If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably experienced ejaculating sooner than you’d like to during a sex session with your lover.
Now while going through it every so often is completely normal for most guys, experiencing premature ejaculation just every time you’re making love can easily mean that you have a problem you need to fix fast.
This problem is called lack of confidence.
Sure lack of self-confidence may not sound as technical as you’ve imagined, but not having the right amount of it can easily affect how long you last during lovemaking and even your performance between the sheets.
Let me explain what I mean…
Confidence plays a very big role inside the bedroom as much as it does outside of it.
Apart from helping you easily get rock hard on demand and keeping an erection long enough to sexually satisfy your lover, it also helps you channel you inner Casanova to really fire her up between the sheets.
The bottom line is that the lack of confidence simply screws up the whole sexual experience not just for you, but also for your lover. So if you’re looking to easily improve your confidence levels in the bedroom, here are a few important pointers that you should keep in mind…
Think you’re not big enough.
A lot of men mistakenly believe that penile size is what primarily counts when it comes to sexually pleasuring a woman.
The sensitive nerve endings that are responsible for giving women sexual pleasure are located in the first 2-3 inches of the vagina.
Unless you’re born with an abnormally small penis, you’re guaranteed to satisfy a woman during sex if you just know what you’re doing.
Think that you will ejaculate prematurely.
Most guys experience premature ejaculation because they think that they will go through it right from the start of their lovemaking session with their partners.
The mind can be your greatest ally or your biggest enemy during sex. You are basically programming your brain to force your body to achieve orgasm earlier than you’d like when thinking these thoughts.
Just think about how you’ll give your lover maximum sexual pleasure instead.
Don’t focus on her pleasure.
A lot of men simply ejaculate prematurely because they get so caught up in the moment that they forget that it’s their partners that should get more sexual attention.
The next time you and your lover get frisky in the bedroom, just remember to get the sexual spotlight on her more than you. Chances are you’ll be very surprised how much longer you will last.