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How do you know if she’s really into you? Find out now!

A lot of men think that women are extremely tough to decode when it comes to knowing if they’re interested romance-wise.

However, this isn’t true.

Sure this may sound surprising, but women actually send out somewhat obvious cues when they’re really into a guy. So if you’re still having a tough time determining if a woman you like feels the same way about you, here are a few signs that you should keep in mind…

She doesn’t mind leaning into you when you talk.

This is perhaps the most obvious sign that she likes you. Women unknowingly become more outgoing when they are attracted to a guy. Besides sitting or standing closer to you than usual, they also appear to be very interested about the subject being discussed.

It isn’t tough to make her laugh.

Now while getting humor into play is a surefire technique to attract a woman, seeing one laughing at almost everything you say is a clear indication that she likes you. Just make sure not to overdo it though like popping an off-color joke or something similar since it can instantly ruin the mood.

She physically connects with you from time to time.

Touching is an unconscious way of telling a person that you care. So if you’re getting a casual pat here and a caress there from her, chances are she is attracted to you. Make sure you don’t take advantage of this by trying to touch her all over or else she’ll have a change of heart sooner than you think.

She wants you to try her food or drink.

Asking another person to give your drink or food a taste is an unconscious sign that you have a certain affinity with him or her. The next time she invites you rather enthusiastically to give her glass of wine or pasta a try, this already gives you an idea how she feels about you.

She mirrors your movements.

“Mirroring” is an activity seen among primates and mammals when they’re trying to attract another of their species as a mate. This is also something demonstrated by humans when they’re with someone they like. The next time you see a woman copying your mannerisms and movements, you can safely assume that she’s interested in you.

She doesn’t mind peeling off her garments in front of you.

As I have pointed out earlier, women tend to become a bit more outgoing than usual when they’re with a guy they like. Some don’t even mind taking off articles of clothing like jackets and coats in front of a man they’re interested in. If this happens to you, just imagine the other things she won’t mind taking off for you if you play your cards right…

Are these the reasons why she doesn’t go down on you?

If you’re anything like most guys, you probably think that getting a blowjob from your lover is definitely one of the hottest things that can happen during sex.

However, making your partner want to go south of the border on you can be a bit of a challenge if you don’t know a few useful pointers. Unlike in porn movies, successfully pulling it off is more than just making a beeline to your crotch the next time you feel a bit frisky.

But here’s the catch. There are actually mistakes that stop you from raising your chances of getting a blowjob from your lover and they’re not as tough to keep clear of as you think.

So if you’re looking to convince your lover to give you, let’s say, a bit of “oral attention” the next time you get between the sheets, here are the possible mistakes that are hindering you from getting it…

Are you warming her up the right way?

No matter how hard you try, you can never convince your lover to give you a blowjob if she’s not properly warmed up for sex. Women basically become more adventurous in bed if you push their buttons appropriately.

Although it would be really nice if you can get her to give you oral action at the drop of a hat, it’s just plain impossible to do that. Get her as sexually aroused as you can first and you may get extremely lucky sooner or later.

You don’t give her the proper attention down there.

Keeping the Golden Rule in mind is very useful if you’d like to get a blowjob from your lover. You can’t just expect her to give you some if you’re not going down on her yourself. Treat her like you want to be treated in bed and she might just return back the favor the least you expect it.

Always remember to stimulate her vagina and clitoris like you want your penis to be pleasured. No matter what you do, never rush things while you’re at it or else she will just only feel that she doesn’t have to give you the same treatment down there when it’s her turn either.

You don’t ask her what she wants in the bedroom.

Now while you may already have an idea of the things that give your lover the most sexual satisfaction, it’s still smart to ask her just to make sure. Besides making her feel that you want to give her an unforgettable time in bed each time you make love, you’ll also know how to give her orgasm after mind-blowing orgasm while at it. Plus, she’s likely to “blow” your mind as well if she’s satisfied enough. How’s that for two for two?

These pointers can help you score a second date with her.

If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably experienced going on a first date with a woman you like and pretty much thought that you’ve got it all in the bag. But when you ask her to go out with you again, you, unfortunately, find out that she’s not too keen on having another date with you.

Now while there is no magic formula that will guarantee a woman will go on a second date with you, there are simple ways that can easily boost your chances of convincing her to do so. So if you’re looking to score that somewhat elusive date number two, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind…

No phone and gadgets ever.

Nothing ruins an otherwise amazing date than giving your mobile phone or some other device more attention than the woman you’re with. You will only give her the notion that you’re impatient and would like to leave as soon as you can or perhaps someone who sees her that she’s not really worth your time. Either way a woman won’t be too happy to go out on a date with you again if you choose to stick your nose at your phone most of the time. (Remember to be punctual while we’re at it, too.)

Asking open-ended questions is the way to go.

A lot of guys make the mistake of asking questions that can be easily answered by a simple yes or no during a first date. Besides making the woman you’re with feel extremely bored, she can also think that you don’t consider her as someone interesting to have a conversation with. Instead of asking her if she likes to cook, find out what her favorite recipes are. That easily gives you an idea how to maneuver your date to your advantage as well.

Keep your jokes appropriate and fun.

You may already know by now that getting humor in the picture is one effective strategy to use if you’d like to make a very nice impression on your date. Apart from making it easier for her to build a connection with you, she will think that you’re a nice guy and asking her out again won’t be a problem. Moreover, remember to stay clear from off-color jokes and other bits of crude humor that you normally share with other guys to avoid making her think that you’re getting fresh with her. You can always do that later when you two are much closer.

Chivalry is not dead.

Chivalry isn’t dead and showing your date that you’re one smooth chap is guaranteed to make her feel more eager to go on a second date with you. Don’t hesitate to pull her a chair, take off your coat when she feels chilly and basically making her feel that you’re her knight in shining armor.