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Boost your chances of getting a BJ with these tips.

Boost your chances of getting a BJ with these tips.

I’m pretty sure that getting head from your lover is one of things that are in your sexual checklist. It’s basically one of the most pleasurable experiences you can go through in the bedroom.

But here’s the thing…

She seems to be not that eager to give it a go until now.

I know it’s a bit worrying right now, but I’ve picked up a few pointers during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help you change the situation in your favor.

Let me explain what I mean…

Take personal grooming up a notch.

We’ll kick things off with grooming. Women are very particular with how you look and smell. If you look and smell not that nice down there, she will have a tricky time convincing herself to go down on you no matter how hard you try.

Make it a point to trim wayward pubic hair and soap the south of your border properly when you’re taking a shower or a bath and you’re on your way to make her say yes to oral sex.

Give her amazing oral sex yourself.

Oral sex is a two-way street. If you don’t give your partner the oral sex pleasure she deserves, there is a big possibility that she won’t be that game to give you a blowjob. Keep in mind to knock her socks off each time you go down on her to boost your chances.

(Here’s an oral sex tip you need to remember to help you pull off just that.)

Don’t be bossy.

Being bossy in the bedroom simply promotes a surge of negative hormones and neurotransmitters like cortisol in her body. Besides ruining her overall sexual mood, this also makes her impatient and feeling awkward.

Make it a point to ask her nicely when you’d like to get head. She may not say yes the first few times, but she’s going to give the green light before you know it. Making her feel that you’re rushing her will just lead to disaster.

Be more vocal when it’s her turn.

Being vocal when she goes down on you not just makes her feel that you really love getting blowjobs, but also gives her the notion that she’s doing the right stuff. Keep in mind to loudly express your enjoyment with every pleasurable sensation you experience. Just remember to guide her as you go along so your reactions won’t sound fake and forced.

So you'd like to keep your erections strong and powerful...

So you’d like to keep your erections strong and powerful…

Chances are you consider getting a strong erection a priority when the action’s already sizzling in bed.

Sure you may not have issues rising up to the occasion these days, but neglecting some key factors can lead to erection issues before you know it.

So make sure you read on to find out some tips you need to keep in mind to get and maintain quality erections each time you’re feeling rather frisky with your lover.

Load up on the right stuff.

Your regular diet basically makes or breaks the quality of your erections.

Eating the right stuff not only gives your body the essential nutrients it needs to function properly and this includes setting off a strong and intense erection when you’re sexually aroused.

Make it a point to consume fresh fruits and vegetables as well as other healthy stuff as much as you can and you’re on your way to getting a powerful erection when you need one.

Get and stay hydrated.

Getting an erection involves directing a more than usual amount of blood flow to the erectile tissues in the penis.

The faster the ideal amount of circulation reaches the penis, the easier it will be to achieve an erection. Just imagine how quick you can get ready when things are already heating up in the bedroom.

Keep in mind to down at least 6 to 8 glasses of water or fresh fruit juices each day and you’re good to go.

Work out like you should.

Exercise helps strengthen the heart, which plays a key role when it comes to getting and maintaining an erection.

Working out regularly keeps the heart strong and in the pink, which also means quality erections.

You don’t have to become an instant gym buff to pull this off, too. You simply have to go for low impact exercises like jogging and biking to do this.

And as a bonus, you’ll also look trimmer and more appealing when you’ve got exercise in your regular schedule.

Masturbate often.

Masturbation is basically a practice for sex. You’re basically going through all the motions of lovemaking without a partner.

What’s really interesting about masturbation is that you’re also “programming” your body to get and maintain powerful erections in the process.

The more you masturbate, the easier it will be for you to rise up to the occasion when the time calls for it.

How’s that for a nice bonus to an already pleasurable activity?

Here are anal sex tips you need to keep in mind.

Here are anal sex tips you need to keep in mind.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are anal sex is one of the things in your bedroom bucket list.

And now here’s the thing…

Your lover has finally given the green light to action in the backdoor, but you still haven’t done it yet.

There’s no need to worry, though. Here are a few key anal sex pointers you need to keep in mind that will help ensure that the experience will be good for the both of you…

Get her really sexually aroused.

Unlike what you see in porn movies, getting a woman ready for anal sex isn’t about propping her up in the position you want and start pumping away.

You’d have to properly get your partner sexually aroused first. Besides taking away her inhibitions in the bedroom, a really horny woman will also be more game in the bedroom.

(Now while you may already have a few tricks up your sleeve to make your lover ready for action between the sheets, exciting her mind is also a useful tip to keep in mind.)

Have lots of lube ready.

The anus doesn’t have the natural ability to produce its very own lubrication like the vagina does.

You have to get your hands on a lot of lube to make anal sex an awesome experience for the both of you. Having little will just lead to disaster before you know it.

Make it a point to apply a liberal amount of lube on your penis and her anus before the action starts. Keep in mind to apply again when you feel that your thrusts aren’t as smooth like they used to.

Start with the tip.

The sensations that a woman will experience during anal sex can be a bit awkward and uncomfortable if you immediately thrust your whole penis inside her.

Remember that you should begin the action with only the tip. If she doesn’t react or say that you should take it easy for a bit, thrust a little more.

Repeat this process until she’s comfortable with the whole thing.

Let her guide you.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, anal sex isn’t an activity that guys should dominate. It’s actually the other way around.

If she feels that the experience isn’t as pleasurable for her, you may be in for a lot of disappointment as you go along.

Make it a point to let her guide you and the experience will be amazing for you two.

A few tips on scoring a second date.

A few tips on scoring a second date.

I’m pretty sure that scoring a second date is your top priority when you’re taking out a woman for the very first time.

But the thing is successfully doing this isn’t about acting the alpha male or wearing loud clothes like self-proclaimed “dating gurus” are saying.

Make sure you read on to learn some simple ways of increasing your chances of convincing the woman you’re going out on a first date with to have a second one with you.

Plan your getup ahead of time.

Women are very particular with how you look and smell. If you show up on a date wearing some hastily thrown getup, you’re in for a lot of disappointment.

Make it a point to plan your apparel beforehand – at least a couple of days beforehand – to find out what works and what doesn’t.

And while we’re on the subject, wear clean shoes. Women are quite meticulous with footwear, too.

Switch off your phone.

Now while phones are necessities in today’s modern world, being distracted by it during a first date will just lead to disaster.

Keep in mind to switch it off during your first date so you can really give your utmost attention to the woman you’re going out with.

The status updates, tweets, funny emails and videos as well as the other stuff you normally check out with your phone can wait.

Ask trivial questions.

Sure intelligence is sexy for women, but starting things off with something difficult and complicated isn’t going to cut it.

This is because it will just give your date the notion that you’re trying too hard to impress her, which will just make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.

One effective way of doing this is asking trivial questions. Besides making it easy for her to relate to, she won’t also have a hard time answering them as you go along.

Examples like the TV show she’s following or the name of her first pet should be your guide, too.

Get and maintain ideal eye contact.

Getting and maintaining ideal eye contact is a must because this gesture gives the woman you’re on a first date with the notion that you’re not someone shady.

Make it a point to establish eye contact when you’re exchanging ideas with her.

If you’re not that comfortable to do so, you can always focus your vision to the upper bridge of her nose.