Fingering is no doubt one of the most pleasurable moves that you can do when you and your lover are already at it in the bedroom.
Now while you may already have a general idea of what fingering is, I discovered during my extensive research into the female sexuality that a lot of guys seem to overlook a few mistakes that can sap away the pleasure of the whole thing.
So if you’re looking to give her a fingering session that she won’t forget anytime soon, here are a few no-no’s that you should keep in mind…
You start immediately.
The first fingering mistake that we’ll touch on is kicking things off as soon as you get the chance.
Sure you may see this move in porn flicks, but all you’re going to do is make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.
This is because the vagina and clitoris need time to prep up so they can really produce the pleasurable sensations that they’re capable of.
Give her a foreplay session that she won’t forget anytime soon first and you’re on your way to knocking her socks off while at it.
You don’t trim your fingernails.
Your fingernails can easily make or break your chances at giving her a fingering session that will blow her mind.
Besides significantly reducing the pleasurable sensations that her body is going to churn out while you’re at it, her sexual mood is going to plummet with each stroke you’re going to do as well.
Make it a point to keep your fingernails clean and trimmed before you start the action south of her border.
You only focus on her vagina and clitoris.
Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, fingering isn’t about stimulating the vagina and clitoris. It also involves taking her sexual excitement levels up a notch in the process.
And one way of pulling this off is keeping her on her toes as you’re bringing your fingering A-game into play.
Don’t just concentrate on her clitoris and vagina when you’re fingering her. Make it a point to stimulate her other erogenous zones like the inner thighs and lower abdomen to intensify the pleasurable sensations she’s experiencing.
You go too fast.
This is another porn flick move that you see in porn. Going too fast when you finger her will just lead to disaster.
Keep in mind to start as slow and easy as you can and you’re on your way to blowing her mind.