Making the whole thing as successful as you can is no doubt the top priority in your checklist when you’re going out with a woman on a first date.
Besides boosting your chances of convincing her to go on a date with you again, giving her a positive experience also makes it easier to establish an emotional connection with her as you go along.
Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” are suggesting, pulling it off doesn’t involve super-secret fashion techniques or perhaps saying words or phrases that instantly make a woman feel closer to you as soon as you utter them.
I’ve picked up a few simple pointers during my extensive research into the female psychology that will help you get on your way to a successful first date. Why don’t we start the ball rolling right now?
Plan your getup ahead of time.
Perhaps the most important thing that you should keep in mind when you’re looking to make a first date successful is your grooming.
See, how you look and smell is the very first thing that a woman will check out.
And if she thinks that your grooming isn’t up to par, you’ll just end up making her feel that you’re sloppy and irresponsible.
I know that sounds a bit harsh, but it’s the truth.
You should arrive before she does.
Women are very particular with time management and if you show up after her on a first date, you’re simply going to send her the wrong message.
Make it a point to get there at least 10 to 15 minutes ahead of her.
Apart from giving her the notion that you don’t have an issue with punctuality, you can also spare a few minutes checking how you look and smell as well as have a quick rundown of your plans for the big day (or night).
Don’t spend most of your time checking out your phone.
Acing a first date primarily involves giving the woman you’re going out with the idea that you’re really interested in her.
And if you’re just going to spend most your first date checking your phone for status updates, tweets, texts or perhaps what Pokemon are lurking about, you are simply in for a lot of disappointment before you know it.
This also applies to other gadgets that you may have with you, including your watch.
Make it a point to focus all of your attention on her the whole time.