A lot of guys mistakenly think that attracting the ladies is as easy as memorizing a few pickup lines and having a handful of dollars to spend on nice presents.
Now while knowing how to carry on a conversation with a woman and letting her feel that she’s worth your time and attention is just two of the things you have to consider, there are actually other factors you need to keep in mind to pull it off as successfully as you can.
So if you’re looking to improve your chances of attracting a woman you like, here are the things that guys usually forget about when doing the same…
A proper introduction is an essential.
Many men forget that a proper introduction is needed to start breaking the ice with a woman. They believe that as long as they look and smell great, they’re sure to get their attention and eventually fall for them easily. Women aren’t very keen on interacting with strangers and if you’d like to start attracting her, it’s best to say hi and tell her your name first.
Focus your attention on her and not on your mobile phone.
Like I’ve emphasized earlier, making a woman feel that she’s totally worth all your time and attention is a priority if you’re planning to get her attracted to you. And you’re nowhere near achieving that if you’re mostly glued to your tablet, smartphone or some other gadget when you’re with her. Instead of establishing a connection with a woman, you’ll only make her feel ignored and unimportant, which is quite far from the results you’re aiming at.
Go for appropriate jokes and one-liners.
Women pretty much love to laugh and showing her that you have a great sense of humor is a smart way to make her feel attracted to you. However, some guys forget they’re getting too raunchy with the jokes that they tell and are already offending the woman they’d like to attract. Always remember to stick with the clean ones just to be extra safe.
Don’t dominate the exchange of ideas.
A lot of guys get too carried away when talking with a woman that they don’t notice they’re already monopolizing the conversation. Although it’s part of your job to carry on a meaningful conversation to make her attracted to you, it’s also important that you listen to what she has to say. Moreover, it’s also important that she chooses most of the topics that you will talk about and always go for open-ended questions to really get her going.