I’m pretty sure that anal sex is one of the things in your lovemaking bucket list. And now you’ve finally convinced your partner to give it a go.
Now while you’ve already got a general idea of what anal sex is, a lot of men tend to have the wrong notion about it. They think that you should do it like what you see in porn flicks.
And that will just lead to disaster before you know it.
What’s really interesting is I’ve come across a few pointers that will help you make the whole experience pleasurable for you and your lover.
Make sure you follow along to find out more…
Have a lot of lube ready.
Unlike the vagina that can naturally produce its own lubrication, the anus needs a lot of help in this department. This is the reason why you need to have a lot of lube on hand to make things as smooth and easy as possible during anal sex. Make it a point to apply a liberal amount of lube all over your penis before starting to sexually penetrating her in the backdoor.
Start with only the tip.
I know the urge to shove it all the way in is great when you’re having anal sex, but it’s best if you only start with the tip, especially when it’s just the first time you’re doing it. See, this not only helps your lover adapt to the sensations that she’ll experience, but also prevent her from feeling awkward and uncomfortable in the process. You can go in deeper as you go along, though.
Slow is the way to go.
Going slow not just makes the sensations that the both of you will feel more intense, but it will also keep her from feeling uncomfortable while at it. This is because she’ll just end up feeling sore when you go fast and furious while your anal sex session is going on. And as a bonus, it will also keep you from coming sooner than you’d like to as well.
Re-apply from time to time.
Applying a lot of lube when you start your anal sex session isn’t enough. You’ll need to apply again and again during the course of it. As soon as you feel that things aren’t as smooth and easy as before, make it a point to re-apply a liberal amount of lube as soon as you can.