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Always keep clear from these mistakes when you’re going down on her!

Having oral sex in your bedroom checklist is the way to go if you’re looking to give her an experience she won’t forget anytime soon.

I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that some guys don’t seem to have a clear idea what to do when they’re going down on their partners.

Now while they may have the right intention – and that is to blow a woman’s mind with a barrage of pleasurable sensations from down under – not having a clue of the things that they should avoid during the action easily breaks their chances of pulling it off.

There is even a big possibility that you’re guilty of doing the same mistakes as well.

So if you’re looking to really give your lover an oral sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon, make sure you avoid the following…

Not taking things slow and easy.

Sure you may have seen in porn movies how the male actors almost always zero in on the vagina and clitoris immediately when they get the chance (and make them feel rather ecstatic while at it, too), doing this in real life will just lead to disaster.

See, the clitoris needs a bit of time to get ready for stimulation. Akin to the erectile tissues in the penis that need to firm up first before they can produce pleasurable sensations, this erogenous zone won’t be able to churn out the same if stimulated way sooner than it should.

Make sure that your partner is totally sexually aroused first before you get busy south of her border, too.

Not being as gentle as you can.

Another oral sex mistake that you should always keep clear of is applying too much pressure and going full speed ahead on her intimate areas as soon as you get the opportunity to do so.

Now while applying varying techniques and pressure on her sexy bits is sure to yield different and exciting sensations, simply going fast and furious on them straight away will only lead to less the favorable results.

Keep in mind to go slow and easy to really get her going.

Not asking her for directions while you’re at it.

Although you may now have a general idea of what areas to focus on as well as the techniques that you can do when you’re going down on your partner, don’t hesitate to ask for suggestions from her while you’re at it.

Don’t act as if you already know what there is all to know about oral sex because chances are you don’t.

Remember that she knows what really takes her pleasurable sensations through the roof, so better let her guide you to really get the job done.

Still having a tough time scoring that second date?

If you’re anything like most men, you probably went through a date that didn’t go too well once or twice.

I’ve been there quite a few times as well and that prompted me to delve more on how to make myself more attractive to women when I take them out.

What’s really interesting is that I discovered a few significant mistakes that keep men from turning women’s heads in the dating scene over the years. And I’m sure they can help you boost your chances of snagging another date with a woman you like, too.

Make sure you follow along to find out what they are and how you can use them to your advantage without a fuss.

Remember to wear the right pair of shoes.

I’ve learned that if you really want to make the best impression on a woman when you take her out on a date, you can start by going for the right footwear. Women have the tendency to draw out personal attributes of a guy they’re with just by giving his shoes a peek. Let me give you a few examples.

They thought you were sloppy when your shoes look like they’ve been hurriedly cleaned or wiped down. Moreover, women assumed you don’t care about your appearance if your shoes look really worn and are almost breaking up. Keep in mind to wear nice and clean shoes to a date and you’re good to go.

Make oral and dental hygiene a priority.

I’ve come across a psychology book that revealed women are more inclined to be drawn to your teeth when you smile instead of focusing on your face as a whole. This means that if your teeth look unpleasant, there’s a possibility that your date won’t turn out well as you’ve expected.

Make it a point to brush and floss at least twice a day. Besides keeping your pearly whites free from cavities, you’re also going to do away with stains and grime that can discolor your teeth. And poor dental hygiene can lead to erectile dysfunction sooner or later as well.

Make sure your hair is properly groomed.

Although women have different views on the correct length of hair a man should have, they seem to collectively agree that what matters the most is the style it comes in. They don’t want it too slick that it already looks slimy or perhaps too laid back that it already appears frenzied. Style it carefully and properly to get the best results.

Do you know that these erogenous zones even exist?

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you’ve already got a few foreplay tricks up your sleeve to really heat your lover up for action between the sheets.

And it’s really important to properly get your partner going for lovemaking or else she won’t be that sexually aroused.

Besides not being ideally wet down there, she also won’t experience the pleasurable sensations that she wants while at it, even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

However, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that there are a few commonly overlooked erogenous zones that are sure to take your lover’s sexual arousal to a whole new level when you give them the TLC they deserve.

Let’s have a quick rundown on what these are…

Overlooked Erogenous Zone #1: Inner Thighs

At its simplest, the inner thighs are very near the clitoris and vagina, which your lover assumes that you’re going to stimulate when you explore south of her border.

Surprise your partner by pleasuring her inner thighs first. She’ll feel teased because it’s satisfying and mysterious at the same time because she doesn’t know where you will go next.

And that just means her sexual arousal will be off the charts even more.

Overlooked Erogenous Zone #2: Back of the Neck

I’m sure you find this one surprising being on this list, but the back of the neck or nape can easily give her a lot of pleasurable sensations when properly stimulated.

This is because apart from being located somewhere on her body that she can’t see you working your magic on, which gets her mind going and intensifying the sensations that she’s going to feel, it’s also got a lot of sensitive nerve endings that are just waiting to be activated.

A bit of fondling, kissing and licking will easily do the trick when you pleasure the back of her neck as well.

Overlooked Erogenous Zone #3: Areolas

Chances are you go straight to the nipples when you and your partner are already at it in the bedroom. But the thing is that making a beeline to the nipples as soon as you get the chance can either be rather uncomfortable or plainly painful for your lover.

And if you keep on doing it, chances are she won’t enjoy the experience and may even ruin her mood for lovemaking in the process.

Make it a point to start things off by stimulating her areolas or the sides of her nipples. Now while they may not have the same amount of sensitive nerve endings as their nipple counterparts, areolas still have got enough to electrify her as you go along.

Find out more about commonly overlooked erogenous zones right here.

Love binge drinking? Read this!

As a guy, I’m pretty sure you have your favorite brew to indulge in whenever you’d like to unwind after a hard day’s work or perhaps just chill out.

Now while there’s nothing wrong with having a serving or two of your preferred drink daily since it can help boost your erections, overdoing it is simply going to hurt your sex life before you know it.

Sure this sounds rather crazy right now, but you’re definitely going to ease up on the drinking when you check out the following negative effects of too much alcohol to your sex life…

Testosterone levels will go down sharply.

When you have one too many of your favorite alcoholic drink every day, it will cause the testosterone levels in your body to go down. If this isn’t fixed, this constant drop in testosterone will trigger a problem called cognitive interference in the long run.

Apart from “making it hard for you to function” like you’re supposed to when you and your lover start to get frisky between the sheets, you will also have a tricky time staying sexually aroused as well as reaching the Big O during lovemaking.

Now how’s that for frustrating? And we’re just starting the whole thing, too.

Sexual stamina levels will fizzle out.

Your body needs an ideal amount of water to function properly. If the water levels in your system get lower than it should be, key body functions are going to be affected almost immediately.

And this also includes sexual function.

See, water plays an important role in keeping channels where blood flows through like veins arteries as well as vessels supple and hydrated. When these channels get a bit dry, blood won’t flow properly through them and prevent it from getting where it’s supposed to.

Since the vital organs need blood to raise energy levels and keep your body running nicely, you’ll feel easily tired and sluggish when this happens.

As a diuretic, drinking too much alcohol forces a lot of water out of your body in a short span of time, which affects blood flow and, in turn, cuts down your sexual stamina. Not mentioning making it hard for you to get rock hard on demand.

Talk about drunk and incapable of getting it on.

Let’s kick things off with the biggest reason why you shouldn’t abuse alcohol. You are simply going to be unable to get things hot in the bedroom with your lover because you are intoxicated.

Besides preventing you from pushing her buttons and getting your partner going in bed, your senses are going to be dulled while at it, making the experience rather flat and awkward.