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Avoid these fingering mistakes to really knock her socks off.

Avoid these fingering mistakes to really knock her socks off.

Fingering is no doubt one of the most pleasurable moves that you can do when you and your lover are already at it in the bedroom.

Now while you may already have a general idea of what fingering is, I discovered during my extensive research into the female sexuality that a lot of guys seem to overlook a few mistakes that can sap away the pleasure of the whole thing.

So if you’re looking to give her a fingering session that she won’t forget anytime soon, here are a few no-no’s that you should keep in mind…

You start immediately.

The first fingering mistake that we’ll touch on is kicking things off as soon as you get the chance.

Sure you may see this move in porn flicks, but all you’re going to do is make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.

This is because the vagina and clitoris need time to prep up so they can really produce the pleasurable sensations that they’re capable of.

Give her a foreplay session that she won’t forget anytime soon first and you’re on your way to knocking her socks off while at it.

You don’t trim your fingernails.

Your fingernails can easily make or break your chances at giving her a fingering session that will blow her mind.

Besides significantly reducing the pleasurable sensations that her body is going to churn out while you’re at it, her sexual mood is going to plummet with each stroke you’re going to do as well.

Make it a point to keep your fingernails clean and trimmed before you start the action south of her border.

You only focus on her vagina and clitoris.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, fingering isn’t about stimulating the vagina and clitoris. It also involves taking her sexual excitement levels up a notch in the process.

And one way of pulling this off is keeping her on her toes as you’re bringing your fingering A-game into play.

Don’t just concentrate on her clitoris and vagina when you’re fingering her. Make it a point to stimulate her other erogenous zones like the inner thighs and lower abdomen to intensify the pleasurable sensations she’s experiencing.

You go too fast.

This is another porn flick move that you see in porn. Going too fast when you finger her will just lead to disaster.

Keep in mind to start as slow and easy as you can and you’re on your way to blowing her mind.

 

So you'd like to make a good impression on a first date...

So you’d like to make a good impression on a first date…

Acing a first date isn’t something that you can pull off at the drop of a hat like a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying. But the thing is I’ve a few useful pointers during my extensive research into the female psychology that may just help you boost your chances of making a good first impression during a first date. Make sure you follow along to find out more…

 

Arrive early.

Making it a point to arrive earlier than the woman you’re going out with during a first date not only helps you ensure that your preparations are all set, but also give her the notion that you have good time management skills. Arriving at least 10 minutes ahead of her is a nice benchmark to keep in mind.

Plan your getup well.

How you look is one of the biggest factors that can make or break the outcome of your first date. Keeping in mind to plan your outfit ready at least a couple of days ahead of your date not just helps you gauge if it suits your right, but also prevents a fashion disaster from happening before you know it. Remember not to underdress or overdress while we’re on the subject as well.

Ask for her inputs.

Sure you may already have a few first date pointers in mind, but making sure to ask the woman you’re going out with what her preferences are for the same gives her the idea that you’re really into her. Besides making you earn some brownie points, you’ll also have a few ideas here and there how you can dazzle her as you go along.

Go for trivial conversational topics.

Although smart is sexy for women, going for topics that are technical and complicated can easily turn your date in no time at all. Choose very simple topics instead to talk about. Apart from asking her what her favorite cartoon character or perhaps preferred book genre is, you can also ask her what TV series she’s following these days. The simpler, the better.

Don’t be touchy-feely.

Most men tend to go all out with their gestures when emphasizing something during a conversation. Now while this isn’t an issue when you’re gabbing with your friends, doing this on a first date can give her the wrong idea. If you’d like to stress an idea, just pat or touch her on the shoulder or the forearm.

She'll be more eager to go down on you with these pointers.

She’ll be more eager to go down on you with these pointers.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are getting some oral attention from your lover is no doubt one of the things that you look forward to each time the action gets hot in the bedroom.

Besides being very pleasurable, it also makes you feel quite a man. But the thing is your partner seems to be not as eager to blow you like she used to these days.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. I’ve picked up a few pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that may just help bring back her eagerness to give you a blowjob.

Let me explain what I mean…

Be as inviting as can be.

How you look and smell down there can make or break your chances of getting a BJ from her. This is because women are very particular with grooming. If she thinks that your grooming south of the border isn’t up to her liking, she won’t be heading that way to pleasure you anytime soon.

Give her awesome oral sex each time.

Oral sex is a two-way street. It’s either you pull out all the stops when you’re giving it or perhaps get a bad BJ when you’re on the receiving end. There’s even a possibility that her eagerness to go down on you will plummet in the process. Knock her socks off with amazing oral sex each time and you’ll be surprised with the results.

Vocal is the way to go.

Make it a point to really be vocal when you feel the pleasurable sensations during oral sex – and she’s the one giving it. See, apart from giving her the notion that you really like being blown, she will also think that she’s on the right track to giving you a BJ that you’ve always wanted. You can easily guide her while she’s at it, though.

Don’t boss her when you’re hankering for a BJ.

Sure asking her to go down on you is one thing, being bossy about the whole will only lead to disaster. This is because you’ll just end up making her body produce a lot of stress hormones that will make her feel anxious, impatient and awkward. And you’ve already got  a preview of how your oral sex session will turn out. Always make it a point to be gentle with her when you ask her to go down and you’ll be rewarded.

Anal sex tips you need to keep in mind.

Anal sex tips you need to keep in mind.

I’m pretty sure that anal sex is one of the things in your lovemaking bucket list. And now you’ve finally convinced your partner to give it a go.

Now while you’ve already got a general idea of what anal sex is, a lot of men tend to have the wrong notion about it. They think that you should do it like what you see in porn flicks.

And that will just lead to disaster before you know it.

What’s really interesting is I’ve come across a few pointers that will help you make the whole experience pleasurable for you and your lover.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Have a lot of lube ready.

Unlike the vagina that can naturally produce its own lubrication, the anus needs a lot of help in this department. This is the reason why you need to have a lot of lube on hand to make things as smooth and easy as possible during anal sex. Make it a point to apply a liberal amount of lube all over your penis before starting to sexually penetrating her in the backdoor.

Start with only the tip.

I know the urge to shove it all the way in is great when you’re having anal sex, but it’s best if you only start with the tip, especially when it’s just the first time you’re doing it. See, this not only helps your lover adapt to the sensations that she’ll experience, but also prevent her from feeling awkward and uncomfortable in the process. You can go in deeper as you go along, though.

Slow is the way to go.

Going slow not just makes the sensations that the both of you will feel more intense, but it will also keep her from feeling uncomfortable while at it. This is because she’ll just end up feeling sore when you go fast and furious while your anal sex session is going on. And as a bonus, it will also keep you from coming sooner than you’d like to as well.

Re-apply from time to time.

Applying a lot of lube when you start your anal sex session isn’t enough. You’ll need to apply again and again during the course of it. As soon as you feel that things aren’t as smooth and easy as before, make it a point to re-apply a liberal amount of lube as soon as you can.