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Interesting masturbation benefits you'd like to know about.

Interesting masturbation benefits you’d like to know about.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you’re not a stranger to masturbation. There’s even a possibility that you’ve just done the deed or perhaps planning to give it a go later.

What’s really interesting is “beating the meat,” “holding the sausage hostage” and “playing tug of war with the Cyclops” is more than just gratifying yourself sexually. Sure you may think that I’m pulling your leg, but this is actually true.

I know this sounds a bit surprising right now, but you’ll find out more when you follow along…

It helps you relax.

For starters, masturbation basically promotes the release of positive hormones like dopamine and oxytocin that helps relieve stress. Besides making you feel more relaxed, it also takes away feelings of worry and anxiety that can make you unproductive and sulky when your stress levels go off the charts.

It helps prevent premature ejaculation.

Masturbating in a regular basis helps you become more familiar when your positive hormones reach their peak levels during lovemaking. When this happens, your brain activates your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses. Having an idea when the whole thing takes place makes you last longer when things get hot in the bedroom.

(I’ve also come across a simple and natural technique that you can use to stave off premature ejaculation when you and your lover are at it between the sheets.)

It staves off prostate issues.

According to the results of an Australian study, men who ejaculated three to five times a week helped prevent the buildup of harmful toxins in and around the prostate area, which can potentially lead to health issues in the long run. Moreover, it also keeps the urogenital tract free of bacteria that may cause diseases, too. Isn’t masturbation versatile?

It helps you maintain quality erections.

Did you know that masturbating regularly “trains” your body to achieve strong and lasting erections on demand? See, you’re basically helping your brain develop a stimulus that once you get in the mood, you should rise up to the occasion. And getting rock hard when you need to is definitely an asset in bed, isn’t it?

It boosts your immune levels.

You probably already know about how positive hormones and masturbation – excuse the pun – hand in hand. See, when you’ve got enough dopamine and oxytocin in the body, you immune levels go up. Apart from helping keep diseases at bay, you’re also going to maintain your overall wellness.

These breast stimulation techniques will surely surprise her.

These breast stimulation techniques will surely surprise her.

Your lover’s breasts are no doubt extremely sensitive to stimulation.

But the thing is unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, making the breasts churn out the pleasurable sensations that they’re capable of isn’t about making a beeline for them during foreplay and stimulating them like there’s no tomorrow.

So if you’re looking to really give your partner a breast stimulation session that she won’t forget anytime soon, make sure you read on to pick up a few useful pointers…

Get her really fired up for lovemaking.

The erogenous zones in a woman’s body need to be activated first before they can produce and release pleasurable sensations.

Stimulating them before they’re really ready will only either make her feel rather awkward or perhaps uncomfortable to the point of pain.

Make sure you really get her sexual arousal in gear before you even think about stimulating her breasts.

(Here’s a quick tip that may help boost your chances of pulling it off.)

Don’t go straight to the nipples.

Sure this move may be a staple in porn movies, but doing this when things get hot in the bedroom in real life will just lead to disaster.

See, pleasuring the nipples before a woman is totally sexually aroused will only feel sore and rough for her. And that’s even if you’re already pulling out all the stops during the action.

Keep in mind to really get her going first before you start the nipple action.

Vary your stimulation techniques.

Most men tend to stick to a single stimulation technique when they’re getting busy with the breasts.

Now while your lover may enjoy it when you lick them in a certain way, simply sticking to one stimulation technique will just make the whole experience flat and boring in the long run.

Make it a point to go for different styles of stimulation when you’re at it and you’ll be surprised with the results.

Up the ante on the pleasure levels by licking, kissing and simply mixing things up when you’re busy with her breasts.

Remember to have dramatic pauses.

Make sure you pause every so often when you’re already stimulating your partner’s breasts.

Besides making her feel teased, which just pumps up her excitement levels, it will also keep her on her toes as you go along.

Remember to keep these pauses unpredictable, too, so she won’t think that there’s a pattern and feel like things are getting repetitive.

Fingering do's you should keep in mind.

Fingering do’s you should keep in mind.

When it comes to sex, fingering your lover is definitely something you should have in your checklist.

It doesn’t just help you stave off premature ejaculation, but also gives you added control and variation when you’re already getting busy south of her border.

And when she’s experiencing loads and loads of pleasurable sensations while you’re at it, it won’t be that tricky to make her reach orgasm during the action.

How cool is that?

But the thing is a lot of men tend to overlook some key pointers that they need to have up their sleeve when they’re already fingering their partners. Let me explain what I mean…

Get her really fired up.

Unlike what you see in porn, fingering a woman isn’t about making a beeline for her vagina as soon as the action starts and stimulating her like there’s no tomorrow.

You need to get your lover really fired up for sex first before you get busy down under.

Besides making her wet down there, the vagina and clitoris needs to be activated properly before they can produce pleasurable sensations.

Clean your fingernails.

Sure the vagina may be capable of churning out loads of pleasurable sensations when it’s stimulated, but their performance can be disrupted when your fingernails are unkempt.

Apart from making her feel rough and sore, the gunk that can be under them can also pose a health risk to your partner in the process.

Make it a point to keep your fingernails trim and clean and you’re sure to give her an awesome experience.

Start at the sides.

Remember the time I told you about erogenous zones needing to be activated properly first before they can churn out pleasurable sensations?

Starting at the sides helps get the vagina going. And it’s going to give her a teasing effect on her, too.

Let her guide you.

Now while you may be the one doing most of the work when you’re fingering her, don’t overlook the fact that your partner is the one who can really give you directions on how to take her pleasure levels off the charts.

You’ll be surprised with the results when you let her call the shots, too.

Get a rhythm going.

Never stick to one style of stimulation when you’re fingering her. Make it a point to vary your techniques as you go along.

Apart from keeping her on her toes, you’re also going to cover a lot of sensitive nerve endings while at it.

 

Keep these first date tips in mind to really dazzle her.

Keep these first date tips in mind to really dazzle her.

Acing a first isn’t something that you can pull off with some “secret technique” like what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are suggesting.

 

But the thing is I’ve come across a number of useful pointers on how to boost your chances of doing just that during my extensive research into the female psychology.

So if you’re looking to really dazzle the woman you’re going out with on a first date, make sure you read on to learn more…

Keep an eye on your grooming.

I know this sounds simplistic right now, but not making your overall grooming a priority in your first date checklist is just going to lead to disaster before the whole thing even starts.

See, women are very particular with how you look and smell. If you arrive with a hastily prepared getup and a funky odor, she’s just going to feel anxious around you.

Let her in on the planning.

Sure the norm is men should be the ones taking care of a first date’s details, but you’ll have a bigger chance of making it successful if you ask her for her inputs.

Besides making her feel that you’re really into her, you’re also going to get in on some bits and pieces about her that you can use to earn some brownie points along the way.

Punctuality is essential.

I’ve learned during my research into the female psychology that one of the things that women find upsetting when they’re going on a first date is the guy showing up late.

This is because they get the notion that you’re irresponsible and have no time management skills, which get their stress levels going.

And you don’t want that to happen.

Ask trivial stuff.

Never try engaging a woman in a conversation with something that’s complicated just because you’re looking to give her the impression that you are smart.

You’ll be surprised with how much eager she’ll be to exchange ideas with you when you ask her something simple like what’s her favorite cartoon character is or perhaps what TV show she’s following these days.

Keep your hands out in the open.

According to a study, women tend to be more comfortable around guys who give them the notion that they’re open and honest.

One way of doing this is keeping your hands in full view most of the time since this gesture gives their subconscious that you’re not hiding anything from her.