If I were to ask you to reveal the top things in your sexual bucket list, I’m pretty sure that anal sex is one of them.
Besides offering new sensations that you haven’t experienced before, sexually penetrating your lover in the backdoor also makes you feel really macho.
But the thing is even though you’ve got a general idea of how anal sex is done, you and your partner still haven’t given it a go in the bedroom yet.
There’s no need to worry, though. I’ve picked up a few useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that will help you get the job done properly.
Make sure you follow along to find out more…
Her sexual arousal is essential.
Unlike what you see in porn movies, having a bout of anal sex isn’t about simply making a beeline for your lover’s anus to penetrate it with your penis.
You’ve got to really fire her up for lovemaking first or else she won’t be that eager to get the backdoor action going.
And simply zeroing in on her rear as soon as you get the chance will just be awkward and uncomfortable for her.
Grab a lot of lube.
The anus doesn’t have the ability to produce natural lubrication like the vagina. You’ll need to get your hands on lube to make your anal sex session smooth and pleasurable for her.
Not keeping this in mind will just lead to disaster.
In case you’re still not sure how much lube to reach for, here’s a simple technique you can use: picture out the ideal amount you’ll need and multiply it by two.
Ease her into it.
There’s a big possibility that your partner thinks anal sex is a bit taboo, so make it a point that you discuss the whole thing with her before you even think about pointing your member in the direction of her anus.
“Accidentally” inserting it in the backdoor will simply sap away her mood for action in the bedroom.
Slow and easy is the way to go.
Sure the temptation to go fast and furious as soon as you get the chance may be great, but keep in mind to start the ball rolling with slow and easy thrusts.
You can pick things up as you go along when she’s feeling more comfortable.
Ask her to guide you.
Your lover will feel more confident to give anal sex a shot – and keep at it – if you give her the notion that she calls the shots.
Ask her to guide you as you go along and she’ll be much more comfortable while at it.