definitely back in business.

You may not be that sensitive to her feelings.

Perhaps the biggest mistake you’ll ever make that will immediately ruin your chances of having sex with your partner is being indifferent to her emotions. Interestingly, women can’t get in the mood no matter how hard you try if they’re feeling a bit under the sun.

Make sure you ask your lover if she’s angry, frustrated or anxious and do your best to fix them before you start making your moves on her. These negative emotions only prevent her hormones from sending messages to her brain that get her sexually aroused.

You may be neglecting your hygiene.

Women are very particular with visual and nasal cues to get sexually aroused. In simpler terms, you won’t betting getting lucky with your partner if you smell and look bad. Make it a point to be more conscious of your overall hygiene to really make her want to get in action in bed.

Apart from taking regular showers, dressing appropriately and using deodorant, it’s also smart to brush your teeth as well as get rid of unruly nose and ear hairs while you’re at it. Top it off with a pleasant cologne or perfume and you’re sure to get her going if you play your cards right.

Did you know that you deserve a bite of chocolate today?

Are you a chocolate fan? Well, if you’re not then you are sure to be one after reading this article. Besides being decadent and rich in flavor, chocolate has more benefits – sexual benefits, mind you – than you’ve ever imagined.

Read on to find out more…

Having a bite or two of chocolate regularly can actually improve your performance in the bedroom. Sure this may sound a bit crazy right now, but it will all add up when you follow along.

Benefit #1: It helps boosts your energy and endurance.

Aside from its libido-boosting properties and ability to keep blood flow in tip-top shape, chocolate can also give you a heightened sense of sexual excitement, thanks to its high levels of the compound theobromine, which is also found in kola nuts and all types of teas.

Simply having a bite or two of chocolate can easily make you feel ready for action, especially when things get spicy in the bedroom. So if you’re looking to make your next lovemaking session a blast, make sure you have a chocolate bar on hand.

Benefit #2: It helps stimulate optimum circulation.

A sufficient amount of blood is needed to get and maintain stable erections to make sexual intercourse possible. And amazingly, there are a number of phytochemicals and flavonoids found in chocolate that can easily help you do just that.

These flavonoids and phytochemicals not only just boost the amount of nitric oxide in the bloodstream to keep blood flow ideal, but also keep the arterial walls as hale and hearty as possible. Moreover, they also help dislodge plaque and other unwanted particles that may have accumulated in them in the process.

Based on scientific research, chocolate has similar effects as anti-hypertensive drugs when consumed moderately every day. This means that while it keeps blood flow optimum, it doesn’t go overboard with the whole thing that it’s already quite dangerous for the body.

Benefit #3: It helps bolster the amount of good hormones.

Scientific studies show that chocolate contains very high amounts of the compound, phenylethylamine (PEA), which helps promote the production and release of mood-altering hormones called endorphins in the brain. Apart from making you feel happier almost instantly, these hormones also affect the mind and body in several other ways.

They can help improve your immune system, speed up the repair of damaged tissues and cells, have analgesic properties and help keep bacteria at bay that can potentially cause illnesses like coughs and colds. Plus, they can also make you find sex more pleasurable and intensify orgasms.

According to laboratory tests, men and women who consumed chocolate frequently found sex to be more enjoyable and experienced stronger sensations when they reached the Big O.

(Now here’s why you should include oatmeal in your regular diet while we’re at it.)