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You'll blow your chances at a second date when you do these.

You’ll blow your chances at a second date when you do these.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are scoring a second date with the woman you’ve got your eye on is the top item in your checklist as soon as she agrees to go out with you.

Sure you may have heard how self-proclaimed “dating gurus” say that pulling off just that is as easy as doing a few almost magical things, but I think that it’s all bull.

Now while I won’t be giving pointers on how to convince a woman to go on a second date with you in the future (because that’s entirely up to you), I’ll just share a few mistakes I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that can keep her from saying yes when you do ask her.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

You don’t let her in on the planning.

Although the norm when it comes to first dates is that the guy should be the one planning the whole thing, you’re definitely missing out on a lot of brownie points when you don’t ask her for some inputs like  where she wants to go or the food and drinks she prefers.

See, besides making your date feel that you’re really into her, you’ll also know a few things about her that you can use to your advantage sooner or later.

You arrive late.

Even showing up 5 minutes late on a date will already make a woman feel that you’re not really interested in her.

And just to top the whole thing off, she’s also going to think that you don’t have the right time management skills, which makes her feel anxious. Just imagine how your first date will turn out when she feels this way.

You don’t plan your outfit.

Dress to impress is the way to go when you’re going out with a woman for the first time. Keep in mind to give her the notion that you’ve got a mature fashion sense and you’re on your way to making her feel comfortable around you.

You know how women are very much into fashion, right?

You don’t ask trivial questions.

Knowing how to break the ice is crucial if you’re looking to engage a woman in a meaningful conversation and eventually convince her to go out again with you.

Starting things off with serious topics like politics and the economy won’t cut it, no matter how intelligent you think you’ll look. Believe me she’ll just think you’re a blowhard.

Go for trivial questions instead. You will be surprised how much eager she’ll open up to you.

You don’t maintain eye contact.

Not having appropriate eye contact with your date will just make you look like a creep. Seriously.

If you’re having a problem getting and maintain proper eye contact, simply focus on the top of the bridge of her nose.

Are your erections getting weaker these days?

Are your erections getting weaker these days?

Of all the attributes that you consider manly, chances are achieving a strong and lasting erection is on the top of your checklist.

Besides being a sign that you’re ready to rock and roll in the bedroom with a woman and knock her socks off with loads of pleasurable sensations, you’re also going to be in for an awesome time as well while at it.

But there’s just one setback…

You’re simply noticing that you are not getting hard like you used to these days.

Now while this problem can be rather upsetting, there’s no need to worry just yet or perhaps reach for artificial products like gels, creams and pills that claim to bring back the power and intensity of your erections.

Chances are you’re only making the following mistakes that prevent your body from really rising up to the occasion…

You don’t drink lots of water.

For starters, having ideal circulation is a necessity when it comes to rising up to the occasion during sexual arousal.

The erectile tissues in the penis need to absorb all the blood they need to firm up. Unless the ideal amount of circulation is directed to them, you will either have a weak erection or not get hard at all.

Making sure you drink 6 to 8 glasses of water daily keeps your blood channels in tiptop shape.

Your regular diet isn’t healthy.

What you load up in a regular basis makes or breaks your chances of getting rock hard on demand.

See, you’re going to have quality erections if you eat and drink the good stuff like fresh fruits, vegetables and loads of fiber. The opposite happens when you mostly go for edibles that aren’t good for you.

You light up when you feel the urge.

Cigarette smoke contains all sorts of harmful chemicals like carbon monoxide and butane that can significantly impair the function and suppleness of veins, arteries and blood vessels.

Sure lighting up when you feel stressed or looking to “think clearer” can be a good idea, but it’s actually one of the worst habits – especially in terms of your erections.

Apart from the chemicals that can sap your erection, your lungs and other vital organs could be at risk when you smoke habitually as well.

You miss out on exercise.

Sweating it out as often as you can keeps your heart in the pink, which oversees the more than usual amount of circulation that’s needed to give the erectile tissues in the penis the blood they need to rock and roll.

