Chances are you’d like to last for as long as you can if you’re anything like most guys. Come to think of it – pun intended – what kind of man wouldn’t want to?
Besides experiencing lots and lots of pleasurable sensations, you’re also going to give your lover a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon.
But here’s the situation…
You’re simply noticing that you are reaching orgasm and ejaculating way sooner than you’d like to these days. And it’s already getting you worried.
There’s no need to get upset, though. I’ve picked up a few tips during my extensive research into the male sexuality that will help you extend your bedroom playing time.
Make sure you read on to find out what they are…
Have a positive mindset.
I know this sounds surprising right now, but you’re going to come sooner than you’d like to when you have a negative mindset during lovemaking. Examples of this include thinking that you’ll ejaculate prematurely while the action’s getting hot in bed.
See, apart from causing a surge in negative hormones that disrupts your overall sexual arousal, the brain will also think that this is what you really want and will set off your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses sooner than they should.
Go slow and easy.
At its simplest, the body will engage its ejaculatory and orgasmic responses when it detects that the levels of positive hormones and neurotransmitters that are released during sexual arousal have reached their peak.
The slower you go when you and your partner are at it between the sheets, the longer this process happens, which also helps you last longer during sex. The more intense the sensations you’ll experience while at it, too.
How’s that for an awesome bonus?
Focus on her pleasure.
Some men tend to overlook that they need to knock their partners’ socks off during lovemaking. They tend to get carried away and go full speed ahead as soon as they get the chance to sexually penetrate them.
The more you focus on your lover’s pleasure, the more you’ll think of how to blow her mind during your sex session.
Stimulate her in other ways.
Like we’ve discussed earlier, you’re at risk of coming way sooner than you’d like to when the amount of positive hormones and neurotransmitters reach their peak earlier than they should. This primarily comes from penile stimulation.
Make it a point to stimulate her in other ways to prevent having an overload of penile stimulation while you’re at it. You can give her amazing oral sex or fingering session instead of sexually penetrating your lover the whole time.