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Looking to boost your chances of acing a first date?

Looking to boost your chances of acing a first date?

Acing a first date isn’t something that you can pull off by wearing loud clothes and acting like the alpha male as pushed by so-called “dating gurus.”

I’ve learned a few useful pointers during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help you boost your chances of convincing her to go out on a date with you again.

Make sure you read on to learn more…

Be very conscious of your grooming.

How you look and smell are the two key factors that a woman will check out when you’re going out on a first date with her.

Make it a point to really pull out all the stops in ensuring that you will look and smell like a million bucks.

Besides planning your outfit at least two days ahead, keeping in mind to wear clean shoes should also be a priority in your checklist.

Be punctual.

Arriving on time or earlier than designated gives her the message that you’re responsible and has good time management skills.

Make it a point to arrive at least 10 minutes ahead of her on your first date to avoid having this effect on her.

You can also improve your first date checklist while you’re waiting for her.

Let her in on the planning.

Now while it’s the norm that guys should be in charge when it comes to planning a first date, letting her in on the same has its awesome benefits.

See, besides picking up a few things that you can use to dazzle her as you go along, you will also make her feel that you’re really into her.

How’s that for a few extra brownie points for you?

Ask trivial questions.

Engaging the woman you’re on a first date with in a conversation isn’t that tricky at all.

Starting things off with a trivial question like asking her what her favorite cartoon character is or perhaps the TV series that she’s following these days is a great strategy to have in your checklist.

And no matter how smart you think it is, leading with technical and complicated topics won’t cut it.

Put your phone on silent mode.

Putting your phone away during a first date not just helps you fully concentrate on the woman you’re out with, but also gives her the idea that you’re really into her.

I know this may be tricky to do, but putting those texts, videos, status updates and other stuff on hold actually boosts your chances of landing a second date.

How to make her oral sex experience more amazing.

How to make her oral sex experience more amazing.

Giving your lover the oral sex that she wants is not as complicated as you think.

Now while a lot of men think that they’ve already mastered the art of going down below, chances are there is still room for improvement.

So if you’re looking to amaze your partner the next time you go down south, here are a few pointers you need to keep in mind…

The right mindset counts a lot.

How you see oral sex can easily make or break your chances of giving your lover an awesome experience.

Thinking of stimulating her vagina and clitoris with your mouth pleasurable and sexy can help you pull it off successfully. Seeing oral sex as something tiresome and gross can only lead to disaster.

Make your lover know that you like giving her oral sex and it’s one of your most favorite things to do between the sheets.

Let her feel that you’re doing it for your own pleasure rather than hers. Believe me, that will warm her up sooner than you think.

Her overall comfort is crucial.

No matter how eager or skillful you are at oral sex, you will never give your lover the satisfaction that she wants if she isn’t as comfortable as can be.

Before you get in action, make sure that her she back is straight and you have ample room to move when pleasuring her down there.

Although the safest option is to have her lying on the bed, you can also experiment with other positions that can give her the same amount of oral sex pleasure.

Make sure that she also has enough space to move as well to avoid her getting hurt when she starts feeling the oral magic taking effect.

Don’t go for the clitoris immediately.

A lot of guys mistakenly believe that oral sex is mainly about zeroing in on a woman’s clitoris.

Apart from not giving your lover the satisfaction that she wants, you can also make her feel rather uncomfortable down there if you just focus on her extremely sensitive clitoris when doing oral action.

Oral sex is all about pleasuring her with your mouth and tongue. It isn’t only exclusive to her lady bits.

You also have to stimulate her other erogenous zones to really fire up her sexual excitement.

Don’t forget to give the same attention to her breasts, inner thighs, back of the ears and nape. She’ll be the one squirming for you to get to the “bottom line” sooner than you think.

Be persistent.

Unlike what most guys think, giving a woman oral sex is not over when she’s already begging you to stop.

It’s your cue to keep up what you’re doing until she achieves orgasm. Don’t stop the action even if you’re already feeling a bit tired or your tongue has become rather numb.

Keep up the good work and she’ll be very willing to reciprocate with amazing oral sex as well.