Try doing low-impact exercises like jogging and biking for at least 15 minutes daily and you’ll see a difference.

Boosting your sexual stamina isn't tricky at all.

Boosting your sexual stamina isn’t tricky at all.

When it comes to sex, lasting for as long as you can when the action’s going on between the sheets is definitely a priority in your checklist.

Apart from boosting your chances of making your partner reach the Big O as you go along, you’re also going to be in for some loads and loads of pleasurable sensations yourself in the process.

Sure a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying that doing just that involves getting your hands on gels, capsules, pills and other artificial stuff, but chances are they’re just pulling your leg.

Why not check out the rest of this post to find out some simple and natural ways to pull the whole thing off that I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male sexuality?

Exercise is key.

Sweating it out basically offers two key awesome benefits…

First, it keeps the heart in tiptop shape so it won’t have a problem getting in action when things in extra steamy between the sheets and second, your body is going to be more getting used to being engaged in an intense physical activity.

Moreover, it will also help you earn some brownie points when it comes to aesthetics, too.

Nourish yourself with the right stuff.

What you load up on in a regular basis can make or break your sexual stamina.

When you go for healthy stuff like fresh fruits, vegetables, and similar edibles, your body will have the essential vitamins and minerals it needs to function ideally during lovemaking.

However, when your regular diet mostly consists of unhealthy options, it’s going to take its toll on your body sooner or later.

And you’ll suffer the consequences during your sex session.

Hydration is crucial.

Keeping your body hydrated not just helps maintain the suppleness of your blood channels that ensures you’re going to get rock hard on demand, but will also maintain the elasticity of your muscles and tissues in the process.

Downing at least 6 to 8 glasses of water or fresh fruit juices will do the trick.

Moderation is the way to go.

Always remember that having a maximum of two servings of your favorite brew each day gives you your dose of alcohol, but won’t lead to problems like your erections getting weaker and finding it difficult to get sexually aroused in the long run.

And before you thinking about lighting up, that habit’s just going to lead to serious sexual health issues before you know it.

ice Prolong your sexual action with these simple pointers.

ice Prolong your sexual action with these simple pointers.

I’m pretty sure that lasting for as long as possible when the action is hot in the bedroom is one of your top sexual priorities.

Apart from knocking your lover’s socks off with loads and loads of pleasurable sensations, her chances of achieving an orgasm or two as you go along are also going to be higher.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that you are coming way sooner than you’d like to during lovemaking these days.

Now while this problem may be rather upsetting, there’s really no need to reach for pills, creams, gels and other artificial stuff that promise to extend your playing time between the sheets.

I’ve learned a few simple and natural techniques during my extensive research into the male sexuality that you can keep in mind to stave off premature ejaculation. Make sure you follow along to learn more…

Don’t worry.

I know this sounds quite surprising to be even on this list, but worrying that you’re going to come too soon when you and your partner are looking to get things extra steamy in bed is going to promote the release of stress hormones.

These hormones just disrupt the functions of their positive counterparts and their effects include making your erections unpredictable and premature ejaculation.

Your mindset is to pleasure her.

A lot of guys tend to forget that they should put the pleasure of their partners first before theirs during a sex session. This leads to them getting carried away during the action and making them come sooner.

Start slow.

Your body activates its orgasmic and ejaculatory responses as soon as the levels of positive hormones reach their peak during sexual arousal. Going slow and easy prevents them from accumulating quickly and ending your lovemaking session.

Pleasure her using other means.

Make it a point to use other means of stimulation during sex like fingering and oral action. Don’t focus too much on penile stimulation since overdoing it can make you prone to coming too soon.

(Here’s a useful fingering pointer you can use that will help blow her mind.)

Have a rhythm to your thrusts.

Most men tend to think that thrusting is all about pumping like there’s no tomorrow. Time your thrusts so your body can regulate the amount of positive hormones that it’s releasing. You can try thrusting quickly three times then take it down a notch for the next two.