If you’re anything like most men, getting your partner in the mood for sex is the very first item in your bedroom checklist. Besides getting her ready for action, your chances of making her get an orgasm are also multiplied when you pull this off properly.
Sure you may have got a lot of awesome foreplay and sexual tricks up your sleeve, but your lover won’t be getting in the mood to jump between the sheets with you anytime soon if you keep on making these mistakes that will stop her from becoming full on sexually aroused.
Make sure you follow along to find out what these mistakes are and even learn a few pointers that will have her want to make things spicy in the bedroom again.
You may be doing the same stuff in the bedroom.
Repetitiveness is one significant reason why she’s not having sex with you. Although you may already know how to make her squirm and moan between the sheets, doing the same stuff over and over will make her somewhat immune to the sensations that she’ll get along the way.
Now while I am not saying that you should reinvent the wheel on this one, make sure you come up with new ways to stimulate her pleasure zones differently. Take on a new style when you sizzle up her clitoris, breasts and similar erogenous hot spots and you’re definitely back in business.
You may not be that sensitive to her feelings.
Perhaps the biggest mistake you’ll ever make that will immediately ruin your chances of having sex with your partner is being indifferent to her emotions. Interestingly, women can’t get in the mood no matter how hard you try if they’re feeling a bit under the sun.
Make sure you ask your lover if she’s angry, frustrated or anxious and do your best to fix them before you start making your moves on her. These negative emotions only prevent her hormones from sending messages to her brain that get her sexually aroused.
You may be neglecting your hygiene.
Women are very particular with visual and nasal cues to get sexually aroused. In simpler terms, you won’t betting getting lucky with your partner if you smell and look bad. Make it a point to be more conscious of your overall hygiene to really make her want to get in action in bed.
Apart from taking regular showers, dressing appropriately and using deodorant, it’s also smart to brush your teeth as well as get rid of unruly nose and ear hairs while you’re at it. Top it off with a pleasant cologne or perfume and you’re sure to get her going if you play your cards right.