Fingering Pointers You Shouldn’t Miss Out On

Fingering do's you should keep in mind.

Fingering do’s you should keep in mind.

When it comes to sex, fingering your lover is definitely something you should have in your checklist.

It doesn’t just help you stave off premature ejaculation, but also gives you added control and variation when you’re already getting busy south of her border.

And when she’s experiencing loads and loads of pleasurable sensations while you’re at it, it won’t be that tricky to make her reach orgasm during the action.

How cool is that?

But the thing is a lot of men tend to overlook some key pointers that they need to have up their sleeve when they’re already fingering their partners. Let me explain what I mean…

Get her really fired up.

Unlike what you see in porn, fingering a woman isn’t about making a beeline for her vagina as soon as the action starts and stimulating her like there’s no tomorrow.

You need to get your lover really fired up for sex first before you get busy down under.

Besides making her wet down there, the vagina and clitoris needs to be activated properly before they can produce pleasurable sensations.

Clean your fingernails.

Sure the vagina may be capable of churning out loads of pleasurable sensations when it’s stimulated, but their performance can be disrupted when your fingernails are unkempt.

Apart from making her feel rough and sore, the gunk that can be under them can also pose a health risk to your partner in the process.

Make it a point to keep your fingernails trim and clean and you’re sure to give her an awesome experience.

Start at the sides.

Remember the time I told you about erogenous zones needing to be activated properly first before they can churn out pleasurable sensations?

Starting at the sides helps get the vagina going. And it’s going to give her a teasing effect on her, too.

Let her guide you.

Now while you may be the one doing most of the work when you’re fingering her, don’t overlook the fact that your partner is the one who can really give you directions on how to take her pleasure levels off the charts.

You’ll be surprised with the results when you let her call the shots, too.

Get a rhythm going.

Never stick to one style of stimulation when you’re fingering her. Make it a point to vary your techniques as you go along.

Apart from keeping her on her toes, you’re also going to cover a lot of sensitive nerve endings while at it.

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